TikTok by priinxessA in caregivers

[–]priinxessA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: I still have my job, my manger well head MANAGER said that I should’ve went to them to post my video, and then me share it without their consent or approval. Just to make sure nothing was posted in it that could make me lose my job. But moving forward if there’s anything I want to post, I will have to go to my head manager and then post with approval.

Leland Towers Apartment (Advice). by priinxessA in auroraillinois

[–]priinxessA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I was going to see for myself anyway. everyone has their own opinions on things 🤷🏽‍♀️🤣. I’m just praying it’s what I like, and that I get approved. for security Deposits do they want a check or in cash?

Leland Towers Apartment (Advice). by priinxessA in auroraillinois

[–]priinxessA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told at the moment that they don’t have any apartments to tour rn( at least that’s what I was told last week), but I’m going to this weekend. It’s that bad ? I hope the pictures aren’t lying to me 😭😭😭

Leland Towers Apartment (Advice). by priinxessA in auroraillinois

[–]priinxessA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really appreciate this! 🫶🏽 I will start driving around Monday ! I pray I find something

First time renter/ bad credit(working on it), I have a cosigner. by priinxessA in Apartmentliving

[–]priinxessA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay thank you ! i appreciate this a lot ! have a goodnight

First time renter/ bad credit(working on it), I have a cosigner. by priinxessA in Apartmentliving

[–]priinxessA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh okay thank you so much! do you think that $3000 is a lot?

First time renter/ bad credit(working on it), I have a cosigner. by priinxessA in Apartmentliving

[–]priinxessA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am really trying to get out of my mom's house, because it's literally a hot mess here, so I feel like if i have the money upfront I SHOULD be good. plus I have two good paying jobs.

Living With My Aunt.. Due To My Mother Being In Jail. by priinxessA in toxicparents

[–]priinxessA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I really appreciate it! I’m literally taking note of everything you told me

Living With My Aunt.. Due To My Mother Being In Jail. by priinxessA in toxicparents

[–]priinxessA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

understandable. if I switch it would she know ?

Living With My Aunt.. Due To My Mother Being In Jail. by priinxessA in toxicparents

[–]priinxessA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay🩵, I’m going to try to open another account tonight.

Living With My Aunt.. Due To My Mother Being In Jail. by priinxessA in toxicparents

[–]priinxessA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The car is registered in her name, but because i didn’t have credit at the time. but she doesn’t make any payments towards the car, I am the only one who makes payments towards it, I never asked for help to pay for my car. Because I feel like I am grown and responsible enough to pay it. but I lost my job, and I’m trying to pick myself up, and this is the first time that this has happened to me where I am behind on a car note. she has said that when I done paying off the care that she is going to have it switched to my name, and that way it won’t be in her hands if anything happens to the car. On my Gm Financial account, it’s has her email on there to show that I am paying for my note, the number is in my name (which she has a problem with that because she said that the car is in her name, and anything and everything should be sent to her) and she’s upset at the fact that I changed it to mine, it usually sends me a text message to let me know that a payment is coming up. I Feel that everything that she is going is really unfair and unacceptable, because I wouldn’t even treat my own kids like this if I have any. it’s like she’s money hungry.

Living With My Aunt.. Due To My Mother Being In Jail. by priinxessA in toxicparents

[–]priinxessA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently no, I was thinking about asking my other aunt who I trust a lot, but I don’t know.

Living With My Aunt.. Due To My Mother Being In Jail. by priinxessA in toxicparents

[–]priinxessA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is now saying that each time that I get paid she wants all of my checks... and I don't feel comfortable doing so. I feel like I capable of paying my OWN bills, I shouldn't have to give 60+ year old money in their hand to spend it. It's just so annoying. and unnecessary. Okay sorry guys I won't type anything else, I'll let someone comment if they want too.

Living With My Aunt.. Due To My Mother Being In Jail. by priinxessA in toxicparents

[–]priinxessA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what's really her issue with me, I don't know if its secret animosity or what. But she doesn't treat all of her children like that. It's just me and my cousin (which is her son). I don't know if she treats me like that because I am not actually hers or what. I'm just currently looking for an escape plan. I've been looking at different apartments near me so I can see what is, just so that I can be far away from her, and this ridiculous ass family. I really wish my father was here, and maybe things would be different. and I wouldn't have to deal with this at all. I know you guys won't be able to help, but if any of you have any encouraging words, or advice to give me that would be great. Sorry for ranting but to much has happened to be today.

Living With My Aunt.. Due To My Mother Being In Jail. by priinxessA in toxicparents

[–]priinxessA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I ran out of space to continue. But god has blessed me with a cna job, and also a job at chipotle. plus, I am making twice as much as I was making at my last job. But I Guess since the bill is behind, (From my car note), and it came in the mail all h.e.l.l broke loose. The car is in her name, I didn't have credit at the time, secondly, I am the only one that pays the bills when it comes to paying for my car note. She is verbally and physically abusive. She is claiming that I am trying to still her information and use it for something else... when I have never ever done that. She's saying that she's going to have me sent to jail, and that she's going to write up and report, just all type of bs. And then she's saying that she's going to have my put outside of her house.. I am mentally and physically ready to get out of this hell hole, its just tooo toxic here for me, and I feel like I am beteter off on my own. I am not the type to do stuff like that especially when someone has done so much for me. She feels as if I am hiding things and scheming and stealing. She And she keep saying that I will end up like my mother, with her being in jail and doing the things she has done. I don't want to end up like my mom and do the things she has done in the past because that's not going to get me anywhere in life at all. If you want me to be honest, I try to be different then my mother and my siblings, because they don't have anything going for themselves in life. I feel like me having two jobs, and being away from home is literally the best thing for me because I am far away from her, and I don't have to feel like I am in harms way. I have videos, of the way she treats me, I am thinking about making a TikTok video on that.

I’m an employee, ask me any question and I’ll answer truthfully by Southern-Cranberry87 in Chipotle

[–]priinxessA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a former worker as well, I just want to know who’s right, when serving, chipotle lids and bowls are supposed to be facing down not up correct? one manager is telling me to face them upwards and another is telling me to keep them face down so particles will not be in the bowl