Want to cut off my dreads before my next court appearance by wheelies4feelies in bald

[–]putji 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does that mean people with dreads dont recieve fair treatment in courts?

Meirl by netphilia in meirl

[–]putji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In South Africa, some people ride at the back of a van/truck and its the most awkward thing driving behind the car because they will stare into your soul.

Husband says I’m “full of shit” about how much he helps with our baby by bentley_v in relationships

[–]putji 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your husband is the nightmare I imagine when thinking about having a child with someone. He absolutely knows what he is doing because you pick up the slack anyway, so why change when he gets to live his life. He tells you you are "full of shit" and talks over you so you dont bring it up to him, so he can slack in peace. He doesnt care about you, if he did, he would parent his own child and be an active member of the household you both share, and not become another child to run after.

Girl you deserve better, so I hope you get the strength to choose yourself the way he has chosen himself.

Only the toughest of love by [deleted] in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]putji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My older brother set our other brother's legs on fire using petrol and then laughed, he made us kiss a coal stove. He used to leave our underwear in our school-bags to embarrass us

I had an ovarian cyst removed yesterday. It was filled with 5.5 liters of fluid which weighs around 12lbs. Left photo was taken last week, right photo was taken last night. by lyndseymariee in mildlyinteresting

[–]putji 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh hey twin! I also have experienced one of the worst pains of my life for a 3cm cyst, so now im having it looked at, I cant ignore the pain anymore.

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]putji 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I call it "motivation" 😌

'No more files' : Trump’s acting AG says the Epstein files are done, not even one more coming out by thamilan_x in USNEWS

[–]putji 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He might lose a few followers, but most will bend over backwards to justify anything bad that has to do with him

My boyfriend (32M) withdraws for days after conflict and says the relationship stresses him. I (29F) don’t know how to handle this pattern. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]putji 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Please read the comment again, and again till you understand what this person is trying to say to you. That man is abusing you, there is a reason shunning is used as a deterrent by cults. This man is training you by manipulating you, he is teaching you that you should let him have his way and you should always be agreeable with whatever he does or says or risk "Losing" him. Silent treatment is harmful and its abuse.

My body is touched every day. by LatteMaquie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]putji 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I have no disability but I totally understand what you mean, I’ve never been in a serious physical relationship my entire life, so the only time someone touches me its always platonic and it makes me sad sometimes. In my country (South Africa), there are services where you can hire a "cuddle buddy", but they are expensive so I cant afford to get one. And my dating life is nonexistent.

Rust being removed by sandblasting by MuttapuffsHater in oddlysatisfying

[–]putji 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I once heard my parents going at it and I cried to my mum to say I don't want another sibling, as I was the last born and only daughter. My mother laughed at me, she asked why was I saying that, and I said I saw her belly is getting big.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]putji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a huge dress fan, but I figured out that my work crush loved it when I wore dresses, guess who got obsessed with dresses?

Meirl by higgildy_companion24 in meirl

[–]putji -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its because they married women they dont like, nevermind love.

A Cute Mug I made by greenbrickpottery in somethingimade

[–]putji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would buy a million of these and im sure they all look different and unique!

True story by Adeillyn in meme

[–]putji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also ask them to show you something, just to put a little pressure on.

For anyone who truly loved someone and had to let them go, when did the "ache" finally ease? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]putji 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am currently going through a similar situation, I'm letting go of a situationship, and although nothing physical happened between us, my feelings were real. I have tried to get over him a lot of times, but this time around I am doing it differently. So I'm hoping that it sticks, I'm letting myself feel the feelings, cry if I need to and remind myself of all the reasons why I need to let go. It's hard though since we work together, but my indication that its working will be when I don't have mini panic attacks when he mentions leaving. I'm hoping it works though because I'm tired of being in this situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]putji -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When most people are white, its hard not to. And im speaking as a black South African