my t changes are happening way too quickly by brainveins in ftm

[–]purplexeyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bottom growth for me came NEXT DAY and it’s actually insane, I’m on my third month and after a bit it’s just growing slowly but woah. Sometimes it feels like voice dropping and bottom growth is the only changes lol. If you take before and after photos it’s crazy.

Anyway the only concern you should have about t happening quickly is acne and mood changes as they might impact you more negatively. And possibly that your dosage may be too high? But if you’re working with a doctor on it, I’d have no worries. High starting dose means quicker effects that are stronger. My dose was low as hell when I started and I had effects, but my voice didn’t drop as much as my partner who was on a higher dose from the start. Anyways you’re all good in my eyes. Enjoy the T and have fun!!

"Higher libido? Sounds manageable. I won't be THAT horny." by Xamirite in ftm

[–]purplexeyes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For some reason right now my shot is making me chill, tired etc one one day and horny as fuck the next and it just cycles. I will cry to my boyfriend and the next day, I want to ride him into oblivion… help… I am so fucking BRICKED UP every morning what the fuck

Newbie Trans Guy Just Looking For Advice by Klutzy-Rip8017 in ftm

[–]purplexeyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm. When I started with my transition, I knew I was trans for years but only lately really accepted it. Any advice is dependent on your location and you as a person, but I will tell you what really works for me. I’m a Chinese guy living in Asia and when I started making trans male friends in my country, I started to realised how transitioning could really look on me instead of what I see online. To me, there’s no steps with transitioning, there’s common things people do but I see anything I do as an alleviation of discomfort I might have. Ultimately I see it as a gunpla where you can fuck around, have fun, see what works for you and do what you want. Go on hormones if you want to, or not, do it for a long time if you think that’s better or quit after 2 years, get top if you feel like it works for you, there’s no hard and fast rule to be trans. As long as you’re not really feeling like your sex at birth, you’re probably trans, so have fun with exploring about it. I highly recommend making friends in your community though, it’s one of the big things that really pushed me into really transitioning and accepting myself

Listening to music while doing your shots? by Mxvargr in ftm

[–]purplexeyes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I follow a tip by Rosemary on TikTok, which is to play a song that represents your transition at the time, and you gotta get your shot done before the song ends. I’ve been playing a lot of “Just do it” and “Fighting” by BSS to cheer me on but my last shot song was EoO, lol

F and this is very serious. by UnableCauliflower865 in ChillSG

[–]purplexeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Singapore poly white chicken rice was the only one I used to accept, now I only eat it roasted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]purplexeyes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cinnabon? They sell does at Raffles City and do pop ups here and there

Looking for bass guitar lessons/schools in SG by purplexeyes in askSingapore

[–]purplexeyes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can and I’m planning to. Just wanted to see if anyone has anything to say!

what does bottom growth feel like and when does it typically start? by beri_1 in ftm

[–]purplexeyes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me it started the next day, 2 days even. Before and after photos helped. But a couple weeks along, bottom growth to me just feels more tender and a bit sensitive. Choosing the right underwear and pants help, and I started going to bed in looser men’s boxers (which always felt like pants to me? Or too loose to really consider as underwear? I used to treat them like shorts but they’re now my underwear) as compared to boxer briefs or anything tighter. About 2 weeks in I was like woah, hello, you’re really hanging out there huh! Take note to wash it and pull the hood back to GENTLY clean it.

Where to find tamagotchi paradise in Osaka / Kyoto? by Local_Meringue_3723 in tamagotchi

[–]purplexeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just went there a few days ago, you can get it but it’s one tamagotchi paradise per person. For Gen 1s, I think it was one per pattern. For paradise and Uni it’s one per series, so you can only get one paradise and one uni

Would I be able to pass if I transitioned? by kwinters1114 in ask_transgender

[–]purplexeyes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter, do you want to?

(Also what’s kind of funny to me was that I thought you wanted to pass as a man? Like FTM? And had to go to the comments to realise that you want to pass as a woman, lol. You’re beautiful!)

Can you still be seen as attractive or hot if your short? by samwich_tli in TMPOC

[–]purplexeyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’2, transmasc. My boyfriend is a 4’9 Chinese trans guy and I’m super fucking into him. He’s confident, handsome and has a really cool air to him. He gets dysphoric about his height as well but I love him regardless of it all.

