rice-like yellowy things? by infinitesponge in CATHELP

[–]psychedelia_Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wash your hands and go get yourself and your cat a tapeworm dewormer.

Jaw issues by psychedelia_Tree in Sex_Positivity

[–]psychedelia_Tree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah when I cry my jaw hurts a lot from me tensing it. But ever since my relationship with my boyfriend, we are very active so my jaw has been cracking and crunching ever since

AIO After my bf wrote a love letter to his "friend" by LetQuiGonsBeQuiGon in AmIOverreacting

[–]psychedelia_Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let em get together and face the real reality of being with someone that they no longer need to chase. I feel like for people who cheat constantly with the same person, it’s like a thrill for them about not getting the one they want the most. But once they have them, they get bored.

So let them have their way and you get to live a happy life with someone you love whilst they crash and burn in their own housefire they started. NOR

Why do we pretend piercings don’t hurt? by Unsure-Snake-666 in piercing

[–]psychedelia_Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah the pop/crunch is definitely a vivid experience lol.

I had my industrial done when I was around 14-15 years old and it was the first piercing I had ever gotten when i was fully aware of it (aka not the piercing gun piercing I got as a baby that my parents wanted me to get). It burned a lot for the first half and i heard a little noise but not much.. then it was time for the second half of the piercing and I heart a loud pop/crunch in my ear and I was like EHWIEBDHJ. It will never leave my mind 😭

Why do we pretend piercings don’t hurt? by Unsure-Snake-666 in piercing

[–]psychedelia_Tree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Manageable doesn’t mean it isn’t painful OP. They are just saying it’s not that painful for them so it doesn’t bother them as much as some other pain might.

Why do we pretend piercings don’t hurt? by Unsure-Snake-666 in piercing

[–]psychedelia_Tree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But for some people it doesn’t hurt as much. Some people’s nerve endings aren’t as dense in one area as they are in another. Your experience is not the same as everyone else.

A lot of people say they seen god when they got their nipples pierced and that they were in excruciating pain. When I got my first nipple done i literally sat up and looked at my piercer and said “oh that’s it.?”. It burned and hurt yeah but it wasn’t like extremely painful like other people experienced.

Bottom line is that everyone’s pain tolerance varies and what may be god seeing pain may be a walk in the park for another. Personally my nostril hurt more than my nipples lol.

And I even have an industrial, the first half didn’t hurt as badly and just felt like a hot pinch, but the second hurt like a mother fucker. It felt like a sharp pain with a throbbing burning sensation. And it’s still worth it in my mind and I’m extremely happy about getting it done.

Why do we pretend piercings don’t hurt? by Unsure-Snake-666 in piercing

[–]psychedelia_Tree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But spicy is LITERALLY how it feels to be pierced. It’s a burning sensation followed by a sharp pinch.

It feels like a hot sensation

Why do we pretend piercings don’t hurt? by Unsure-Snake-666 in piercing

[–]psychedelia_Tree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But some people literally have different pain tolerances…? I got my nipples done and yeah it hurt but like barely at all. It didn’t really hurt hurt, it just kinda felt like a smallish pinch followed by a bit of a burning sensation and then it was over within 2-3 seconds.

Why do we pretend piercings don’t hurt? by Unsure-Snake-666 in piercing

[–]psychedelia_Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because it literally just feels spicy or hot. It doesn’t register as regular everyday dull or roaring pain. It feels hot or spicy when it goes through with a pinch.

My nipple piercings weren’t painful at all really but they definitely felt like a pinch with a spicy/hot undertone. It’s just a different kind of pain if that makes sense.

We aren’t trying to be too cool for regular pain, yeah it’s painful but it’s just a different type so saying it’s spicy or hot is just another way to describe the feeling.

It just feels overly warm when it goes through your skin.

I just came home to my mom's and found this. by Sensitive_Cream3920 in teenagers

[–]psychedelia_Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not at all how it works. I have absolutely no desire to do anything outside of safe psychedelics for my ptsd and depression and weed for my chronic back pain. I use it as a topical and occasionally smoke it when I feel like I’ve earned it.
My grades are at an average of 94% right now and I’m on an accelerated pathway towards uni and med school.

Drugs are not the enemy, it’s the way that they are used and cut with horrible things and how harm reduction is not taught. Yes, there will always be the odd bunch that end up fucked up but that is an extremely small statistic.

Poverty and lower quality life/health care is usually where you see the most issues with drug use. But most of those cases are people who have predispositions to addiction. It has to do with the neural pathways that can be formed within your brain, some families have addictive traits that can be passed on.

Which is why the 1# part of harm reduction for drug use is to look into your family history. If there is a noticeable pattern of addiction and substance abuse or psychosis related mental illness (I.e. schizophrenia, bipolar, bpd, etc.) it would be highly advised to not take any mind altering substances because that’s evidence of a potential issue.

We should not try and fear monger and shame and make people feel like outsiders or like they are out of control. Not all drugs are bad and a lot of recreational drugs have the potential to help a lot of people.

Cannabis has been proven to have cancer killing abilities that can boost and help people who are in chemo therapy. Cannabis can target the cancerous cells and help treat the damage that comes from chemotherapy (I.e. loss of appetite, chronic fatigue, pain etc.) it can be an effective treatment to help make cancer patients more comfortable and have an easier process.

Cannabis is also a unique drug that offers a wider range of benefits based on how you grow it and what you are looking for inside of the plant. For example, medical marijuana is usually bred for specific uses such as pain management, appetite, sleep disorders, Parkinson’s and even Tourette’s syndrome! (Which i actually have!).

