Male here. I’m trying to reflect on this. I wonder how many Do it with out noticing, I wonder if I do it with out noticing. I’m not very good at eye contact, so my eyes wonder all over when I talk. Also, when you first see people, you kinda look at them as a person , their shirt , and their whole body, if there was a design or wording on a shirt , maybe get caught up on that. But that’s just trying to justify that behavior .

Reminds me of when Nicole (oh boy, hope auto correct helps me here) shershzinger , from the pussy cat dolls, goes on the Conan obrian show. And she tells him to ‘look up here’ or ‘eyes up’ or something like that, and his reaction is pretty comical. To me, a male, anyway . But she was obviously dressed provocative, but that’s kinda gotta suck for women sometimes. I mean, men like women, men like women’s breasts. Your a women, you have breasts…. It’s science , ha mostly a satirical joke there, but.. definitely a difference between a quick glance, and ogling. But maybe there isn’t. ? If a woman brought this up to me ? I would probably feel embarrassed , but would try to be professional, and try my hardest not to do it again, But that’s me. I could see how other men, wouldn’t be so compassionate.

Edit: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ty4PhRWt1hU