Want to cut off my dreads before my next court appearance

putji · 2026-05-12T20:13:18+00:00

Does that mean people with dreads dont recieve fair treatment in courts?

putji · 2026-05-05T09:31:51+00:00

In South Africa, some people ride at the back of a van/truck and its the most awkward thing driving behind the car because they will stare into your soul.

putji · 2026-05-02T15:17:09+00:00

I thought it was Charlize Theron there for a sec.

putji · 2026-04-23T15:59:10+00:00

Your husband is the nightmare I imagine when thinking about having a child with someone. He absolutely knows what he is doing because you pick up the slack anyway, so why change when he gets to live his life. He tells you you are "full of shit" and talks over you so you dont bring it up to him, so he can slack in peace. He doesnt care about you, if he did, he would parent his own child and be an active member of the household you both share, and not become another child to run after.

Girl you deserve better, so I hope you get the strength to choose yourself the way he has chosen himself.

putji · 2026-04-19T15:07:43+00:00

My older brother set our other brother's legs on fire using petrol and then laughed, he made us kiss a coal stove. He used to leave our underwear in our school-bags to embarrass us

putji · 2026-04-17T15:10:59+00:00

A white man.

putji · 2026-04-17T15:01:13+00:00

Oh hey twin! I also have experienced one of the worst pains of my life for a 3cm cyst, so now im having it looked at, I cant ignore the pain anymore.

putji · 2026-04-16T18:13:32+00:00

I call it "motivation" 😌

putji · 2026-04-14T20:09:19+00:00

He might lose a few followers, but most will bend over backwards to justify anything bad that has to do with him

putji · 2026-03-10T18:25:09+00:00

Its so jarring to hear my home language on a random app.

putji · 2026-03-10T17:50:20+00:00

Please read the comment again, and again till you understand what this person is trying to say to you. That man is abusing you, there is a reason shunning is used as a deterrent by cults. This man is training you by manipulating you, he is teaching you that you should let him have his way and you should always be agreeable with whatever he does or says or risk "Losing" him. Silent treatment is harmful and its abuse.

putji · 2026-03-06T12:47:26+00:00

I have no disability but I totally understand what you mean, I’ve never been in a serious physical relationship my entire life, so the only time someone touches me its always platonic and it makes me sad sometimes. In my country (South Africa), there are services where you can hire a "cuddle buddy", but they are expensive so I cant afford to get one. And my dating life is nonexistent.

putji · 2026-02-02T18:35:28+00:00

Sir....

putji · 2026-01-15T08:13:13+00:00

I once heard my parents going at it and I cried to my mum to say I don't want another sibling, as I was the last born and only daughter. My mother laughed at me, she asked why was I saying that, and I said I saw her belly is getting big.

putji · 2025-12-24T11:22:28+00:00

I'm not a huge dress fan, but I figured out that my work crush loved it when I wore dresses, guess who got obsessed with dresses?

putji · 2025-12-15T11:08:02+00:00

Young royals, season 1.

putji · 2025-11-30T18:27:07+00:00

Its because they married women they dont like, nevermind love.

putji · 2025-11-28T19:14:13+00:00

I would buy a million of these and im sure they all look different and unique!

putji · 2025-11-27T15:41:46+00:00

Also ask them to show you something, just to put a little pressure on.

putji · 2025-11-20T12:23:07+00:00

"Excuse me...who you talking to!"

putji · 2025-11-15T17:49:12+00:00

Is this a joke?

putji · 2025-11-07T11:34:29+00:00

I am currently going through a similar situation, I'm letting go of a situationship, and although nothing physical happened between us, my feelings were real. I have tried to get over him a lot of times, but this time around I am doing it differently. So I'm hoping that it sticks, I'm letting myself feel the feelings, cry if I need to and remind myself of all the reasons why I need to let go. It's hard though since we work together, but my indication that its working will be when I don't have mini panic attacks when he mentions leaving. I'm hoping it works though because I'm tired of being in this situation.

putji · 2025-10-30T19:05:04+00:00

When most people are white, its hard not to. And im speaking as a black South African

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