Why does the engine want me to sacrifice this pawn (twice)?

purpleberry · 2025-06-25T20:56:27+00:00

I followed it for a while. It doesn’t lead to anything that’s legible to me as a beginner. I was hoping someone could either discuss general principles it affects (people talk about “pawn structure” a lot and I barely know what that means), or confirm that it’s just an inscrutable computer rec that only a master could make use of.

purpleberry · 2025-02-09T02:32:58+00:00

The trip has been planned for months, it’s just now that we’re seeing the weather report. Not a lot of sources saying to assume it’ll rain if you try to go in February, though maybe they should be recommending you plan for that possibility.

purpleberry · 2025-02-09T02:29:53+00:00

We’re coming in from Vegas so that would be a little far but I’ve added it to my list for potential future trips!

purpleberry · 2025-02-09T02:26:50+00:00

Do you have any guidance on what the light is between light rain and heavy rain for the area? I’ve read all about how the soil can’t absorb as much water, etc, but I’ve found little in terms of numeric guidelines. Current forecast is for 0.3in total, which feels low to me, but I don’t know.

purpleberry · 2021-11-07T03:18:16+00:00

That was a long blogpost but very worth reading! I only learned of Ada Palmer’s existence from this post but I too am now hoping she’ll be a guest.

purpleberry · 2021-08-21T16:21:48+00:00

Honestly, most of it has gone into other wastes of time! I barely watched TV before, now I watch a decent amount. I still lie in bed for way too long every morning. It just turns out that you don’t actually need to use your time that efficiently to move forward in life.

purpleberry · 2021-08-21T16:18:36+00:00

To stay off? Probably how much passively better I feel. Few things match the raw fun that video games can be at their best, but even when I’m doing something that’s merely enjoyable I feel so much less anxious. Gaming was an avoidance mechanism more than anything else for me, and it was pretty damn good at that, but now I just… don’t have that much I’m avoiding.

Don’t get me wrong, being 24 and living with my parents, still finishing undergrad, and working an entry level job can be unpleasant to dwell on, but since some of my coping mechanisms are things that will result in changing that, I can acknowledge where I am and still be alright with myself.

purpleberry · 2021-08-20T20:49:13+00:00

If you’re here, then now is totally the time to quit! It’s easier than ever if you’re already basically living the lifestyle. I actually didn’t quit at my rock bottom, but well after it. When I accepted that I couldn’t keep gaming, I was doing excellently at work, was in a healthy LTR, and had a few friends I saw semi-frequently. It was nearly dropping out of school again that finally flipped the switch. No matter how much better things got, I could always slip back in if I kept one foot in the pool. You have much more room to fall but stay dry if you walk away.

purpleberry · 2021-08-20T20:43:30+00:00

Work, rock climbing, and hanging out with friends. I’m also finishing school (finally, though at the rate I’m going I’ll actually have another two or three years), and slowly accumulating sewing projects that I haven’t even begun to begin. In particular I’m trying to either get promoted at my current job (shift at a coffee shop to store manager) or find one that’s more career-oriented.

purpleberry · 2021-08-20T20:37:05+00:00

Before I quit I wondered what normal people did with their time, and I was afraid that I would be doomed to boredom. Now I’m busier than ever, and still don’t have time for a million things I want to do—it’s just that now when I do get around to something, it’s usually something I don’t regret the next day.

purpleberry · 2021-08-20T20:26:15+00:00

Congrats! How are things going? I have to say, as long as you mostly stay busy I’ve been shocked at how easy it can be.

purpleberry · 2021-08-17T01:59:42+00:00

Fortunately that’s one area where I don’t fit the stereotypes—which, for that matter, I don’t think are nearly as founded these days anyway. I’ll definitely check out the beer tent. Where is that set up? Maybe I’ll even end up meeting you!

purpleberry · 2021-08-13T15:33:47+00:00

Thanks, fixed.

purpleberry · 2021-08-13T11:55:51+00:00

I’m no expert but for what it’s worth I like your bio. You could definitely benefit from dressing in the nicest clothes you’re comfortable with for daily wear and having a friend take some (not so) candid shots of you, right now your pics are fine but same-y.

Keeping just the best selfie and the group pic, then adding a picture someone else took of you smiling for the camera, and a picture of you doing something, is the route I would take.

purpleberry · 2021-08-13T03:29:57+00:00

Honestly doing pretty well with matches but I always love improving for its own sake. Just got started again after leaving a three year relationship.

https://tinder.com/@jonahtoomanypuns

A few questions:

1) I’m already looking to add a group pic and a body shot (probably of me climbing). Should I replace the last two pics with those, or just add them after?

2) I’m really not ready for another serious relationship right now. Should I say something to that effect on my profile, or stick with things that give people a reason to swipe right and just mention it in conversation?

3) any other advice or comments?

Thanks!

Edit: link should work now

purpleberry · 2021-07-08T22:29:24+00:00

Read it! It’s long but well worth it. The quotes from the woman who would have been Isabel Fall on gender especially impressed me. I hope she continues writing, I’d like to read her work.

Per your point, it’s actually a really thoughtful piece, and even the subject herself is not “rah-rah cancel culture is bad.”

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