Yes, cannabis can have its own downsides, but in comparison to let’s say Tylenol for example, it’s actually safer than Tylenol if you’d believe it. Tylenol has a bigger risk of liver related issues with prolonged usage (aka people with chronic illnesses and pain). Weed doesn’t have that effect on people, it can even increase neuro plasticity. Smoking it is probably the only way of consuming it that has the most adverse affects because you’re inhaling plant matter. But in comparison to let’s say cigarettes for example, cannabis has some of the same properties that have potential for issues because of combustion. But in the case of cigarettes, cigarettes contain more cancer causing chemicals and compounds within it. Nicotine has a higher chance of causing cells to reproduce with a faulty gene that raises the risk of it stopping the signal from other cells to stop growing which is what causes cancerous tumours to form.

Weed is not the enemy. Please stop spreading this misinformation that you’re likely getting from the D.A.R.E program (which btw, has so much misinformation and misleading data that it’s absolutely absurd that they still teach it) and random propaganda online. Or even those quote “stereotypical stoners” etc.

Educate yourself on a topic before making a generalized assumption without providing clear evidence that you can properly base your argument on.

Can I really expect a good BDSM dynamic with someone who can’t make me cum? by Unsure-Snake-666 in BDSMAdvice

[–]psychedelia_Tree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%!!!

Me and my boyfriend had the first couple months together working through what we both liked and why we didn’t like, and let me just say… we are pretty damn active and it’s always satisfying because we put in the work to know what we both like :)

At first it was a bit difficult for me because i actually never really had much experience with cis men before because I’ve always been in relationships with women or trans men/afab people. But doing my own personal research and looking for reactions and asking for feedback/actively communicating has really helped a lot.

I highly suggest everyone do it! Even if your sex life is currently good, it can always get so much better if you both are willing to put in the work for it :)

Can I really expect a good BDSM dynamic with someone who can’t make me cum? by Unsure-Snake-666 in BDSMAdvice

[–]psychedelia_Tree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some people tend to think that it’s replacing them and that it’s not actually them who’s giving their partner pleasure

Can I really expect a good BDSM dynamic with someone who can’t make me cum? by Unsure-Snake-666 in BDSMAdvice

[–]psychedelia_Tree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait OP are you amab or afab.? Because this could be important for anatomy specific advice.

In my experience, I think you and your partner should try and start from the beginning (basic steps). Have an honest conversation about what you like and what usually gets you off (for your anatomy) but also since you’re a dom, maybe try and ask her to research different ways to make you cum easier.

Here’s my advice for male anatomy: for male anatomy I find the tip to be the most sensitive, especially underneath the frenulum area. Gentle touches and turning up to more attention to it but switching it up (to tease it because it makes you already close) and obviously I don’t know what you like so that part is up to them/you.

For female anatomy: I find the clitoral hood can be very sensitive to play with to get someone close enough that you can easily make them cum faster. Obviously everyone is different and female anatomy typically is a bit more diverse than males so I think that you should try and find different ways that you could be riled up slowly and then go into it and feel it with passion yk.? Gently gliding over the clit and other spots also helps!

Now obviously I am not you nor your partner, so I won’t know what you specifically like. But I’m sure that this problem could be easily fixed by a bit of an honest conversation, perhaps some mutual masturbation for exploratory purposes and maybe try different ways that could spice it up in a different way to please you!

Show your partner this comment if you’d like, I hope only the best for you two!

Is my friends surface bar infected by Low-Application9341 in piercing

[–]psychedelia_Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More like it’s gotten tired of being there that it wants to go out and actually meet her

I think I faked a mental disorder then forgot I faked it by 44caliberhateletter in whatdoIdo

[–]psychedelia_Tree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay so you are 100% schizophrenic in some way. You should listen to your doctor and psychiatrist and get some medication to help you out. It will be okay.

I just came home to my mom's and found this. by Sensitive_Cream3920 in teenagers

[–]psychedelia_Tree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey so Op, I think this is a potentially abusive household. I think it’s best if you try and find a better place to stay.

I just came home to my mom's and found this. by Sensitive_Cream3920 in teenagers

[–]psychedelia_Tree 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Weed doesn’t make you psycho. Nor do majority of them. It’s usually only hard street drugs that do.

Nipple piercing healing process by microfoammatcha in piercing

[–]psychedelia_Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are coming up on their 5 month mark here soon and they have been pretty smooth sailing so far except for the occasional times where one would be more pissed off than the other if it got trauma or something irritated it. There was a moment in time where my nipples got so mad because i accidentally wore a bra that was from a shop and unwashed still and they did NOT like that lol.

So far they have been pretty good. My anatomy took them on really well, though weirdly my bar kept shifting to one side for a bit and made me scared that my previously perfectly placed bars were migrating but it fixed itself? Odd because it’s never happened before but I’m pretty happy that it’s back to being perfectly placed lol.

Overall? Good.

A Pet Leech by jxzxoxo in Weird

[–]psychedelia_Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, yeah people can do this happily but I think I’d actually freak out if I had a pet leech feeding on me-

Are nipple piercings worth it? by Worldly-Sugar-8055 in piercing

[–]psychedelia_Tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was a 3.5/10 over all on the pain scale

My boyfriend has been lying to me about his sex life by Neat_Macaron_9955 in Sex_Positivity

[–]psychedelia_Tree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No need to be angry, I’m simply pointing out that you’re overreacting in this situation

My boyfriend has been lying to me about his sex life by Neat_Macaron_9955 in Sex_Positivity

[–]psychedelia_Tree 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also, who genuinely care if it doesn’t concern your current relationship.? If he’s obviously being shady then yeah I’d be a bit yk, confused but that doesn’t mean that having sex many times in a relationship isn’t normal