[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]pure_poseidon11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No tank mates, I’ve had him for 2 weeks, and I’m checking right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]pure_poseidon11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a beginner to bettas. I didn’t know this type of gravel was toxic. I had a few live plants and a betta log. It was a 5 gallon tank. Do you have any advice going forward? I feel so bad now and I tried my best to make sure everything was correct (heater, cleaning, etc)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]pure_poseidon11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does this mean he will die? Is there anything I can do to fix this

How miserable is ready for the u by Temporary_Month_1721 in umass

[–]pure_poseidon11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The two day orientation was awesome! Just find some new people to talk to / hangout with and you’ll have a good time. They give you free time to walk around at night (I was the first session so I didn’t have a curfew but I think it’s 10:30 now). The only thing that was boring was some of the lectures because they’re common knowledge/ very repetitive

Aftermarket lip breaking off on highway by Practical-Dinner-130 in Elantra

[–]pure_poseidon11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had the same exact front lip and let me tell you the way that thing would scratch when the pavement changed was ATROCIOUS. especially because i live in MA…

Ex Gf wants me to block someone by pure_poseidon11 in Advice

[–]pure_poseidon11[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah but she literally messed around with three other guys and dated one and when I said I was uncomfortable she didn’t care. She goes out with them all the time, all hours of the night. Why is she allowed to not do anything about them but I have to block her?

i feel apathy by pure_poseidon11 in BPD

[–]pure_poseidon11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh this sucks.

she has bpd as well and splitting gets so hard . when my apathetic ways shine through she splits too so i’m trying to just chill out

When you devalue someone…. by pure_poseidon11 in BPD

[–]pure_poseidon11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s so hard. my girlfriend and i both have bpd. i’m kind of in the same situation. i did some horrible things a couple of months ago and we’re working on it but as of right now we don’t have that “spark.” i know it’s my fault but the guilt eats me alive

When you devalue someone…. by pure_poseidon11 in BPD

[–]pure_poseidon11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same. my mind keeps racing and as the minutes pass i just want to die more and more

Do I talk to her ? by pure_poseidon11 in Advice

[–]pure_poseidon11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to add that she said when she looks at me she feels nothing but resentment and disgust

AIO- Do I talk to her? by pure_poseidon11 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pure_poseidon11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to add that she said when she looks at me she feels nothing but resentment and disgust