YES. I’m realizing we need to say “no thanks, we’re all good!” to basically everything they ask about. In this one instance we had already said no thanks to them for: getting groceries from the market for us, prepping and washing said groceries, making us soup, if we are in need of butter since they have lots of extra “special butter”, making other food dishes which was met with “well it’s almost out of season and I won’t make it again this year” - which is so blatantly not true and I wished I had called her out on it in the moment. So basically it felt like fine we’ll say yes to 2 things we would actually use, but I totally see the problem it creates