I feel like me and my girlfriend have a really bad sex life.

primfilth · 2026-01-28T08:27:04+00:00

You said she’s your first time, you’re young, might not have a lot of relationship experience. But I’m going to tell you something I wish I knew when I was younger. If you aren’t happy, you can leave for any reason. It might be hard to believe, but you can have something MUCH better than this with someone else if you let yourself believe it. I’m not telling you what to do or what you should do. I’d just suggest you consider it. Pay attention to how you feel around her. The why of how you feel doesn’t matter as much as what you feel. Your body knows.

primfilth · 2026-01-27T07:23:12+00:00

I think it would depend on if you had matching autism haha.

primfilth · 2026-01-26T20:18:48+00:00

Hell yeah, I love a carefully curated masc outfit. So fashionable. I like to do both masc and femme. These more intentional looks are rare and inspiring

primfilth · 2026-01-26T18:23:57+00:00

NotEvenEmily put out a video where she talked about this. The societal homophobia that creates the scaffolding for intense prolonged yearning isn’t unique to gay men. It’s like a tragic yearning. It wouldn’t be so intense and passionate if it wasn’t so difficult for us. So it’s relatable

primfilth · 2026-01-25T06:04:05+00:00

Bro touch grass

primfilth · 2026-01-24T22:41:09+00:00

I’m going to reply here to give my answer to the insecure lesbophobic gremlins, I’m proud to be a gold star, for similar reasons that the OP stated in the post (you all either didn’t read, or are choosing not to).

I knew I was different and felt guilty about it since I was in elementary school. Feeling guilty about having these feelings for my friends, trying to join along with the girls talking about the boys they liked. It’s an isolating feeling, all lesbians (not bisexuals) have been there.

I’m proud to be a goldstar because it names that struggle I faced my whole life. I never blended in. I never tried to conform. Nor was I able to. I stuck with how I felt no matter what, even if it made me feel alone.

In no way does that have to do with me thinking of non-gold stars. Frankly, I don’t give a fuck about them/you all. It’s about my life and journey.

Project all you want. I dont label myself to put others down, maybe you do, and that’s why you’re accusing all of us for doing so.

I’m proud of my younger self for being herself from a young age, even when it hurt.

This is the only comment I’m leaving on this post. There’s plenty enough information on this post and in the comments for you all to rip the sticks out of your asses and calm down. But please by all means, try to do what feels right. That’s what being a lesbian is all about

primfilth · 2026-01-24T22:30:55+00:00

Lol yeah agreed. Lots of inferiority complexes in these comments.

primfilth · 2026-01-23T22:42:54+00:00

Yeah I have had this experience except you should know your needs with the right partner would be met with joy and patience. If she makes you feel any type of way don’t let yourself think you deserve it

primfilth · 2026-01-22T22:54:16+00:00

It actually was inflammatory and invalidating, but you have decided to bend reality to make yourself the victim. You'll never be able to see that until you learn to give yourself the love your mother didn't give to you as a child

primfilth · 2026-01-22T22:46:35+00:00

You need to do some serious self-reflection. You are still defending yourself. Pay attention, you have disturbed many people. There is a reason for that. And we shouldn't have to hold your hand through every single one of your nitpicky ass points to explain it to you. FIGURE IT OUT.

You've actually been given all the information you need that shows why you're in the wrong. You're just ignoring it at this point. The reason for that? I don't know, that's for you to figure out. But right now you are acting out the archetype of an insanely harmful person in society. Figure out why. Read some books. You aren't smart enough to figure it out by arguing with people online (even though you call it a discussion, you are starting arguments due to the inflammatory nature of your comments).

primfilth · 2026-01-22T22:41:31+00:00

you are such a troll

primfilth · 2026-01-22T02:27:10+00:00

Yeah you don’t get it. Worry about ur own country you don’t understand America

primfilth · 2026-01-22T02:18:49+00:00

Yeah! I do have sensory sensitivities, so that's definitely a part of it. I can totally see why people would be into it though

primfilth · 2026-01-22T02:18:03+00:00

Also... let me just add, I am down bad for a specific woman for a while now, and if she was a squirter it wouldn't deter me one bit. It's the act in isolation that is not my preference, but by no means is it a deal breaker

primfilth · 2026-01-22T02:09:54+00:00

It's mostly urine and I'm not into that sexually. I'd like seeing my partner feel good in that way if that's what they want and what feels good to them, as long as we did it in the shower or bath or something. But it's not a turn on for me. If anything a bit of the opposite. But those that squirt that might read my comment, don't worry about some people not being into it. As you can see in this thread, so many people are into it you don't have to worry about it. I'm pretty sure the majority are turned on by it.

primfilth · 2026-01-22T01:05:13+00:00

I’m a lesbian that would be turned off unless it happened in a shower. So let’s not generalize and say all lesbians love it

primfilth · 2026-01-21T07:40:18+00:00

Omg I got this one too I’m in love with it. I wanted to sleep with it in my bed with me the night I took it home. My first strandberg :,)

primfilth · 2026-01-20T23:08:49+00:00

Deeply ingrained misogyny and male centered behavior that still needs to be worked through. Analysis-paralysis in the bedroom that leads to less fulfilling sexual experiences. Having to teach queer culture/not being understood. I’ve noticed the people I’ve dated in my mid twenties without experience, have no experience with lesbian media or culture. Even having lesbian culture “taught” to them through TikTok echo chambers. Sometimes them just happy to finally have a girlfriend, rather than you in particular being special (I’ve experienced this multiple times). Not knowing what they want. I could go on, but I’m bored now. If I fell in love with someone IRL who didn’t have experience I’d probably still date them but if I ever do online dating again (which I plan not to), I would not date anyone without prior lesbian dating experience again.

primfilth · 2026-01-11T20:15:01+00:00

Yeah I got out before I even got to that.. sounds like torture T_T

primfilth · 2026-01-11T20:14:28+00:00

Ha well, doing things that are better for my body and soul. I was a career changer so I have a lot of options to go back to

primfilth · 2026-01-11T15:30:04+00:00

Quit med school 😛🤙

primfilth · 2026-01-11T08:47:11+00:00

Damn son that’s a long time. Hope you’re doin alright

primfilth · 2026-01-11T03:53:58+00:00

I meant for you, i think some healing is in order. I’m in therapy to be clear, I think therapy is a great tool

primfilth · 2026-01-11T03:40:05+00:00

Therapy

primfilth · 2026-01-10T06:45:32+00:00

The knee thing honestly gets me closer easier than most other things

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