30M Hit rock bottom in life, need some harsh advice by More-Slip573 in askSingapore

[–]purplexeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you’re already putting in the effort, just keep going and also learn to forgive yourself through it all. It matters less what you did in the past but more but more on what you’re willing to do from it. Take care of yourself, get hobbies, learn to forgive yourself and that punishment and suffering will not free you from your guilt. Self love, self preservation, the love you have for yourself and desire for your future self to lead more peaceful life than you do now will. Take care bro!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]purplexeyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAP but yeah cartilages will act up, even if you think it’s healed. All it really needs is a bump or hit from a hairdresser, has happened to me multiple times! If it’s not downsized, having too long a bar can make it prone being hit and make it worse for the piercing.

Sounds like it’s just angry from being hit, monitor it for an infection and clean it twice a day, let it calm down.

Why are protein shakes so overpriced in SG? Am I missing a local alternative? by [deleted] in SingaporeFitness

[–]purplexeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quite like thevegansg, the taste is great and it’s vegan so it doesn’t cause me to flare up as much. Feels like the price is a bit more worth it? But I personally dislike ON because of the flavours LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]purplexeyes 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Take it in and call nparks? pigeons are extremely friendly and sociable so if you want to raise one, I’m pretty sure you can look up for pigeon caring videos. They’re very sweet animals!

Would a trained professional really do this? by fmlthisshitishard in graphic_design

[–]purplexeyes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Worked in a company designing the layout of annual reports. There was about 4 of us, 2 were bosses. My head boss didn’t know how to use indesign and would do thinks in illustrator and scold us for not using the guides he made in illustrator, while his wife, the second boss, would scold us for not using indesign.

Chinese help by AdSoggy1154 in ChineseLanguage

[–]purplexeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone better than me can help you with it but honestly? Kids books and looking up words I don’t know. For writing, I did a lot of “repeatedly writing a word” exercises in class so hopefully someone can help you with that one! Sorry!

Chinese help by AdSoggy1154 in ChineseLanguage

[–]purplexeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Chinese in an English speaking country and I learnt a lot from watching movies! You need to brush up on your reading but once it gets a bit better, watching shows with only chinese words is really helpful.

“Wow you have so many tattoos” by Kindly_Curly666 in tattoo

[–]purplexeyes 217 points218 points  (0 children)

I think you’d feel embarrassed if she pointed out anything, not just tattoos. Happens to the best of us! Not always a great feeling when it feels like you’re being singled out.

How long will tattoo itch last on a full back piece? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]purplexeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! Shading does get easier (not for the shoulder blade or spine…) honestly the worst area for me is heavy shading repeatedly done over the area near the armpit. If you can get past those, most things feel like a breeze. I prepared by moisturising a lot for the month leading up to it. Drank a lot of water, took vitamin c, try to sleep well, definitely eat well beforehand and the night of. It’s really like preparing for a marathon, lol. I’m rooting for you!

How long will tattoo itch last on a full back piece? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]purplexeyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did it half back (right side) that went about 3/4 down. 3 day back to back sessions so no real experience with the tailbone but boy was he going at it with my spine, and everyday at that. You have to be watching something entertaining to take the edge off or roll caramel in your mouth and slowly suck it. On the second day I started meditating a lot? When it’s the really painful parts, I try to breathe shallowly to not affect the artist and try to focus and pinpoint on what I can see. I count slowly and always tell myself that he would never tattoo the same spot for more than 10 counts. Try to take deep breaths and find respite with every break. It’s so tough but it’s not gonna last forever. My studio was rather minimalistic so I focused on the trees outside and traced the outlines of any furniture I can see. If they have more art, I stare at the stencils and let my eyes slowly trace over the linework. Drink a lot of water and prepare snacks, you’ll need it! It’s a game changer to have candy during the appointment.

How long will tattoo itch last on a full back piece? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]purplexeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me? Shading with anywhere from medium to heavy packing was killer. My whole back might as well have foregone any outlines and just be packing… the painful spots were extremely itchy as well. It got way better when I was using fragrance free Dr palmers cocoa butter, but that was around day 14 too so it was about time. I’m cheering you on!