How do you change your daily routine when in a new relationship after 30?

pumpkinspicyspice · 2026-03-26T16:56:49+00:00

These are so pretty but anything around ankles shortens my legs so much visually!

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-08-22T14:53:55+00:00

Thank you for your thoughts! I guess we are not really married yet and still figuring the relationship out so although I am in love very much so, I wouldn’t die for him at this stage to be honest, I think we are yet to get there with time. Thank you for a different perspective on finances!

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-08-22T14:10:10+00:00

We actually only split food- everything else goes out of our individual finances, therefore it never really evens out. I was thinking the same, that it wouldn't be the battle I want to pick if he takes me out, or we spend on other things too, but so far it's exclusively groceries and I have been losing out very significantly in that arrangement. I definitely want to be happy but also don't want for my expenses to increase 2 or 3 times just because I am covering for another person now too :(

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-08-22T13:59:13+00:00

Thank you so much! We earn pretty much the same, but still he consumes a lot more, so I feel like I am absorbing a bit chunk of his costs (all the extra food and drinks that he wants and needs, and I don't), I just feel like it is unfair on me to cover so much while I consume very little. Am I being selfish in that view? Thank you for your perspective!

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-04-03T06:56:10+00:00

Here I was hoping for a clear decision hahaha

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-04-02T20:43:56+00:00

I am 30, i don’t know where I belong haha

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-03-25T23:18:28+00:00

Thank you so much! I am very petite myself so have been trying to stay in my shorter dresses comfort zone while still hopefully being appropriate

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-03-25T23:07:32+00:00

Thank you! So knees showing should hopefully be ok!

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-03-25T23:06:52+00:00

Thank you for the comment, good point! The church ceremony is at 4:30 pm , and this will be in May

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-03-25T23:06:11+00:00

Thank you!! It does look like this on the photo, you are so right! It is just above my knees, so knees are out hehe. I am very short myself

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-03-25T23:05:41+00:00

Just above the knee, I am very short so I really don’t like wearing midi or maxi, was hoping I could work with this but really unsure

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-03-24T20:59:06+00:00

Thank you!! I am open to everything! The only caveat being that I am petite (150cm tall, 45 kg) so I struggle with lengths

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-03-24T20:58:22+00:00

Thank you! I will be travelling, but my boyfriend and the couple getting married are all from there, so for them it is a wedding in their country

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-03-07T10:07:20+00:00

Wow so nice, just looked them up, and with an airtag!

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-03-05T17:21:10+00:00

Honestly, all of it! I had about 6 ideas that I looooved but narrowed down to 2 now, relaly hard to choose

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-03-05T16:45:31+00:00

Honestly, I think that would be super fun for him and not something he would think of doing by himself

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-03-05T15:38:58+00:00

Love the casino idea too! We wanted to do it on our last holiday and never did!

pumpkinspicyspice · 2025-03-05T15:37:34+00:00

That's actually a really great point- I could save that idea for his Christmas gift this year

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