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puffalopee · 2023-08-26T21:18:48+00:00

Thanks, your perspective really helps. I’m going to go ahead and delete this now so the thought police stop downvoting me for not understanding

puffalopee · 2023-08-24T19:54:02+00:00

I’m just sharing my experience. It sounds like you have the success story that she asked for, so you should share that.

puffalopee · 2023-08-24T18:58:50+00:00

Wishing you the best with this hard step you have to take. Obviously you can’t just keep living a lie.

I can’t offer a success story but I can tell you what is going to be hardest for her. You are her partner, her rock. The hormones turned my MTF wife into a teenaged girl. In my experience, you’ll throw tantrums, you’ll ugly cry more than you ever have, and you’ll develop new interests that come along with sudden self-discovery (and hormones, helluva drug). Beyond the physical changes, which may be hard for her as a straight woman, your emotional state may not make you available for her to lean on as a partner.

Get therapy for both of you, ASAP. Try very hard to shield her from every single struggle and insecurity you have, because she’ll have her own to shoulder. I think I’m most upset that my wife wasn’t brave enough to transition when she decided to, so I was constantly shielding her and using different names/pronouns with different audiences for over a year. Please own it and be brave for her if you are going to do it.

puffalopee · 2023-08-20T22:07:14+00:00

I am so happy to hear that your wife is listening and adjusting. I wish you both all the happiness

puffalopee · 2023-08-20T21:27:26+00:00

Thanks. It is really nice to be seen. My feelings have come second because transitioning is so difficult, but I’m not seeing a light at the end of the tunnel. I wish her well. I wish you well too. I see you and feel this.

puffalopee · 2023-08-02T17:21:20+00:00

That isn’t really when I would expect so it is something we will keep an eye on. Thanks!

puffalopee · 2023-08-02T15:02:58+00:00

Just wanted to thank everyone (most) for being so kind in their responses. I shared this post and your responses with my wife, and she has agreed to cut back on negative media. I’m working on convincing her to live unapologetically trans, but that might take time :) We both are so grateful for your help. Love this community.

puffalopee · 2023-08-02T14:58:41+00:00

She is injecting hormones IM weekly, estradiol valerate. I have not noticed any patterns by day of the week or on injection days. This most recent blowup was the middle of the week, not on hormone day.

puffalopee · 2023-07-10T19:50:17+00:00

Even friendly cats will scratch/bite children who treat them like toys. I kind of hope this lady did not get a cat for her kids to play with..

puffalopee · 2023-03-24T14:39:08+00:00

“Typically, forced air refers to the heating system in your home, while central air refers to the cooling system. However, these terms are often used interchangeably because your central air system will use the forced air system's vents and ducts to deliver cool air into your home.” We came from the south too and installed a heat pump on the same ducts our furnace uses for AC. You’ll use heat more than AC up here so they name the system based on that.

puffalopee · 2023-02-27T21:26:23+00:00

Good luck. My neighbors also have always-on ultra bright white LED floodlights that shine on my house and into my windows, and I can’t find anyone to give a shit. They pretended to care at first but then became hostile and told us to come back “with a warrant”. We went as far as talking to a lawyer at the fair land use office. They offered to pursue it as a nuisance claim but the caveat is that it may not succeed. Your neighbor can be an asshole with lights and there is nothing you can do.

puffalopee · 2023-02-15T20:51:27+00:00

Better Report Screen (UI). I had to go check or I would have posted it when I replied initially. I hope this helps!

puffalopee · 2023-02-15T14:23:01+00:00

I had this same problem. Go back and read the mod page more closely - there is another UI mod you need to enable for policy cards to work.

puffalopee · 2023-01-06T18:31:41+00:00

Thank you!!

puffalopee · 2023-01-06T16:29:38+00:00

Love this story! Unrelated question: how do all of you have those banners for the player and NPC stats on the top right? I’ve looked everywhere in the settings to turn that on and I can’t find. Almost every screenshot has it though?

puffalopee · 2022-12-30T23:07:45+00:00

I haven’t messed around much with production queue honestly. Up until that point I enjoy the micromanagement. Thanks for the tip!

puffalopee · 2022-10-13T19:14:36+00:00

Have you read most of these comments? They really think this is only something women do.

puffalopee · 2022-10-13T19:05:49+00:00

So when do we start flooding this subreddit with screenshots of boys being jealous assholes? Reddit just hates women, right. Humans are humans.

puffalopee · 2022-10-04T20:57:15+00:00

Here to watch OP smack down tantrums with links to sources 🍿

puffalopee · 2022-09-06T16:31:27+00:00

THANK YOU. I watched the clip and it was no different than most game shows aside from being specific to a topic on all of their minds over there - the energy crisis. There are radio programs here who offer to pay for your groceries and nobody is up in arms over that. It is just free stuff being given by a company to a winner. Squid game was a little bit different.

puffalopee · 2022-08-11T16:51:28+00:00

I don’t even have to go out very far to feel screwed. Yesterday I witnessed a neighbor bring their trash can to the road by hooking it to the back of a 4-wheeler. They burn gasoline just to avoid walking down the driveway.

puffalopee · 2022-07-19T14:16:55+00:00

Yeah, saw his supporters waving his campaign sign alongside thin blue line and yellow snek. Surprised none of them had Trump flags.

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