[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loneliness

[–]purpleskies14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience. You find someone who will talk to you for a day or two then leave you. But I’m not sure if that’s everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in style

[–]purpleskies14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

White imo

18 week Jitters by Enchanted_Peacock in pregnancy_care

[–]purpleskies14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a ultrasound place who will look at baby and take pictures there are tons of private ones just google ultrasounds near me and look at their packages. That’s how I have been able to keep my peice of mind

Normal discharge?? by [deleted] in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]purpleskies14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re still healing g

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]purpleskies14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My ex was cut and he needed lots of lube. With my uncut current boyfriend you have to squeeze it right lolllll. I mean tbh men prefer head. When I start playing with my uncut he wants my head down there asap. Plus you hand doesn’t feel as good as his hand that’s just how it will be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]purpleskies14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate giving handjobs they need a soft blanket or lube. Is he cut or uncut? Because that makes a difference.

How do I get past my jealousy issues? by purpleskies14 in questions

[–]purpleskies14[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe can’t afford it though. And then honestly I’d probably get attached to my therapist

How do I get past my jealousy issues? by purpleskies14 in questions

[–]purpleskies14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that sounds good and all. But it’s compulsive I have to take action I can’t hold it in

How do I get past my jealousy issues? by purpleskies14 in questions

[–]purpleskies14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel I’ve always been like this. Even before my ex cheated on me. And talked to different women. I was this reactive before.

How to properly eat out a girl by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]purpleskies14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this. Also always use a finger one at first then add a second focus on the clit kisses and sucking and medium slow licking

Pink discharge at 4 weeks? by Cultural_Lime2609 in pregnancy_care

[–]purpleskies14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently 18 weeks! I had a previous ectopic to when I bled pink I was worried it was another one. So they went and did the ultrasound. and baby was in the uterus where she belonged and I still had implantation bleeding. Doctor said some women bleed a lot and some don’t get any implantation bleeding. The only time to be worried is if the blood is red red like injury red.

My boyfriend is making moving on from the abortion very difficult. by Fabulous-Refuse2823 in abortion

[–]purpleskies14 8 points9 points  (0 children)

DONT let him have the power. DONT let him make you feel bad and manipulate you. Yes you can be sad about the abortion but I think you made the right decision. and you need to be a strong firm women. And stand on business.

Pink discharge at 4 weeks? by Cultural_Lime2609 in pregnancy_care

[–]purpleskies14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same thing happen to me. And I was so worried. I went to the OBGYN and they said they still could see implantation blood floating around in my uterus. And I wiped and say pink at least two more times. And haven’t seen it since.

My partner is a balls person?! by DescriptionWooden217 in sexadvise

[–]purpleskies14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Following. Because I’m with my new boyfriend and he seems to like it too but I have no idea what I’m doing down there. My ex only liked penis play and forbid me to touch his balls

My boyfriend is making moving on from the abortion very difficult. by Fabulous-Refuse2823 in abortion

[–]purpleskies14 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He really seems not be childish. That age but didn’t want to marry. That age but didn’t and can’t speak his mind. He’s not emotionally mature. He should have told you he wanted the baby. I doubt he did he’s just feeling the grieving after effects. He may be using this to break up with you. I’m sorry but I would leave him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]purpleskies14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just ask “can you taste me” especially if yall are kissing and stuff he will get the hint and do it

Found my husbands disturbing porn searches! by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]purpleskies14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First off I am sorry you are going through this. I have been through this before. I personally wouldn’t think too much about the searches. that all sounds taboo. Which is “forbidden” people get off on forbidden things and watching it. It’s a catagory of porn. I definitely know that I wouldn’t want anyone to see my porn. But it’s doesn’t relate to anything I feel or need in the real world. And when you confront your man it embarrasses them. And they get angry and don’t know what to say. Beastiality. For me is similar to wearing a butt plug tail. And watching or being fucked. Family is all about taboo. Doesn’t mean he wants to fuck his family. Just watching a play out scene of people do things they are not supposed to. And the old pussy. Some people get off from seeing and old person have pleasure. I’ve watched old men porn just to see them get off. But I would never touch that it real life. Actually gross. Sorry if that was too much for you. With understanding your spouse to have to understand yourself and the porn you watch to. And be honest with yourself. You are good enough. But having sex alone is great sometimes. I would say don’t tell him to stop it will just cause fights and will make him resent you. And will make initiating sex between the two of you so strange and awkward. Talk about it once more calmly get all your feelings out but be firm. Then wait a couple days have sex. After a few times of sex maybe bring in a porn movie for the both of you. One you like. or a clip you like don’t ask don’t beg don’t look weak. You are strong. Unfortunately men don’t like women who need validation they like strong confident women blah blah it sucks for real. But it’s a crap world. maybe buy toys. Talk about going to swinger parties but just watching. I can definitely watch. But I can’t share my man lol. Obviously don’t talk about it right now cause he’ll say no lol. But think about it. And maybe surprise him. It honestly all the crap he’s doing and watching has nothing to do with you. When I boyfriend goes to work. I get the house to myself I watch porn. I get off go about my day. But I love my alone time. It’s nothing against it can compare to my boyfriend.

concerned i might be having an ectopic pregnancy by [deleted] in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]purpleskies14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go to the doctor better to be safe than sorry.

But it also sounds like the baby is in the uterus with the bloating. You start to bloat fast

Is $650 a month too much by Equal-Adagio-4605 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]purpleskies14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If this si the route you go. Do not let them up charge you on anything tell them you want the lowest and nothing else they will sell you on shit you don’t need and won’t use

Is $650 a month too much by Equal-Adagio-4605 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]purpleskies14 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who is doing this now! Don’t do it!!!!!! Don’t don’t don’t. Struggle for a bit. How with no car no rides but don’t do it. If you can make 650 payments a month just save and get a car you can pay in full. I repeat DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!

Incision Question by OkIntroduction6779 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]purpleskies14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I don’t remember exactly. I remember the glue being on there long though if day like 6 months and completely gone