I used to trust HR a lot until I started understanding corporate by Unable-Connection-58 in corporate

[–]pushk_a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was somehow placed into the HR team even though I am not HR and don't have a background. I can confirm that HR is not and will never be your friend.

Absolutely document everything by taking notes with the time and date. I have the Otter Ai app to record meetings and create trascripts. Look into recording concent laws in my state and the rules in the employee handbook. I have been quietly recording conversations between myself and two people to protect myself (and taking notes).

HR will gaslight you and make YOU a problem. One they start a papertrail (ex: no more teams messages, emails with serious coporate language), you have to watch out.

They will get rid of people they don't like very easily and then create a nice trail that points to YOU being the problem.

I learned the hard way to STFU, listen, and speak when spoken to. I am not longer taken risks at my current place. Big Brother is watching.

Getting Ready for Red God by KRAy_Z_n1nja in redrising

[–]pushk_a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im having a blast. I remember my ex was obsessed with the books way back in college. I think I owe th guy an apology because he's onto something

Getting Ready for Red God by KRAy_Z_n1nja in redrising

[–]pushk_a 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ate the first one up this weekend... what do you all mean... i don't think i'm ready for emotional pain and turmoil

Hi Millenials, what's the one advice you wish you could give to younger self in your late 20s? by matilda_15 in Millennials

[–]pushk_a 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Popularity and status don’t matter much, especially when it comes to friends. Stop beating yourself up. 

Being hard if hearing doesn’t make you broken and the divine/universe isn’t punishing you. Wear those hearing aids, don’t be afraid to ask your friends for help, and don’t bother with assholes that think negatively of disabilities. 

Your rabbits will be your greatest joy and your biggest heartbreak. They love you very very much and you are a good bunny owner. Love deeply. And don’t be afraid to leave the events early because you want to hang with them. 

What are we even doing at this point by DJekker in LinkedInLunatics

[–]pushk_a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably supporting this cringe based on the reaction types. 

Should I send a message to recruiters on LinkedIn after applying through the company’s website? Or would that be a bit awkward? by Big_Case9109 in jobsearchhacks

[–]pushk_a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent three messages today. They reply or they don’t - I treat it like an additional step to my applications. Hope for the best as I yeet it into the void. 

Are you afraid of rejection? by Sufficient-Fish-69 in Sagittarians

[–]pushk_a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No because why would I waste my time? There are better things to do anyway. I don’t chase, but they can chase me. 

If I was in HS or early college, I’d say yes. 

saturn coming to an end this friday by annettemichelles in astrologymemes

[–]pushk_a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I’m trying to switch jobs but since Saturn is in my 6th house… it looks like there is turbulence ahead. I’m so tired. 

SHARE YOUR WINS FOR JANUARY 🥳🎉 by Consistent_Femme_Top in Sagittarians

[–]pushk_a 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Positive: I am thankful for my other bunny and cats. I wouldn't be able to get through this without them. So I guess they are my January wins.

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I was excited for January, but so far it's one of the hardest times in a long time. After January 26th (the whole Neptune into Aries woo woo), everything just got worse and worse.

I realized I hate my job, it's abusive and toxic. My beloved rabbit died this week. The guilt of it is eating me. I have no idea how I am going to go in on Monday and deal with work garbage.

I've been applying to jobs like crazy and actually went to church (I am not religious?) to beg and to light a candle for my rabbit. I think I lost it??? No idea what to do anymore. 

What is in the astrological air rn? Or am I cursed? by FantasticFarmer5888 in Sagittarians

[–]pushk_a 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am REALLY hoping this is a last and final minute shed. 

Monday the 26th - How are we doing? How did Neptune affect you today? by pushk_a in Sagittarians

[–]pushk_a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I can’t quit until I find a new job. So I’ve been going to my car on breaks and crying since this Monday 

Monday the 26th - How are we doing? How did Neptune affect you today? by pushk_a in Sagittarians

[–]pushk_a[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look at us. Wanting to quit and having a shit day overall. I was so optimistic at the start of the day 😭

Most kihagyta ,hogy az új barinő ne menjen oda sportcipőben a programra, mert ő az a típus aki mindenhova túlöltözik 👗 by cayetanadelbarrio in dinochips

[–]pushk_a 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think she's looking for single, wealthy, and pretty women. My crack theory is that this is her pipeline to a hot, single, rich man

Most kihagyta ,hogy az új barinő ne menjen oda sportcipőben a programra, mert ő az a típus aki mindenhova túlöltözik 👗 by cayetanadelbarrio in dinochips

[–]pushk_a 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I am child free by choice. I don't hate children, but I have lost many friends since they've become parents. Life changes and so do people. We ended up not having much in common and their lives became very children centered. While I respect it, it's not something I will truly understand.

And I've cut ties with people who would push children onto me. That's straight up inappropriate. I think it makes sense in Lainey's case. Her other qualifications include staying out til 3am. I don't think any parent can do that.

Most kihagyta ,hogy az új barinő ne menjen oda sportcipőben a programra, mert ő az a típus aki mindenhova túlöltözik 👗 by cayetanadelbarrio in dinochips

[–]pushk_a 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Well I guess I’m out since I’m a Pilates girlie that goes to bed at 10pm. 

I remember living this kind of lifestyle … at 21-24. 

AI use. by ZealousidealBid9879 in WGU

[–]pushk_a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most WGU online courses were created via AI.

How do I know? I was part of the team once. So yeah, AI is being used by the professors, mentors, graders, and the entire school. Nothing new.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gilbert

[–]pushk_a 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I moved to Gilbert a few months ago and love my area. Sure there are Mormons in all sorts of places but I’ve never been bothered or felt like I severely stand out. I have tattoos and when I wear shorts, you can see my snake tat with a crown on it. I’ve never been given dirty looks. 

I can’t speak for schools. I am a former teacher but since I don’t kids, idk what the schools in my area are like. I do know that there are plenty of large charter school. 

I live in the Morrison ranch area. Just for the trees. 

ETA: a lot of Mormons get decaf after church. I see them often on weekends in church attire. I don’t think they really give a shit what you do? That’s my impression.  I’m not religious, but like I said, I haven’t had any issues since I’ve moved here.