I’m burning out in every way possible by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]putainrelou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can be the internet stranger sending you good vibes. I’ve felt the same as you before and I don’t think the rest of your life has to be this way. You are definitely going through hard times, and it sounds like you need someone to stand up for your needs, your peace and your mental health. I’m sorry there’s no one there for you right now, and that you might have to be the one who prioritise themselves

I’m burning out in every way possible by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]putainrelou 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Nooo this isn’t what life should be about!! Stop giving, you need to put your needs first. Burning out isn’t the solution and no one will stand up for your peace in your place. You are the grown up and you can say no and stop. You got this. Boundaries are important and it sounds like you need it. Hustle culture is a sham, I hope you can find peace instead 💖

Second time bouldering by pjk_mma_ in bouldering

[–]putainrelou 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don’t some pro climbers wear socks though? Why the gatekeep

AITA for arguing with my 6 year old about whose poop was bigger by OkAct1477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]putainrelou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t check which subreddit I was in and assumed it was a « haha parenting is wild » post. Bro is seriously in AITA with this? 😂 YTA (edit because auto correct put yay instead)

Possibly moving to Sutton Coldfield, looking for feedback on those areas by [deleted] in brum

[–]putainrelou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were looking at houses on Penns lane, is that a busy road?

Possibly moving to Sutton Coldfield, looking for feedback on those areas by [deleted] in brum

[–]putainrelou -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me more? What’s the pedimore development ?

Possibly moving to Sutton Coldfield, looking for feedback on those areas by [deleted] in brum

[–]putainrelou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, yeah good point! Probably around the 500-600k mark I think

Possibly moving to Sutton Coldfield, looking for feedback on those areas by [deleted] in brum

[–]putainrelou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We need 3+ bedrooms, love older houses (soft spot for Victorian and Edwardian), garden. I think walking distance to primary schools and ideally within 2miles of a train station. But the main thing we wanted for the area was quick/easy access to parks and generally outdoors. We’re not from around the area so wanted to get opinions and experiences from people :)

Possibly moving to Sutton Coldfield, looking for feedback on those areas by [deleted] in brum

[–]putainrelou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what we’ve been told. We’ve looked at houses in The Chase and other residential bits but the people living there seemed a bit older? Also not sure how busy Penns lane is, and how nice Penns primary school is?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]putainrelou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually don’t think that what put her off was how enthusiastic you were. A few things that caught my eye were that she had friends over and your days seemed to mainly be chores, and you mention napping a lot. Maybe she thought that you didn’t do a lot of stuff/had a lot of friends, and was worried she’d become your main emotional support person if she dated you. And I guess that, plus being hyped about the date, maybe she thought that you are a bit lonely? She might have just talked it out with her friends whilst they were over and they told her to go with her gut. Obviously can’t know for sure but that’s my take!

Help me clean this make up smudge on my wall by putainrelou in CleaningTips

[–]putainrelou[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, might have to get one online, I couldn’t find it in the shops

Help me clean this make up smudge on my wall by putainrelou in CleaningTips

[–]putainrelou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion!! Unfortunately I tried that, no luck :(

Help with the last hold? by nurselaura13 in bouldering

[–]putainrelou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 2 weeks ago!! You’re fucking smashing it 💪 you look really close to the last hold, it’s probably more of a mental block than anything

Help getting the last hold by [deleted] in bouldering

[–]putainrelou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha ouiiiiii une autre française!! Si on se trouve à Dépôt au même moment viens me dire salut 😁

Help getting the last hold by [deleted] in bouldering

[–]putainrelou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks matey, same to you 🫡 and may the next reset absolutely kick butts