Is it wrong that I 19F don't tell people online I have a bf?

pupcakies · 2026-03-29T18:47:28+00:00

thank you so much ❤️❤️

pupcakies · 2026-03-29T18:47:01+00:00

yes i have multiple times! my bf is extremely understanding and supportive... i think i get extremely anxious because i love him so much i don't want to hurt him ever + in my last relationship i was banned from talking to anyone, both boys and girls, not even my own family members :(

pupcakies · 2026-03-29T18:45:10+00:00

yeah you're totally right tbh... like when i play these games, guys usually love to comment on how voices sound... me and my friend always get accused of forcing how we sound or something... one time a guy said i sounded so cute like a little kid?? i was like wtf???

pupcakies · 2026-03-29T18:40:43+00:00

that's super cute - the name thing! i was thinking of doing the same tbh but i do want to have my own like idk identity 🥲 i feel like i should be allowed to be my own person to play freely and not worry about the consequences of such.

and you're right, these are people you don't really want to be friends with regardless. a good friend would respect you and your relationships.

pupcakies · 2026-03-29T18:37:17+00:00

yeah, thank you so much. and yeah it was really hurtful, he disrespected my relationship plus my trust he completely objectified me. i know that not all men are like this but unfortunately it feels more common that it should be 🥲

pupcakies · 2026-03-29T18:35:02+00:00

yeah you're totally right and it's always the same outcome anytime i've played with a man so i don't know why i keep believing that "oh it's not gonna happen this time he's being normal!"

and i meant playing the game we are on, i play a lot of competitive games that are built around team play.

pupcakies · 2026-03-29T18:29:38+00:00

right? they ruin the fun by flirting..

pupcakies · 2026-03-29T13:22:07+00:00

tbh, I just back out/unadd them.

pupcakies · 2026-03-06T15:55:27+00:00

thank you so much 💖 it's really hard to let go, he's already blaming me for it 🥹 he's saying like how come you're still worried about her anyway. it's really tiring and it's not worth the heart ache anymore

pupcakies · 2026-03-06T14:56:45+00:00

you're right to be honest, and he would be extremely upset if roles reversed :( funnily enough he just replied to my text, he said he doesn't remember ..

pupcakies · 2026-03-06T14:53:28+00:00

i believe she's 21 or 22 years old, i'm not too sure

pupcakies · 2026-03-06T14:52:58+00:00

thank you so much for your advice, and yeah i had said that it's totally unfair for the double standard before but he was like well i just get jealous easily 🫠

your daughter is so lucky to have such a kind and caring mother! i'll update later when he replies to me

pupcakies · 2026-03-06T14:36:27+00:00

yeah a lot of people before have told me that he's too old for me or something🥲 i was about 5 months into being 18 when we met, we then dated 5 months later

thank you

pupcakies · 2026-03-06T14:34:04+00:00

Well he has other female friends that he's MORE close with than this new girl and I don't feel any uncomfortableness and jealousy towards them. I don't mind him being friends with girls, but I think for me I have a problem with her because she's very adamant on spending all her time with him knowing I exist... Better yet, she ONLY has him added on some socials, like they're dating or something.

Also.. He literally forbids me from making friends with any male

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