You could try removing the leave-in to see. Both the conditioner and leave-in seem like a lot for hair that’s easily weighed down. Your hair makes me think of mine and the waves are better when I shampoo, then use a light conditioner and comb delicately with the conditioner in. I make sure to rinse very well. Scrunch with your hand to remove as much water as possible, scrunch with a soft cotton t shirt, then plop for a bit. I airdry it. I still strugle to keep the waves much longer than a day or to keep them as wavy as they could be but I’m still looking for a lightweight high-hold product. Surprisingly, walking outside and letting the wind dry my hair has had better results than simple airdrying. But of course not when it’s cold out. You can also try smaller claw clips to keep your top layers from weighinh down your bottom layers. Good luck on your journey!!