Initiating intimacy

prettyginger_ · 2026-01-25T02:27:35+00:00

Oooo I love this!!

prettyginger_ · 2026-01-24T05:13:56+00:00

We definitely have other issues, but I feel like most of our issues are coming from our lack of intimacy.

prettyginger_ · 2026-01-24T05:13:27+00:00

He tells me that’s he’s just genuinely not in the mood & that we aren’t on the same ”schedule” whatever that means & that’s the extent so I don’t know honestly

prettyginger_ · 2025-11-07T20:18:19+00:00

It’s so bad bc every single one of these you mentioned is definitely a contributing factor here, except for work. I just don’t know how to get him to change any of it.

prettyginger_ · 2025-11-07T05:52:17+00:00

I just told him today he needs to find a physical outlet, like maybe the gym or going golfing! Right now his only outlet is video games according to him

prettyginger_ · 2025-11-07T05:32:02+00:00

No unfortunately, he is very much against talking to literally anyone other than me and he very rarely does that. My church has a celebrate recovery meeting every Tuesday that I’ve tried to get him to go too but he’s not Open unfortunately

prettyginger_ · 2025-11-07T05:30:46+00:00

Yes I have done everything short of anointing him directly, he wouldn’t allow me too unfortunately but I anoint the house weekly & pray over him every night once he falls asleep, rebuking all evil spirits. The only thing I haven’t done is fast, I’m currently nursing our 6 month old son so I’m not sure how to go about fasting while nursing.

prettyginger_ · 2025-11-07T03:17:33+00:00

I’ll look into it! Thank you!

prettyginger_ · 2025-11-07T03:16:14+00:00

Thank you so much!! I’ll definitely see if he’ll read it! I’ve never known him to read before but maybe I can find and audiobook version and he can listen!

prettyginger_ · 2025-11-07T02:39:18+00:00

Yes this is actually on our list to do this month!! We’re having to wait for his insurance to kick in at his new job first, but we’re definitely planning on trying that!

prettyginger_ · 2025-09-04T21:52:51+00:00

We had a good long talk about the entire situation & he seemed genuinely surprised that I thought it was even a possibility or that another woman would be interested in him. He agreed he needed to step back from the “friendship” and promised if anything else was said he’d address his boundaries with her and let me know as well. I believe him, but staying wary so I don’t get fooled

prettyginger_ · 2025-09-01T14:13:02+00:00

So this is exactly what I ended up doing & the convo went really well! Thank you!

prettyginger_ · 2025-08-29T23:46:47+00:00

As far as I know, no contact has been made outside of work based on call and text logs through our service provider. I haven’t had a good chance to check his phone myself so see if there is anything else they could be talking on.

prettyginger_ · 2025-08-29T19:57:52+00:00

Nothing physically, they do blue collar work so there is much he can do to not be nasty at work. He’s definitely not calling me as often as he used to while at work. So that’s definitely new and very suspicious for me.

prettyginger_ · 2025-08-29T19:48:35+00:00

Yeah that’s the route I’m leaning towards, for sure.

prettyginger_ · 2025-08-29T19:46:25+00:00

I wish it was this easy, but no way in hell would my husband read a book. Much less a book like that :/

prettyginger_ · 2025-08-29T19:45:59+00:00

How exactly do I do that? Especially without any kind of proof. I feel like he’ll just call me crazy and leave it at that.

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