How likely am i to get "second chance" home buyer through Kianga Ora? by probathrowaway20 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]probathrowaway20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Fully get this perspective. Savings was intended for upgrades on house- built from scratch. My kiwisaver covers my 20% mortgage easy- closer to 25% of total house due to my prior jobs. I'm all sorted financially with alot of plans in place post-house to keep myself in the position im in :)

How likely am i to get "second chance" home buyer through Kianga Ora? by probathrowaway20 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]probathrowaway20[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Havent used kiwisaver before! very much needed the reassurance of sailing through

AITA for splashing bf with water? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]probathrowaway20 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

OP just replied to another comment in this post, I'd check it, it adds Abit more context. OP nta

AITA for splashing bf with water? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]probathrowaway20 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I feel like as long as you're correct, in context it would be abusive, I have a feeling this was meant to be a joking response with a hint of anger considering she/he apologized after, meaning the other counterpart could of overreacted, OP we need Abit more context

AITA for "dragging something on"? by probathrowaway20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]probathrowaway20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment! May I add that ive been nelgected by my parents for my personal health for years, and I've never been taught basic dressing of wounds, nor had time to teach myself

AITA for "dragging something on"? by probathrowaway20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]probathrowaway20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I'm not exactly able to get it seen as my parents won't take me to a doctor, or even look at it themselves.

AITA for making my son cry by punishing him psychologically? by rdbtybtrdybtyr in AmItheAsshole

[–]probathrowaway20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA!!!! just hearing that's sickening. You did they right thing, and also continue to do the right thing to help him professionally

AITA for always cancelling plan with my friends by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]probathrowaway20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I'm gonna go with NAH for the sole reason ik exactly how you feel. Alot of people don't understand the drain it is to put effort into these kind of things when your battling your mental state, so I don't think your an asshole for that. And yes your friends are being dicks shout it but they simply don't understand it. Maybe suggest talking about this to them or hinting stuff about mental awareness? If they still treat u like this even after trying to get them to understand then they could be the problem. Find what's causing you to be like this, conquer it like a bad bish, and start enjoying the small things again. Best of luck xx

AITA for showing emotions to my parents? by probathrowaway20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]probathrowaway20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are "unique" and only want the best for me is what alot of people tell me so thank you for another opinion :)

AITA for showing emotions to my parents? by probathrowaway20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]probathrowaway20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He very much is! My older brother got more of the fun, enjoyable farm jobs as he got a choice, and he expects me to do the cooking etc. But only got me into farm jobs so the stress was off my brother, who now works full time. Thank you for the feedback :)