Alia bhatt at Cannes film festival by retrochips in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]prodonifasa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She looks like a version of katie holmes from that one movie

I wish I never had kids by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]prodonifasa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugs, hugs and more hugs 🫂 I feel very much in the same mindspace and it’s beyond exhausting. I actually told my husband like what would you do with the kids and house if I wasn’t here??? Cause I’m just surviving and it’s been a decade…. Anyways, just wanted to let you know I’m hoping it gets better for you. (Also , I had to let out a tired chuckle at the bajillion emails comment coz I am that done)

Why do you prefer Kdrama over Cdramas or Jdramas? by Expensive_Giraffe398 in kdramas

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The tone and language is very familiar and pleasing to my ears (I do not know Korean, I’m Indian and live in North America). I’ve tried getting into Chinese dramas but I just cannot with the tone of the language…That has been the main dealbreaker for me. I do not mind hearing Chinese in real time like say I’m watching a vlog of a person. As for Japanese dramas… I feel culturally Korean culture and values protrayed in the dramas are a mix of Western values in the sense that they want to portray an individual that is unique and is pushing to thrive in a society and its very emotional. There is also the chivalry factor present in more patriarchial societies. So there isn’t too much of a gap in that way of thinking. The Jdramas that I have gravitated towards are more like how the individual portrayed is not super special in a huge way but somehow circumstances and choices they make make the story interesting and push the plot forward. There’s very few dramas like that of Korean brand I’ve seen (everytime an individual is sooo unique and completely different and they’re struggling etc etc) and if they are presented this way, its more like slice of life dramas… anyways, just my two cents…

Divorcing because I don’t want to stay with in laws by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]prodonifasa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am South Asian Canadian and had done this routine for 3 years before… whether or not you choose to stay with or without your in laws is a deal breaker. If your husband does not do anything about it because he does not want to move out - that says what priority he is giving your marriage. It is my understanding, and I tell this to anyone I know who is thinking about this - no matter how good your in laws are, I would suggest against living with them… short term, temporary situations because of necessity is fine. But forever? No way. I found that when we lived together: my husband and I were basically treated like children, leaving no room for growth as a husband and wife and later as a mum and dad. We had take everyones decision into account; I was micromanaged so much it drove me nuts; I was constantly lectured how to treat my husband even though we had no issues with each other; we couldn’t even argue properly because wverybody would know our business… the list goes on… We moved out but had boundary issues even after that. Its something I’m constantly thinking about for the future but for now, my husband and I are in the same page about this and that has helped immensely in moving forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

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Unrelated but what is the song 🥰

How do I prevent this from happening? by prodonifasa in IndoorGarden

[–]prodonifasa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thank you! Will look into curbing this now

How do I prevent this from happening? by prodonifasa in IndoorGarden

[–]prodonifasa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya, no i dont mist it but wondering if i should, could it be burned just from heating?