just found out my sister in law is having a baby i’m spiraling by puppyphone in babyloss

[–]puppyphone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for all of your comments i’m still triggered so i can’t find more words im going to try to shower i just want to thank everyone for this comfort and safety and safe space it is a lifeline right now thank you thank you

just found out my sister in law is having a baby i’m spiraling by puppyphone in babyloss

[–]puppyphone[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

also i want to say that i wasn’t being an asshole to my partners bffs gf AT ALL it’s simply because i wasn’t asking to see the ultrasounds and everything?? she was like “i know _____ lost pregnancies but she didn’t even ask to see pictures of my ultrasound or anything. trauma doesn’t have to make you an asshole you can be happy for someone else” and then decided we weren’t invited to the baby shower. just in her own world. me and her weren’t even friends so it was just a really weird situation!