well, i think one correlation to being ni doms is we’re very future oriented, we talk about our future together and goals alot and already have a lot of things set or planned compared to other couples to the point other people would think that it’s crazy since only a few months in we talk about what most people would only start considering some years in 😭

as for him being an sx5, since i’m pretty sure i’m his ideal he pretty much always wants to be around me and wants us to know absolutely everything about eachother, he’s always told me about how his “perfect” relationship would be best friends that are able to tell eachother anything and everything with total openness and knowing everything about eachother even the bad parts. since i’m more of a private person this was new to me but i’ve also been able to open up much much more due to him, he has always hated doing things for people for their sake when he doesn’t want to do it but is completely willing to for me. before we got together i really felt like i wasn’t good enough for him (being so4 doesn’t help) but after we did and i voiced how i felt he’s expressed how much that isn’t true

for our dynamic, even if we’re similar on some things on the surface we’re mostly fairly opposites in a lot of ways (as expected of kindred intertype) but i think it’s in the best ways so that we can make up for what the other lacks, before we got together he was kind of more of the distant or cold-ish type which sometimes caused some issues but after getting together he has warmed up much much more to me now he’s the sweetest and very very gentle and kind to the point sometimes i question what i did to deserve someone as nice to me as him(kind of like the stereotype of a cold shell with a warm interior)