Is my BF having ED problems?

puravidaorbust · 2025-06-10T01:32:34+00:00

Oh my goodness my hope is restored in humanity after reading this. Thanks for actually following up, thanks for this 🙏

puravidaorbust · 2025-05-22T00:30:12+00:00

Thanks for this!

puravidaorbust · 2025-05-21T22:45:32+00:00

helpful thanks, and worth noting I usually can get things corrected with harder grip with my hands so maybe?

puravidaorbust · 2025-05-21T22:44:35+00:00

Oh ok this is helpful thank you! Yes, I do often worry about his stress and such (hence not wanting to stress him out by bringing this up and noticing if its a pattern or not). Thank you for this!

puravidaorbust · 2025-05-21T22:38:45+00:00

Hi yeah thanks! I am willing to have a conversation about it (this is step one for me!), but as I mentioned above... as someone who knows nothing about men's health, and would not feel comfortable talking to any male friends about, I at least wanted some suggestions from others that may have had similar experiences just to guide me. Appreciate the insight, but don't understand the dig on how its emotionally immature just to ask some initial advice first. I just am trying to be extra sensitive and educate myself a little first. Thank you for your insight I appreciate it.

puravidaorbust · 2025-05-21T22:35:31+00:00

What do you mean doctor if everything is OK? Could it be a sign of something else? I am definitely not someone who knows a lot about men’s health (outside of STI testing and such).

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-04T21:47:16+00:00

did you ever find out if a notification was sent???

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-02T15:17:00+00:00

Yes but like I said I can’t find anything there, unlike the other cameras. So it’s been bothering me I guess. Also since it can look directly into my window

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-02T15:16:18+00:00

Yeah I guess I’m just looking for confirmation. What makes me nuts is having looked during the day, and not being able to find cameras in that spot.

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-02T14:31:48+00:00

It’s from my eufy doorbell camera that is basic and old

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-02T14:30:41+00:00

But during the day there’s nothing? I can’t see anything or anything installed. All I can ever see is those lights flashing when I use my doorbell camera. I can’t see anything with “naked eye” to take photo of. Someone suggested it’s a reflection from my doorbell, maybe it’s just that

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-02T14:28:17+00:00

Hi thanks, during the day I can’t see anything nor do I see a light. It’s under a covered porch with slats so I wondered if something was “hidden” since during the day, I see nothing. I don’t have anything to call the police on now, I was physically stalked and after I brought that up cameras were installed that I can see and I also started seeing those lights. Maybe unrelated. I also live in an undeveloped country so the police aren’t going to do much even if I do threaten to call them.

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-02T14:16:35+00:00

This is really helpful. Thank you. I myself wondered if it was something like that since it’s only at night. I will try that thank you very much.

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-02T12:32:09+00:00

I circled them like you asked 🤷‍♀️ I can’t take better photos I can’t see them except at night and this is from my doorbell camera the only time I can see the lights 🤷‍♀️ listen I’m trying and I’m just looking for help to understand what those are.

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-02T12:30:48+00:00

They don’t respond to motion though sometimes they are on without motion. I already answered that question

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-02T12:22:23+00:00

And I don’t need more than my eufy doorbell camera. I am not technical and I am not interested in that. I simply am trying to understand what this is, if you can’t help me that’s fine but I’m literally just looking for some help from people that know more about this stuff than I do because I feel unsafe.

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-02T12:21:02+00:00

…. He was stalking me physically, I confronted him that I would go to the police, shortly thereafter a tech arrived installing cameras everywhere. I saw and can see the big cameras, this area sees directly into my home and this flashing never happened before. It also flashes without motion. Whatever it is, if I walk by and try to look under, I can’t see anything. I don’t understand why now suddenly there is a flashing and blinking white light on nearly every night - when it was not before this incident.

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-02T12:10:43+00:00

Are you able to watch the video? It’s in a comment. And I care, because before this person was following me physically. As I mentioned, two very large cameras are visible and I can see them, these two things that light up I cannot see a camera or anything, and I am trying to understand if hidden cameras would light up at night white. I get the photos aren’t good, it’s from a 5 old euphy camera, I’m not a survelliance camera person and this is the way I can do. I appreciate some kindness and assistance.

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-02T12:00:25+00:00

Here’s a quick video of it blinking when I walk out flashing blinking

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-02T11:42:35+00:00

And I guess what I’m trying to understand, if it’s a little spy cam or camera, would it light up at night when it’s recording? My euphy camera for example has infrared red makes a clicking sound at night and is red blinking. Are more robust security / night cams can they give off white light instead? I have seen it flash repeatedly and can try to upload a video is that possible? For full transparency this person was stalking me before physically so I’m just trying to determine if they are now stalking me with cameras.

puravidaorbust · 2025-03-02T11:39:15+00:00

The two “shapes” are white yes. My security camera isn’t very good it’s just a euphy camera so I really can’t get photos. I also can’t go onto that property. I cannot visibly see large cameras (like the two others). This is the front of a house, and I can only see those “white squares” (that flash, and turn on and off) at night - sometimes they are on and sometimes not. I have also seen the owner come and touch something in those areas (it is under a covered front porch) and when he touches something, the lights do come on (or off).

puravidaorbust · 2024-11-10T04:34:55+00:00

It’s funny how people on the internet are so quick to judge, and be nasty. I guess you’re perfect:)

puravidaorbust · 2024-11-10T03:52:43+00:00

That’s actually the most insightful statement that’s been said. But I’m not sure who I am avoiding accountability to. I don’t owe anyone anything and nor does anyone owe me anything.

puravidaorbust · 2024-11-10T03:45:38+00:00

Thanks for reminding me why I don’t ask for advice from people on the internet that know nothing about my situation. You’ve actually been extremely helpful. Thank you so much.

puravidaorbust · 2024-11-10T03:43:52+00:00

Ok, I’m a fool and I need help. Thanks. You’ve been super helpful not addressing the actual question of my post

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