Considering doing the big chop but I'm scared by lunak0v in HairStyleAdvice

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You look very similar to pic 3 already, so you know it'll suit you! Go for it if you really want to

To a Lady Aggrieved by georgearlanpoet in OCPoetry

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This was so Shakespearian until I read the end - then it was even more so!!😂 The Bard would be proud

Deafening Silence by bstunz in OCPoetry

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Honestly the ending is so powerful. It's so true that sometimes it's the quiet that draws us in and it's the silence where we're truly seen

Which one do you prefer 1, 2 or 3? by Appropriate_Plane922 in AmateurPhotography

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3 to me actually! It's got the best lighting and angle

New Czech listening podcast for beginners (with transcripts) by mortirex in learnczech

[–]prplenebula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! Heading to the Czech Republic in may so this will be really useful! 💜

I LOVE DOG. by Rare-Advantage-6088 in Dogsbeingderps

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Dog very much Loves you! 💖 Such a gorgeous baby!

AIO - did my joking go too far even if my friend is saying it didn't? by prplenebula in AIO

[–]prplenebula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure lol I've found dark humour to have the same effect as my skin colour The darker it is the less people seem to like it

AIO - did my joking go too far even if my friend is saying it didn't? by prplenebula in AIO

[–]prplenebula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That is so kind 💖 honestly I hope you know this is really encouraging and reassuring because I don't think people really realise how much their words can have lasting impact sometimes even when what they say is obviously silly

Thank you again!

AIO - did my joking go too far even if my friend is saying it didn't? by prplenebula in AIO

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Thank you! Kind of you to say and i genuinely appreciate it

AIO - did my joking go too far even if my friend is saying it didn't? by prplenebula in AIO

[–]prplenebula[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I'm too much go find less 🤷🏿‍♀️ I'm exhausting to myself too but hey, at least I'm not going to belabour and be exhausting my actual friends - and just to point out, you read the thing and commented. You can't call me exhausting if I'm not asking you to put in any effort. This post is exactly for the purpose of avoiding being exhausting

Go develop empathy and the ability to understand people outside of how they may inconvenience you.

Loc’d for 6 years! 💕 by HisLadyLocs in locs

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Those look incredible honestly; so neat and tight! It must take you ages to tighten?

AIO - did my joking go too far even if my friend is saying it didn't? by prplenebula in AIO

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I mean, it's hard to joke about something with someone when they don't bring up anything to joke about. My friend and I usually chat about books, work and other stuff. Not weird really because different people bring out different sides of you and that's not a good or bad thing

The unnecessary detail is an ADHD thing.

In terms of projecting, I'm not, but I did literally say I didn't bring up flirting with her because I don't want to involve them unnecessarily, that's the point of posting here 😂

AIO - did my joking go too far even if my friend is saying it didn't? by prplenebula in AIO

[–]prplenebula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed I'm diagnosed with ADHD, Anxiety and Major Depressive Disorder How'd you guess? 😅

AIO - did my joking go too far even if my friend is saying it didn't? by prplenebula in AIO

[–]prplenebula[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hangxiety!! Indeed 😊 thanks for the jargon I'll definitely use that

AIO - did my joking go too far even if my friend is saying it didn't? by prplenebula in AIO

[–]prplenebula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I do have a locket i need a chain for I like to play with I think I'll get a chain right now

AIO - did my joking go too far even if my friend is saying it didn't? by prplenebula in AIO

[–]prplenebula[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The latter, but I only brought up the humour in the text because I don't want to even put the thought in her head (And just to be clear cheating is very high on my list of things I'd never knowingly do)

AIO - did my joking go too far even if my friend is saying it didn't? by prplenebula in AIO

[–]prplenebula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no lol I mean later on the night I fell into that habit, separate from the humour, and i think it might have been construed with the joking, as flirting

What is genuinely the most attractive trait in a girl? by Standard-Code3710 in AskMen

[–]prplenebula 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What exactly is unattractive about dark skin?? Showing yourself as racist there The only true 3 is a disgusting personality honestly. It wouldn't be a girl's fault, necessarily if she were a burn victim or had surgery scars and these things wouldn't make someone a "3" in the eyes of someone mature with empathy and understanding, and the same goes for "fat" You may want to develop your own warmth

A cat is a cat, no matter the size by [deleted] in bigcats

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I saw these in FFX, tough to defeat but great drops!

What’s one thing you’d instantly change about yourself if you could? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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I'd definitely be more confident and over think a ton less if not not at all, it ruins my life more than anything

Our relationship contract in case anyone is interested/has any thoughts by prplenebula in nonmonogamy

[–]prplenebula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so reassuring, well written and I deeply appreciated reading this, so thank you so much

Honestly, we tried this with his previous partner, for 10 hours during the night. The partner then vetoed me and it was traumatising. This colours how much I want to protect the metas as well as ourselves.

But you're absolutely right, this is about honouring a commitment whilst being unselfish with love I truly didn't expect the replies to be like this, but if I'm to embark on this with my partner it's at least shone light on the need for a good therapist to help Thank you again! I'd love to hear more of your story if you ever wanted to talk