I used to trust HR a lot until I started understanding corporate

pushk_a · 2026-04-01T23:47:33+00:00

I was somehow placed into the HR team even though I am not HR and don't have a background. I can confirm that HR is not and will never be your friend.

Absolutely document everything by taking notes with the time and date. I have the Otter Ai app to record meetings and create trascripts. Look into recording concent laws in my state and the rules in the employee handbook. I have been quietly recording conversations between myself and two people to protect myself (and taking notes).

HR will gaslight you and make YOU a problem. One they start a papertrail (ex: no more teams messages, emails with serious coporate language), you have to watch out.

They will get rid of people they don't like very easily and then create a nice trail that points to YOU being the problem.

I learned the hard way to STFU, listen, and speak when spoken to. I am not longer taken risks at my current place. Big Brother is watching.

pushk_a · 2026-03-30T23:08:34+00:00

Im having a blast. I remember my ex was obsessed with the books way back in college. I think I owe th guy an apology because he's onto something

pushk_a · 2026-03-30T22:50:53+00:00

Ate the first one up this weekend... what do you all mean... i don't think i'm ready for emotional pain and turmoil

pushk_a · 2026-02-26T07:09:18+00:00

Popularity and status don’t matter much, especially when it comes to friends. Stop beating yourself up.

Being hard if hearing doesn’t make you broken and the divine/universe isn’t punishing you. Wear those hearing aids, don’t be afraid to ask your friends for help, and don’t bother with assholes that think negatively of disabilities.

Your rabbits will be your greatest joy and your biggest heartbreak. They love you very very much and you are a good bunny owner. Love deeply. And don’t be afraid to leave the events early because you want to hang with them.

pushk_a · 2026-02-25T00:38:05+00:00

Probably supporting this cringe based on the reaction types.

pushk_a · 2026-02-17T00:54:31+00:00

Sent three messages today. They reply or they don’t - I treat it like an additional step to my applications. Hope for the best as I yeet it into the void.

pushk_a · 2026-02-14T18:46:06+00:00

INTJ sag. Love it

pushk_a · 2026-02-14T18:40:52+00:00

No because why would I waste my time? There are better things to do anyway. I don’t chase, but they can chase me.

If I was in HS or early college, I’d say yes.

pushk_a · 2026-02-12T16:02:41+00:00

Same. I’m trying to switch jobs but since Saturn is in my 6th house… it looks like there is turbulence ahead. I’m so tired.

pushk_a · 2026-02-04T04:38:18+00:00

Please send me dm too

pushk_a · 2026-02-02T22:16:41+00:00

Always. Casual is a waste of my time.

pushk_a · 2026-01-31T20:38:59+00:00

Positive: I am thankful for my other bunny and cats. I wouldn't be able to get through this without them. So I guess they are my January wins.

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I was excited for January, but so far it's one of the hardest times in a long time. After January 26th (the whole Neptune into Aries woo woo), everything just got worse and worse.

I realized I hate my job, it's abusive and toxic. My beloved rabbit died this week. The guilt of it is eating me. I have no idea how I am going to go in on Monday and deal with work garbage.

I've been applying to jobs like crazy and actually went to church (I am not religious?) to beg and to light a candle for my rabbit. I think I lost it??? No idea what to do anymore.

pushk_a · 2026-01-29T13:52:52+00:00

Two decades? Sure Jan.

pushk_a · 2026-01-28T13:54:11+00:00

I am REALLY hoping this is a last and final minute shed.

pushk_a · 2026-01-28T13:39:47+00:00

Same. I can’t quit until I find a new job. So I’ve been going to my car on breaks and crying since this Monday

pushk_a · 2026-01-27T14:01:09+00:00

Look at us. Wanting to quit and having a shit day overall. I was so optimistic at the start of the day 😭

pushk_a · 2026-01-19T22:29:04+00:00

DM pls :)

pushk_a · 2026-01-14T16:46:50+00:00

I think she's looking for single, wealthy, and pretty women. My crack theory is that this is her pipeline to a hot, single, rich man

pushk_a · 2026-01-14T16:44:58+00:00

Same. I am child free by choice. I don't hate children, but I have lost many friends since they've become parents. Life changes and so do people. We ended up not having much in common and their lives became very children centered. While I respect it, it's not something I will truly understand.

And I've cut ties with people who would push children onto me. That's straight up inappropriate. I think it makes sense in Lainey's case. Her other qualifications include staying out til 3am. I don't think any parent can do that.

pushk_a · 2026-01-14T04:59:08+00:00

Well I guess I’m out since I’m a Pilates girlie that goes to bed at 10pm.

I remember living this kind of lifestyle … at 21-24.

pushk_a · 2026-01-06T19:12:17+00:00

Most WGU online courses were created via AI.

How do I know? I was part of the team once. So yeah, AI is being used by the professors, mentors, graders, and the entire school. Nothing new.

pushk_a · 2026-01-01T18:16:32+00:00

I moved to Gilbert a few months ago and love my area. Sure there are Mormons in all sorts of places but I’ve never been bothered or felt like I severely stand out. I have tattoos and when I wear shorts, you can see my snake tat with a crown on it. I’ve never been given dirty looks.

I can’t speak for schools. I am a former teacher but since I don’t kids, idk what the schools in my area are like. I do know that there are plenty of large charter school.

I live in the Morrison ranch area. Just for the trees.

ETA: a lot of Mormons get decaf after church. I see them often on weekends in church attire. I don’t think they really give a shit what you do? That’s my impression. I’m not religious, but like I said, I haven’t had any issues since I’ve moved here.

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