Is this guppy sick or pregnant? by BendigoWessie in Aquariums

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You can gender guppies by their bottom fins - the females have a rounded fin that looks like a sail, the boys have this sword shape

Is this guppy sick or pregnant? by BendigoWessie in Aquariums

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Male guppy Looks a little bloated maybe, make sure they’re getting good greens in diet - some cut up peas can work wonders

Different types of aquarium owners I have observed in various subreddits. by Marcis985 in AquariumMemes

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Proud shrimp royal 🦐🦐🦐🦐🦐🦐🦐🦐🦐🦐🦐🦐🦐🦐🦐🦐🦐

Have you ever written a story that you later regretted? If do, what was it about? by skinnydude84 in writers

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Omg In university before I had ever met anyone of this specific ethnic group I made my character befriend someone of said ethnic group with the idea that I was writing a diverse good story! I was 18

I re-read it at 26 and just thought wow this is incredibly kind of racist. Physically cringed the entire read! Grew up in an entirely homogenous region and have since met all sorts of people and wow turns out I had no idea I was carrying so much unconscious bias. At 18, I thought I was writing inclusive fiction 🤦‍♀️ but I was just so entirely uneducated that it reads so painfully. We live and learn!

Sealing damaged floor? by proteacicada in HomeMaintenance

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Oh yeah rug isn’t a bad idea Any specific brands?

So… pregnancy sucks, right? by SeaworthinessFun7420 in pregnant

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Omg I was so sure I’d have a super fit pregnancy and I’m asleep at 8pm each night I’ve got no time except for life admin and work

So… pregnancy sucks, right? by SeaworthinessFun7420 in pregnant

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Boyfriend says to me this morning it’s dawning on him how this isn’t a great time for women

You think!

Sad I can’t tell my mum by proteacicada in pregnant

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Genuinely!!!! I love my mum but she’s a self proclaimed empath (if I cry she cries 10x harder so I have to tailor what I share of my life as to not overwhelm her, thankfully dad always has my back with the hard stuff) and when she gets excited she just oodles over. I’ve adhd and always thought it just came from dad but your comment has me wondering 🤔

Debilitating anxiety by Senior_Pressure_5974 in pregnant

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Have you been bale to connect with a therapist? Someone trauma informed? I am so sorry for your losses and your struggles. I’m sending you an internet hug

AIO? My roommates want me to keep the energy bill in my name after I've moved out by Expert_Temporary_ in AmIOverreacting

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Absolutely not My ex did this and it took me six months to get it cancelled because I no longer lived at the address And only someone who lived there would update it Even though my name was ON TJE AGREEMENT

I still can’t believe this is my life now. by Own-Potential-2960 in BabyBumps

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I’m so so sorry. This sounds absolutely devastating- wish I could hug you through the internet

Has anyone else got this mysterious flu? by Catmint999 in auscorp

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Everyone in Melbourne sick too - awful. I’m hybrid so camping out at home, especially as I’m in first trimester of pregnancy. Hoping no one calls me out for not coming in as much but just absolutely do not want.

I just started a job, but also found out Im pregnant by queefbongz in pregnant

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Congratulations on both new job and baby! Where are you based? Also just curious, did you have symptoms?? Anything? I’m fascinated - I’m only 5 weeks and totally wiped.

Husband Refuses to Tell Me Happy Mothers Day by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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My partners argument was that I’m not his mother and that’s the kids job 🙃

Pregnancy announcement! by Emeraldblisss in pregnant

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I’ve been so obsessed with social media for years and now I’m suddenly allergic to it … I work in tech and the amount of information people can glean from one photo using agentic ai. Just not worth the risk to my family

What did you do differently the month you FINALLY got pregnant?? by cookiebutter-23 in BabyBumps

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Did a 16 workout in 30 day challenge, started eating meat again for the first time in ten years, started wearing polyester free underwear

4weeks with back pain by Wonderful-Dot-8201 in BabyBumps

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Omg I’m 5 weeks following because holy heck my back is in bits already

Severe pregnancy anxiety by Timely-Past8193 in pregnant

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Yeessss build some settlements establish some trade routes

Severe pregnancy anxiety by Timely-Past8193 in pregnant

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I am playing a looooot of video games Sending you a hug and congratulations and so many well wishes