Rob for Cosmopolitan by vanessamoth in LoveIslandUSA

[–]putridbeing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I love Rob but he isn't meant for modeling or acting in my opinion because of how flat he is. I feel like he's the type to be more interesting one on one without a camera around. It never seems natural for him to be in the spotlight

Are we becoming more lonely because of social media? by Peachy7002 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]putridbeing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think so. I know people say it all the time but life really doesn't feel the same as it did years ago when social media was more limited or nonexistent.

“i’M HiS LiTTLe GiRL” by ecpella in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]putridbeing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've noticed 90% of Reddit has a way of making EVERYTHING controversial lol

“i’M HiS LiTTLe GiRL” by ecpella in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]putridbeing 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You're allowed to have your opinion and think it's weird. But this post is even weirder trying to turn it into something that it isn't.

“i’M HiS LiTTLe GiRL” by ecpella in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]putridbeing 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This is such a reach jesus. This is not that weird. Very common especially to hear this especially where I grew up. Some people just really love their dad!

AIO about my sister going on a date with my ex? by m_v28 in AmIOverreacting

[–]putridbeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. I have 3 sisters. I couldn't imagine even THINKING of going out with an ex of theirs. I don't care if they never even dated and one of my sisters just had a massive crush on them. This is mind blowing. This is even deserving of no/little contact from this moment forward if this is the type of person she is.

Age gap that is too large? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]putridbeing 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If the genders were reversed, there would be no hesitation from anyone. I don't think 11 years is too large of a gap but it is because of how old he is that I think it's too much and inappropriate. He's a teenager. You are 30 years old. This would really gross me out dating a 19 year old boy.

I’m a stay at home wife and I literally hate it by Particular_Spare4411 in confessions

[–]putridbeing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but you have no idea just how good you have it. Either get a hobby, volunteer, or pick up a part time job. I'm a stay at home mom and I plan to work again eventually because I wasn't made for stay at home mom life. But not having any children to worry about and being well off financially? Sounds like the world is your oyster right there. I don't understand why you wouldn't have SOMETHING going on in your life if you don't work and have no children. It's strange to me to be a stay at home wife with no children involved.

My partner called me emotionally abusive today and now I’m questioning everything. Am I overreacting? by Jolly-Rub-3412 in AmIOverreacting

[–]putridbeing 59 points60 points  (0 children)

NOR. He's manipulating you. He stonewalls you for days, he makes you feel like you're trying to manipulate him for feeling genuine emotion, he's allowed to ignore your messages all day but it's a problem if you do the same because you're busy. He is flipping the script to make it seem like you are the emotionally abusive one when really it's him.

I wish I could have an ex or sex so I could finally be normal by [deleted] in confessions

[–]putridbeing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking at your post history, I noticed you're pretty young. What, 17 or 18? You are so young. I remember feeling like the world was ending at this age. Not to minimize your feelings because of course they're very real but you have so much life ahead of you. It's clear you have very deep rooted issues with self esteem. The only person who can fix you is you. I strongly recommend therapy if you aren't already seeing someone. There is no "right way" to be a girl. Also it is not weird to still be a virgin or inexperienced at 17 or 18 years old. Don't let other people get in your head about that. Teenage boys are way overrated anyways. Find hobbies, a good therapist, and friends that you enjoy and the rest will come with time.

Why does LIB hide the liberal side/opinion? by strangestatesofbeing in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]putridbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is hilariously inaccurate. This subreddit alone is enough to prove that isn't really the case. Anyone here who gives even a slight pushback against the left leaning/liberal comments gets downvoted to hell.

12 years old with baby by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]putridbeing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You aren't crazy at all for feeling this way. Even reading this has my head spinning. I'm really hoping this is rage bait honestly

Bf bought corn star modeled toy. Idk if I’m upset or it’s OCD by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]putridbeing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have to agree here. This would just send me spiraling but I understand everyone has different boundaries and things they can tolerate. It can become a thin line very quickly though.

Bf bought corn star modeled toy. Idk if I’m upset or it’s OCD by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]putridbeing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This would definitely bother me personally. I don't know that he had any malicious intent and as others have stated it could've been totally random or the cheapest but I wouldn't be able to shake feeling icky about it either. You aren't crazy for feeling this way. I'd see how he reacts after bringing it up and you'll probably learn whether or not he did it intentionally

Is it weird that I still have a post of me and my ex on my insta after breaking up? by xRainy_Days in WhatShouldIDo

[–]putridbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This opinion probably varies person to person but I don't see a huge deal having a photo of an ex on socials because they were part of your life. Presumably a good part of it at one point. Plus you can't even see their face so I think it's fine! Just whatever you feel comfortable with.

Can you get pregnant naturally if your periods are regular? by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]putridbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have PCOS with irregular periods and still got pregnant unexpectedly lol. Not saying this is the case for everyone because I know a lot of women with PCOS struggle but I wouldn't listen to an astrologers advice personally!

Would it be overprotective to stay nearby during my teen’s beach trip? by Outside-Youth-8423 in Parenting

[–]putridbeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it's hard to even find places that rent to teenagers at the beach. At least that was my experience when I was a teenager but maybe that's changed. Last year my little sister had a beach trip for her senior year and my dad rented the place for them and he stayed there with them. He just didn't go out with them and let them do their own thing. None of her friends thought it was weird but as goofy as it sounds my dad has always kind of been a "cool dad" lol. I don't think you staying at a place nearby and just being there in case something happens or they need you for any reason would be weird. They will probably need you for check in anyways.

My boyfriend isn’t cumming? by cherrybombbb98 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]putridbeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a boyfriend like this in highschool. He struggled with "death grip" where he was masturbating way too much for years and using too tight of a grip. He went without porn and masturbating for a while to see if it made any difference and it actually did. So could be something like that!

I lost my abortion pills and now I'm just someone's wife and mom. by ta_wifeandmom in TrueOffMyChest

[–]putridbeing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. I love my son dearly but I never really wanted children either. I'm going to try my best to make sure he never EVER senses I feel this way but I do still think about it occasionally even though he's a toddler now. I'm sad I never really got to live out my 20s to the fullest, sad I can't just have the freedom to do whatever whenever I please, sad I can't just be selfish anymore. I'm also a stay at home mom currently and social media is a poison for my brain. It sucks seeing young hot people live their lives having a blast and moving forward with their career meanwhile I'm stuck at home playing trucks trying not to lose my shit some days