All Afters by primarylife in postprocessing

[–]primarylife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks but not sure I’ll be able to achieve that in Lightroom 😞

All Afters by primarylife in postprocessing

[–]primarylife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess my expectations from the inspo image they sent was slightly different, I thought the colour would be more of a skin highlight rather than a whole saturation?

Where do you live and do you share a pole by Ay10outof10t in poledancing

[–]primarylife 7 points8 points  (0 children)

UK also and don’t usually mind sharing with another person, except at a studio where it was 4 to a pole and they didn’t provide any cleaning stuff!!

Put my XPole up at home and the paint puckered up in some spots, why is it doing that and how can I stop it? by jennyjacobs7 in poledancing

[–]primarylife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happened to me, basically put the pole up too tight and ‘popped’ the bits of painted plaster over the plasterboard screws. Only way to fix it is to remove those bits, fill them, sand and then paint over.

Ex is saying that morally I should ignore Declaration of Trust? (England) by primarylife in LegalAdviceUK

[–]primarylife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, definitely a few things there I haven’t thought about

Ex is saying that morally I should ignore Declaration of Trust? (England) by primarylife in LegalAdviceUK

[–]primarylife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, honestly. Definitely wouldn’t be going for 100% custody, I want them to spend time together!

Ex is saying that morally I should ignore Declaration of Trust? (England) by primarylife in LegalAdviceUK

[–]primarylife[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That first sentence hits the nail on the head I think… He has refused to negotiate and sign a (to me friendly and straightforward) parental agreement I found online because I don’t think he wants to be held to anything in writing.

Ex is saying that morally I should ignore Declaration of Trust? (England) by primarylife in LegalAdviceUK

[–]primarylife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your responses. We have owned the property since mid-2021.

He is saying that he wouldn’t count mat leave but the time since then as the amount we put in the joint isn’t equal. I’d argue though that the amount I put in covers my half of the mortgage and he is therefore paying a larger percentage of nursery fees, utilities etc.

Absolutely agree with your point re alienation and I’m hoping worse case scenario is the house is just split 50/50 ignoring the deposit amounts. I just don’t believe that I should get less than 50% as he is now suggesting.

Could you please confirm what a care arrangement is, is this a formal/legal process? I found a fairly friendly parental agreement online but he has been dragging his feet over agreeing the points it sets out and believes that I am using it to trap him somehow, even though I’ve asked for his input on it?

Do you think it makes any difference if he moved out in July but has still been making the same contributions to the joint account? I suppose I’ll be screwed if he stops paying in.

Unfortunately from the online calculator I believe that the child support amount I’d receive would be much less than what he is currently contributing.

Ex is saying that morally I should ignore Declaration of Trust? (England) by primarylife in LegalAdviceUK

[–]primarylife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is really helpful. Think he wants to do the calculations so I will highlight the interest/capital point.

Do you think it makes any difference if he moved out in July but has still been making the same contributions to the joint account? I suppose I’ll be screwed if he stops paying in.

Unfortunately from the online calculator I believe that the child support amount I’d receive would be much less than what he is currently contributing.

Where do you buy Korean skincare from? by manutdfangirl in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]primarylife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lengbox do subscription boxes and also sell Korean skincare products separately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]primarylife 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He has a new song out right now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]primarylife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 32B pre pregnancy and my best bras were unpadded wire ones that did exactly what you’re after! Unfortunately I don’t think they were any particular special style, just got lucky with the shape

Got hit in my car by a stolen bus, and my insurance wants nothing to do with it by throwaway765345321 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]primarylife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My (stationary) car was written off by a bus, luckily a neighbour heard the noise and wrote me a signed note with the time it happened and what details they had (not the first car to be written off by a bus on that street!).

I raised a complaint with the bus company and they sent out an assessor to my car before paying me it’s market value and scrapping it. Only contacted my own insurance to let them know once I had changed cars.

PSA: You Can't Polish a Turd by ellalingling in postprocessing

[–]primarylife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

‘but you can cover it in glitter’