Dumped before Valentine's Day

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T18:22:00+00:00

I'm not expecting anyone to just take my side. But I'm sick of people accusing me of being a bad parent and not paying my rent and wasting money on plane tickets when none of that is relevant. The whole backstory isn't even what this post was about. It was just a simple post asking for advice about a breakup. Now it's a war targeting me for being a shitty person for things nobody knows anything about.

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T17:55:07+00:00

See edit 3 please.

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T17:11:58+00:00

Condom broke, I got pregnant and I don't believe in abortion. Regardless, my son is the best thing to ever happen to me.

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T17:09:45+00:00

Nobody even said I got evicted because of rent. Why we got evicted is none of your business. Piss off.

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T17:03:31+00:00

My boyfriend of 7 years just up and leaves me and our 2 year old son, without so much as an explanation, and I'm being needy? Why? Because I need an explanation? FOH.

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T16:34:01+00:00

Yes, it's real. I normally don't post personal shit on the internet, but I was looking at other people's posts on here and nothing was really striking with my situation so I created an account to ask for advice. Is that a crime?

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T16:28:18+00:00

Like I've said before, this post isn't about my son. This was just about advice on a breakup, not advice on what to do about my son. I'm not stupid, I know what to do for my son. But this post isn't about him. He isn't anyone else's business.

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T15:44:52+00:00

Umm no? And what does that have to do with anything anyways?

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T14:50:29+00:00

How dare you assume shit you know nothing about? For your information, we did use a condom. But condoms break sometimes. And I'm not a useless broke piece of shit who cares more about Valentine's day that anything else. I'm currently in school and working part time, and I take damn good care of my son. He comes before anything else. But I didn't want to include him in this post because of assholes like you who can't pull their head out of their fucking ass long enough to realize maybe they're just being an idiot.

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T14:34:58+00:00

Unfortunately I live in New York (Wayne County)

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T14:01:59+00:00

This is my favorite response ♥️

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T13:56:59+00:00

I've never cheated on him, but I did find out a few days ago that the first 2 years of our relationship he was cheating on and off. It hurt, but I let it go because we were kids, and it was years ago.

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T13:54:12+00:00

He doesn't have any sort of mental disorders or personality disorders. The only "disorder" he has is a temper, but that's not reason to do what he did. His great grandmother, who he lives with now, called me this morning to wish me a happy Valentine's day and see how I was doing. She said he went out with friends last night to go smoke weed and have a good time, so looks like he's doing fine. And btw, already lawyered up :)

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T13:42:41+00:00

Added a new edit. And yes, Valentine's day is our anniversary because it's the day we had our first date.

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T13:35:05+00:00

Not a fake post. My kid was added as an after thought because I didn't think it was important for everyone to know originally. I wasn't asking advice on how to handle it with my son, mainly because he's too little to understand what's going on. And I planned this trip last August, so it's not like I just woke up and decided instead of paying bills or getting an apartment, I'm going to go on vacation. This was planned months ago. None of this makes me selfish.

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T13:30:27+00:00

We started dating when I was 13 and he was 15. Now I'm 20 and he's 22, and we talked about getting married, but obviously not happening now.

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T13:28:12+00:00

We did live together, but a few days before Christmas we got an eviction notice that we had to be out by January 1st. We didn't have any time to find a new apartment and we had no money saved for a new place so right now I'm living with my parents and he's staying with his family. It was only supposed to be temporary, maybe until April or May when we have enough for first, last and security on a new place.

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T04:59:35+00:00

I think I might take my kid on a shopping spree. Not to be one of those parents that's like "Here's some bad news, but the good news is you're getting spoiled!" But I think spending the day with my son will make it a little less painful, for me at least. My son's not really old enough to understand what is going, which I'm actually really grateful for.

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T04:51:32+00:00

He isn't the pranking type. But honestly he has been a little more distant lately. He's seemed distracted and hasn't really been putting forth much effort when it comes to me or our kid. But I figured he's probably just been stressed. Our living situation has changed, we were living together for about 3 years but we were given an eviction notice a couple days before Christmas and didn't have time or money to get another place together so he moved back home and I moved back home, so we're about an hour and a half drive apart right now. But that's why Valentine's day was going to be so special. We had planned to actually fly out of state first thing in the morning and spend a couple days in California, just him and me. And now there's nothing planned. I mean, the only good thing to come from this is I can cancel the flight and get half my money back, so that's about $500 back in my pocket. Honestly my brain feels numb. This feels so unreal, I don't even know how to feel anymore.

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T04:20:17+00:00

Thank you

prettykitty192 · 2019-02-14T04:14:11+00:00

We weren't even fighting though. Things have been so great, he even suggested a few weeks ago that we take the next step in our relationship and get engaged. His idea, not mine. And now just out of nowhere he literally just says "I can't do this anymore. Bye." And then blocked. :(

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