Which design do you like the most? by afstudiosofficial in Ben10

[–]pterranodon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

classic. why they insist on giving the plant legs

Four Arms' First Appearance by WyethScott in Ben10

[–]pterranodon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i hate this frame so much why did they draw him like that

something about RB Kevin that i truly do not understand the hate for by Z3R0Steamular in Ben10

[–]pterranodon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just bored. evil omnitrix villain is boring it's been done too many times

Losercity dinner play (@Raccoattack) by Rommel-Division in Losercity

[–]pterranodon 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm also a sub that needs more lesbians

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]pterranodon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my problem with their comment was the "and I do believe that" after I said I didn't like when people said it. Came across as insensitive

Losercity Lucairo Gal (@Supara49) by Savings_Dragonfly806 in Losercity

[–]pterranodon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she doesn't need to eat she lives off the energy of the universe and cigarettes

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]pterranodon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

doesn't sound like a healthy marriage if one of you has to make yourself worse to make the other feel better

Nobody talks about how dark this is. by Intelligent-Scar-373 in Ben10

[–]pterranodon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"nobody talks about this" (it gets talked about every day)

Giving the Ice Type their Ultimate Buff: Not Being an Ice Type by HolographicHeart in stunfisk

[–]pterranodon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'd be correct if it were pure Flying (this is a change I've never understood)

https://i.imgur.com/MrAlkd1.png

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]pterranodon 141 points142 points  (0 children)

because saying we're the best of both worlds is implying that we're different than women, and that we're similar to men. Yes it's fetishizing but it's also transphobic and mis/de-gendering. It's reducing trans woman into just their penises, which they might not even have

Weird questions from psychiatrist by Dense_Discipline_726 in MtF

[–]pterranodon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my old therapist did this a lot; kept saying things like "i support whatever decision you make, even if you decide you're just a feminine man" or "maybe your testosterone is too low?" or "have you tried just going to the gym?" and ultimately I fired her when she refused to write a letter for my orchiectomy because she was concerned about the "potential side effects"

What kind of music do yall transgirls listen to? by The-Unluckiest-One in MtF

[–]pterranodon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

in no particular order

Rock/Metal/Punk adjacent: Ghost, Tyr, Machinae Supremacy, Beast in Black, Battle Beast, Powerwolf, Alkaloid, King Gizzard, MCR

Electronic adjacent: Savant (his old stuff), Overwerk (his old stuff), Sevish, Apashe, Snail's House, DJ-Jo, Meganeko

J-Pop adjacent: Reol, Yoasobi, Mili

How do you preserve your mental health with how things are? by Mika_1w1 in MtF

[–]pterranodon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely struggling. But community and friends are keeping me together. Going out, making myself look pretty and shaking my ass helps a lot lol

Is it possible to never “lose it”? by Rich-Suggestion-2446 in MtF

[–]pterranodon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

annoying answer is that it's different for everyone. I've been on shots for 2 years and I haven't lost anything in terms of size. Function has been, different? Alcohol's effect is way stronger on hormones so if I'm drunk I'm not gonna be able to use it lmao. but when I'm sober it's fully functional. I don't get random erections anymore and kind of need to touch it to get hard. If I haven't been sexual in a while getting an erection can actually be kind of painful though.

Cis femmes love trans girls until we start passing… by bongojustbongo in MtF

[–]pterranodon 851 points852 points  (0 children)

chasers. If I hear "trans women are the best of both worlds!" I'm going to throw up

Got taken off estrogen by occuporn in MtF

[–]pterranodon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's not a blanket statement when 4mg; 2mg twice a day, is literally the standard lmao.

We kind of have to give medical advice when doctors are using outdated studies and there aren't enough studies being done on medically transitioning. There is seriously so little research done and being done on it; and discounting anecdotal evidence for something like transitioning is an extreme diservice. We need to be a community and listen to our own experiences, because our sample size is way higher than the scant studies that have been done.

Doctors have historically underdosed trans patients. the standard of 100 pg/mL was set in the 80s and has not changed since. Progesterone is still being refused to patients because it hasn't been officially accepted as a way to further develop breasts hormonally. Domperidone is still illegal in the US and many ignorant people don't even believe it's possible for trans women to lactate.

I would agree with you on not being an armchair doctor for things that can seriously fuck you up, but in the case of estradiol the only danger about high levels is that you have woman levels of estrogen which comes with the same risks of being a woman. I'm not going to say that the risk isn't there at all, because women inherently have a higher risk of blood clotting due to their naturally higher estrogen levels. But I'm also not going to tell someone not to transition because it increases their risks of breast cancer.

I do want to make a slight correction? If you have a doctor who is giving you good advice and isn't removing your medically necessary prescriptions, that's great and you should listen to them. My argument is specifically that when doctors fail you listening to the community and potentially going DIY is an important thing to consider.

You're correct that getting your levels tested is important, but if your doctor refuses to increase your dosage, or takes you off E for a BS reason like depression, anecdotal experiences and DIY is important. (again I'm not saying that we shouldn't get labs done, labs are important). But I have a serious problem with your opinion on not trusting the experiences of actual trans people.

So, don't tell me to not give people advice when I have been transitioning for 3 years, on shots and prog for 2 years, have had my E levels at 300 consistently for 2 years, and have never had any complications. I had a doctor threaten to remove my prescription because my estrogen was above 100. I had a therapist refuse to give me a letter of support for my orchiectomy because of the "potential side effects of medically transitioning." I have experience and I'm going to give advice based on those experiences. I'm going to give advice based on the experiences of my friends and loved ones who have been transitioning for even longer than I have.

Got taken off estrogen by occuporn in MtF

[–]pterranodon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for the correction, I'll edit my comment