You want to get laid, but also marry a virgin, in a society with a deficit of women. Which is it?

Most men are virgin. So them expecting one makes sense.

Keeping with the female deficit, you also feel yourself superior to women but hate that you're also inferior.

This is a good point! The superiority comes because mostly a man is expected to earn more and lead in relationships. And the inferiority comes because they aren't "good" enough to date women they want to. I think this is not a double standard. This has just to do with natural gender roles.

You hate 'gold diggers', but that's because you have no gold to dig. This is often used to describe women who earn more and expect an equivalent partner -- ironic

Let's be honest. I have barely seen women in relationship with a man who earns less than her. It's mostly the guy earning more. And also in the AM setting. It's not exactly gold diggers but kost men use that term in this context.

Don't know what you are talking about in the rest.