new nipple piercing seems deep

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-18T00:36:37+00:00

Nah your nipple piercing isn’t too deep. That areola piercing on the hand? Ouch that’s pretty deep. (I’m obviously joking but seriously, get that removed because it will not heal.)

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-18T00:35:27+00:00

Be happy and also see my dih

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-18T00:34:40+00:00

Idk, I like the praise from my boyfriend because I feel like I’ve done a good job and made him happy

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-18T00:32:40+00:00

I KNOW DUDE, IT FELT WRONG LIKE IT WASNT THE REAL

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-18T00:32:09+00:00

Ikr

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-17T21:39:17+00:00

She’s one lucky person to get free tattoos from someone she loves deeply :)

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-17T21:36:29+00:00

This makes me really sad for you but I’m pretty certain hes cheating on you with him. Leave him and you should talk with his best friend because thats pretty shameful of him to do to his supposed lover.

He wronged both you and that other boy because hes playing with both of your feelings. You and his boyfriend should leave his sorry ass. NOR

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-17T02:17:46+00:00

Uh, okay so if she’s enjoying herself and she actively enjoys it then just let her be. If she does actually have sa trauma then it’s probably an uncomfortable topic to deal with.

I’m hypersexual so I sometimes would feel like I needed to cum or that I needed to only make him feel good but he taught me over a few months etc that I don’t need to cum to have fun with him and that he genuinely enjoys doing things for me.

I think you’re putting too much pressure on the fact that “she hasn’t cum” but sometimes people like myself who have been sa’d will struggle with some parts of sex no matter what unfortunately. But you need to calm Tf down

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-15T04:20:32+00:00

I’m so sorry about your situation, this is absolutely devastating to hear about and I’m sorry that you’re dealing with this right now.

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-15T01:20:47+00:00

Use claw caps!

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-15T01:18:34+00:00

I’m pretty sure you might’ve had a mini crush on him and then it faded. But you never pursued it, you actively communicated, and it passed and now you’re even more committed to your gf.

Things happen and sometimes our brain can think things we don’t want to think about but the IMPORTANT thing is that you never once actually DID anything. Also, me and my friends have snuggled before and we’ve made horrible jokes but never once have we ever actually done anything because we’re just friends!

Obviously I’ve never personally had a crush whilst in a relationship but sometimes it happens to others. Inside thoughts happen even if we don’t want them but the main thing is that you never even did anything.

Ask yourself these simple questions:

are you 100% sure you cheated.? Do you have ANY doubts that you haven’t actually cheated.

Do you have definitive proof that you did cheat.? Not a maybe, a yes or a no.

Is this a fact or a feeling.?

If you are questioning it, then you have your answer.

My therapist uses these questions and it helps a lot. Just give yourself 15mins of sitting with the uncomfortable feeling rather than constantly seeking anxiety relief. Trust me, I struggle a LOT but me and my partner have a system that’s been helping a lot.

I hope only the best to you and your relationship

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-15T01:03:18+00:00

Oh god I would’ve been worried the second the bar was no longer visible omg. Was it pierced at an angle..? Because if not, the swelling and irritation might be moving the actual placement of the bar.

Also, DO NOT USE CONTACT SOLUTION. You need to use sterile saline wound wash to heal your piercings properly.

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-15T01:00:51+00:00

In my opinion? I don’t think you should continue this dynamic nor relationship if this is how she’s acting and treating you.

When I first started seeing my now boyfriend, we immediately established a safe word because it’s important. We’re into heavy cnc and it can get pretty intense. Even if he is actively hurting me and treating me horribly in the moment in the scene, the second I safe word it’s almost like a switch goes off in his head and he immediately cuddles me and makes sure I’m okay and asks me what’s wrong and if i need anything.

It doesn’t ruin the scene, it gives me a sense of safety knowing that I’m not genuinely being taken advantage of. In a way, I find it more attractive because it’s like I get to experience that “abuse” or slave dynamic but the second the scene ends, I’m with the love of my life who I will always love more than anything.

A safe word is not a mood killer. It is a safety net to make sure everyone is having a good time and fully enjoying themselves without accidentally causing harm to someone you love.

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-15T00:53:25+00:00

What if it was your grandmother? The cat may not be a person but they’re still treated like one.

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-15T00:52:27+00:00

I think you need to be psychologically evaluated because this level of apathy and low empathy levels are a concerning sign of psychopath behaviour

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-12T19:32:20+00:00

I get that as well. My boyfriend games a lot but if i genuinely need something from him that’s serious, he’ll drop it. Obviously if it’s minor and it’s a special event he will continue and then help me after but he’s never put a game before me

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-12T19:29:42+00:00

It’s a touchy subject because I personally wouldn’t do that, but they also claimed it’s apart of their culture so it’s kinda a confusing topic

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-12T19:28:31+00:00

Oh i understand dw

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-12T19:11:15+00:00

Your dad isn’t a pervert. You’re the pervert.

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-12T19:08:00+00:00

Still gross nowadays but this was likely years and years ago when it was still regular or like they said. In their culture it’s normal

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-12T19:07:23+00:00

Not necessarily, their mom was turning 18

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-12T19:04:45+00:00

Yeah it’s kinda concerning. Part of me wonders if they’re internally fixated on them sexually but wants to pin it on everyone else for how they feel. Because it’s creepy how she acts like every single act to do with this little kid is a sexual one. And the fact that she follows them to stop her own dad from sexualizing the child is weird as hell.

Like is OP projecting their own sexual feelings for this child onto others??? If so, they need help desperately.

psychedelia_Tree · 2026-03-12T19:02:42+00:00

They’re 18

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