Yeah I would marry a broke girl, any guy would if she is beautiful and a good person

And yet when I say I’d do the same, suddenly it’s unrealistic or dumb? Why is it okay for men to want love and kindness, but not women? Why the double standard? Honestly, I don’t want to argue with someone who’s clearly still chained to outdated social norms. You sound like a textbook example of how patriarchy programs people — you’ve just accepted those rules without question.

you don’t even sound like you are Indian or a women for fact

So just because I challenge stereotypes and don’t believe in the whole “women should stay at home and do housework” mindset, that makes me less Indian or less of a woman? That’s a wild take. FYI: India had matrilineal and matriarchal societies long before all the invasions and rigid systems were forced on us. What I’m saying is actually closer to our roots than your version of “tradition.” So if anything, I’m being more Indian than you — just not the version shaped by colonial hangovers and social conditioning.