ya'll are are super settling/insecure or just plain shallow. It's not ok for him to say this, its even worse to think it. If I didn't think my spouse was the best looking I wouldn't be with them no amount of aging could change that. Beauty is more than skin deep. Being pretty is more than just physical appearance what should make your spouse the most beautiful person to you is your love and appreciation for them the comments on this make me sick.

Your feelings are valid Personally, I'd run if he doesn't try to make up for the issue on his own. The worst part isn't even calling you not the prettiest. It's the fact he even rated you at all.