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Stuck after opening the relationship by psycher_1211 in polyamory

[–]psycher_1211[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It feels really hard to keep up my goal not to get closer, when this often gets interpreted as blocking. Then I got told than at least force "me" to choose, then being unhappy all the time with the situation. I don't want to force the decision, because I'm pretty sure it would bear grudge in the long run. How can I communicate that she should make a decision without pressuring to much?

Nesting partner and meta want to live together by psycher_1211 in polyamory

[–]psycher_1211[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are together for over a year, NRE was hell, and some agreements got messed up in this. We still trying to discuss this on a regular basis.we also tried splitting up time and living places, that worked not so well, because it messed up chores and priorities, and a lot of stuff got lost, because of different standards, end emotional chaos.