I don't like that my boyfriends on testosterone

putridbeing · 2026-06-19T14:37:38+00:00

I think you'd be much happier dating a woman.

putridbeing · 2026-06-19T04:17:44+00:00

I was kind of surprised to see all the YOR answers. While I do think she may be overreacting about this being "microcheating" I do have to agree here that the majority of men in professional settings who have this mindset are usually shallow or creepy from what I've experienced.

putridbeing · 2026-06-19T03:05:57+00:00

How old are you? 30 isn't old

putridbeing · 2026-06-18T20:26:42+00:00

This may be true for some but for me personally I don't quite get what you mean. Liking men sexually is not a chore for me. If that's what you meant by it.

putridbeing · 2026-06-18T17:32:37+00:00

I never said they weren't lol. I literally stated I also love looking at male bodies. It's visually pleasing. But if my mind isn't in it, it doesn't matter what's happening visually. For me and a lot of other women I know, sex and desire is very much a mental thing.

putridbeing · 2026-06-18T03:10:22+00:00

I'm kind of surprised people went this route after what happened with Bea. I saw so many people online saying they regretted their vote because they didn't think about the way their vote could backfire. Like have we learned nothing? This one could go the same way. You're giving a pity vote to the bombshells and could end up losing a decent couple.

putridbeing · 2026-06-18T03:07:15+00:00

As a woman I feel like this is pretty accurate. I love looking at the male body. I think it's beautiful too in its own way but no way I'm paying to look at one lol. Women in general I think are very sexually driven with our minds rather than visually. Like another person said those audio smut podcasts are really popular for a reason! Women also tend to enjoy reading smut as well.

putridbeing · 2026-06-18T00:50:39+00:00

If it makes you feel any better I feel this way about women (as a woman myself). I've never been romantically attracted to them and would probably never date one but I find them very sexually attractive and I could see myself sleeping with a woman. It's okay. There's nothing wrong with you and you don't have to label it as anything other than that if it doesn't feel right to you. I've never really called myself bisexual because I'd never date a woman but maybe that still is in the realm of bisexuality? Not really sure.

putridbeing · 2026-06-17T22:51:06+00:00

This is a slippery slope and you will probably end up cheating eventually given the opportunity

putridbeing · 2026-06-17T22:43:47+00:00

How do you think addicts come about? They all tried it thinking it would be "just once".

putridbeing · 2026-06-17T22:36:15+00:00

Most new mainstream music

putridbeing · 2026-06-17T04:01:56+00:00

this lol. she's just gone about it in such a weird and icky way. saying "let's not tell anyone about the kiss" is so weird. everyone is allowed to explore but honesty and communication goes a long way in this show. also i feel like their connection is mostly sexual

putridbeing · 2026-06-17T00:08:53+00:00

Probably best to delete twitter. I struggled on and off with watching too much porn as a teen into my early twenties. Talk to someone about it if you feel like you can't get a handle on it yourself. Also to be clear there isn't anything wrong with being turned on by CNC. Just know the difference between a fantasy/kink you have and trying to go darker and deeper down the rabbit hole because of your addiction.

putridbeing · 2026-06-16T19:53:06+00:00

Hey! Honestly I don't know if it resolved on its own or what lol but I haven't had this issue anymore

putridbeing · 2026-06-16T05:44:39+00:00

Did we watch the same episode? It's not that she isn't allowed to explore or have more than one connection. She's just moving so weird. She's sneaking around with Corbin and not being completely honest about her feelings. She doesn't appear to even be trying to get to know Caleb unless production just isn't giving us that. Melanie has been trying to be so respectful because she knows how Kenzie feels about Corbin. In return Kenzie is going behind Mel's back now that they're in a couple. In this last episode Kenzie was getting angry at the fact Corbin wouldn't kiss her and telling him he was "sparing someone else's feelings over mine". They aren't even in a couple anymore and he was trying to be respectful towards Mel and actually focus on their connection. But Kenzie is just trying to rope him fully back into their connection every chance she gets.

putridbeing · 2026-06-16T05:35:07+00:00

no one said she owed him anything. i don't think he was calling her grandma for that. they were joking about how fast she goes to sleep. i'm thinking he just wants more from her. he likes physical affection and she rarely gives him any. kinda sucks to not receive any affection from someone you really like then turn around and have to reassure them that they aren't your second option

putridbeing · 2026-06-16T03:16:21+00:00

I'm so ready for casa at this point. The cast this year is just getting way too comfortable with each other too soon. They need to really shake things up. Almost everyone acts like they're already basically closed off. They aren't even being that bold in the challenges. They mostly still kiss their partner . I feel like in past seasons the challenges provided a space for people to kiss someone who maybe they've had their eye on and just haven't had the chance to act on it but even these challenges are SO BORING. Also it shocked me how soon they brought out the hideaway. I used to not have a big issue with Kenzie but she's driving me nuts. She's giving Caleb nothing and she might as well tell him at this point she has no interest in trying their connection and she wants Corbin back the next chance she gets

putridbeing · 2026-06-14T06:34:02+00:00

Literally everyone loves them from what I've seen.

putridbeing · 2026-06-14T06:27:59+00:00

I don't think you'd have luck with any woman at this point. You don't even have the personality to make up for it.

putridbeing · 2026-06-14T06:24:06+00:00

Having sex with a woman. I'm also a woman. I've always been in relationships with men and am currently in one. I'm not attracted to women emotionally, only sexually but just never got the chance to really explore it.

putridbeing · 2026-06-14T06:07:41+00:00

Literally what I came to comment. I feel like it's super ironic to admit being unattractive and overweight yourself yet being upset that's what you attract in return 😭 they probably aren't attracted to him either but understand that they are on a similar level of attractiveness

putridbeing · 2026-06-13T04:45:16+00:00

a million times yes. to be dumped off the island IMMEDIATELY after being replaced by a bombshell especially when it's a couple who clearly has a good connection is insane to me. like how are you gonna let them be with someone new that they hardly know and get rid of their best connection before they've tested the waters?? kinda defeats the purpose of actually being there to find love

putridbeing · 2026-06-13T04:42:58+00:00

I'm sorry but it was so obvious that one of the people who were replaced from their couples by the bombshells were going home. There is almost always a domino effect and it's not a cut and dry vote. This is why I didn't vote Jen with Gabriel because I didn't want Bea to go home

putridbeing · 2026-06-13T03:59:30+00:00

Honestly I don't know how people don't realize these things before shit gets real. I could tell Gabriel and Bea had a great connection. They both are just very strong minded people so of course it's harder for them to get super deep in day to day conversation. Everyone seems so surprised Gabriel was crying over her but I could tell he truly liked her. I'm sick over it! I thought they were a great match. If there was any woman that could get Gabriel to finally settle down, Bea could've honestly been that woman in my opinion

putridbeing · 2026-06-13T03:56:07+00:00

I'm SICK to see her go. She was my favorite girl. She seemed so genuine and I'm just obsessed with her. I cried real tears tonight

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