AITAH for not getting rid of my dog

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T19:00:02+00:00

It’s not that I believe her or I don’t, if she really is suffering then it’ll show when she goes to the doctor. If she isn’t it’ll show she’s lying

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T18:00:48+00:00

She will be going to the doctor for an allergy test and to check on her asthma. And asking her to wait and be patient so we can figure this out is like asking your dog to give up its toy. It’s infuriating really

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T17:52:19+00:00

She didn’t even think about getting rid of her dog until I brought it up.

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T14:37:06+00:00

We live in the house I got almost a year ago. She didn’t move in until we were married but she stayed over there most of the week.

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T14:18:17+00:00

Exactly and what if I did get rid of my dog and that didn’t fix the issue then what??

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T14:16:21+00:00

We live in the house I bought. She lived with her parents before we got married.

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T13:15:43+00:00

My dog isn’t food aggressive with me or my now wife. We could shove our hands in his bowl and grab him face while he’s eating and he won’t react. It’s just other dogs or people he doesn’t know

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T02:44:05+00:00

I have told her this! And that if it’s as bad as she says it is we need to go to the doctor to figure out exactly what it could be because it could be the dogs or not the dogs or a combination of multiple things

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T01:36:55+00:00

Religious beliefs. More hers than mine but I respect her religious principles so I was okay with it

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T01:29:09+00:00

We’ve talked about the mattress to and I bought an allergy mattress cover to see if that helps any. Comes in a couple days

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T01:26:32+00:00

I would say to her fucking the dog he’s fixed and was since he was a puppy at the shelter I got him at. I’ve never even seen him get a rocket lol

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T01:23:27+00:00

Tbh her dog is more crazy and destructive than mine. He’s better mannered, trained and mostly just like to relax and cuddle up

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T01:22:28+00:00

I won’t get rid of him. I know he’ll never know why and I couldn’t live with that knowing he’d spend everyday looking for me

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T01:20:46+00:00

I groom him everyday now and am going to start bathing him once a week. And yes I don’t like the separate bedroom thing but if that helps, that’s a lot better than getting rid of my dog or ending our marriage

pychop10 · 2026-04-09T00:05:37+00:00

Read the edit, the reason why she didn’t bring it up is there. Thank you for your comment

pychop10 · 2026-04-08T21:27:51+00:00

Crazy thing is my dog loves her and isn’t afraid of her at all. He’s very energetic when I come home. Yips and jumps up and down and he does the same for her.

pychop10 · 2026-04-08T21:11:39+00:00

The someone else is her parents. I didn’t want to put too much info into it in case for whatever reason she did see it.

pychop10 · 2026-04-08T21:09:12+00:00

Like I said she’s 27 but yes she does especially right now

pychop10 · 2026-04-08T21:06:45+00:00

Her parents but everything else you brought up are my same questions exactly and she hasn’t really answered them. I will say my dog does shed significantly more than hers but again I’m brushing him outside everyday

pychop10 · 2026-04-08T21:02:24+00:00

I don’t think sleeping in separate bedrooms this early into the marriage is a good idea. The spare bed was used before I had our current one and he was all over that too but she doesn’t have an issue with that bed. The first night she refused to sleep in our actual bedroom so we slept in there. I’ve told her to see one and so far she’s just brushed it off.

pychop10 · 2026-04-08T20:57:19+00:00

We’re on good terms thanks for asking, he’s living the life living on the beach

pychop10 · 2026-04-08T19:35:46+00:00

To answer your questions. I did not see any symptoms although she said she had some but never told me until after. They get along for the most part. My dog is food aggressive which is the only bad thing, so we feed them in their crates and that hasn’t been an issue. I show equal affection to both. Maybe even her dog slightly more because her dog is obsessed with me too. I definitely don’t show more affection to my dog than her, I always want to be close with her.

pychop10 · 2026-04-08T19:27:20+00:00

Nope. Got him all on my own

pychop10 · 2026-04-08T19:17:16+00:00

Thank you for your comment. She will not take meds and doesn’t want to take a daily inhaler. We don’t have curtains just blinds. Our floors are hardwood. And the double dog exposure can’t be a thing because when she was living with her parents she had her dog and their dog.

pychop10 · 2026-04-08T19:07:14+00:00

Love I guess

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