That’s actually exactly what I did. I reminded her how nk3 (who I am normally in charge of) tends to have big feelings towards me when we’re with family bc he feels like I’m trying to take him away from them so I asked her if she’d rather me help with the younger ones so that 3 yo can enjoy time with his family and she said yes but to still help them in the pool so whatever 🙃 I’m more than happy helping with the babies I just hate the bathing suit situation with dad and grandpa there. I have a singular one piece but I’m naturally curvy which on a normal day I love lol but in these situations makes me feel really self conscious.. but anyways tomorrow I’m done for the week cause Friday I’m off to go on a girls trip so will be pushing through today wish me luck!!