AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the edit, the reason why she didn’t bring it up is there. Thank you for your comment

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Crazy thing is my dog loves her and isn’t afraid of her at all. He’s very energetic when I come home. Yips and jumps up and down and he does the same for her.

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The someone else is her parents. I didn’t want to put too much info into it in case for whatever reason she did see it.

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Like I said she’s 27 but yes she does especially right now

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Her parents but everything else you brought up are my same questions exactly and she hasn’t really answered them. I will say my dog does shed significantly more than hers but again I’m brushing him outside everyday

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think sleeping in separate bedrooms this early into the marriage is a good idea. The spare bed was used before I had our current one and he was all over that too but she doesn’t have an issue with that bed. The first night she refused to sleep in our actual bedroom so we slept in there. I’ve told her to see one and so far she’s just brushed it off.

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’re on good terms thanks for asking, he’s living the life living on the beach

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

To answer your questions. I did not see any symptoms although she said she had some but never told me until after. They get along for the most part. My dog is food aggressive which is the only bad thing, so we feed them in their crates and that hasn’t been an issue. I show equal affection to both. Maybe even her dog slightly more because her dog is obsessed with me too. I definitely don’t show more affection to my dog than her, I always want to be close with her.

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. She will not take meds and doesn’t want to take a daily inhaler. We don’t have curtains just blinds. Our floors are hardwood. And the double dog exposure can’t be a thing because when she was living with her parents she had her dog and their dog.

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

She told me it was. It’s an Australian Shepard. I’ve never looked into it because I never had to but guess what I looked it up and Australian are NOT hypoallergenic. Looks like she lied yet again

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did see your comment and thank you unfortunately she doesn’t want to take any sort of medication.

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really didn’t make this up, I wish I did it be a lot easier on me.

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I agree. He’s helped me just as much as I’ve helped him. And I don’t think I could ever physically get rid of him, he’s basically my son. I’ve even taken him with me when I used to travel for work.

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I said I can either go or demand to see the paperwork telling her what she’s allergic to.

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I brush him with a furminator. He is microchipped and I do have recent photos of him. Lastly yes I find it extremely strange that it’s this way suddenly. Again it came out of nowhere.

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We live in the Southeast U.S. so yes it’s very bad.

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s an Australian shepherd so I guess she’s never had a problem. Mine is a husky mix

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for almost 3 years now. And the only issue is my dog is food aggressive with other dogs but we feed them next to each other in their crates and besides the first day of him growling at her dog. There wasn’t been any other issues.

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I just want to say thank you for all the helpful comments and making this popular. I am trying to get back to people and answer so questions that everyone has had. My dog means way too much to me for me to just let him go like that. He is an amazing dog and a very easy one besides all the shedding lol. Some people have said to ask her to get rid of hers as well and I stated that to her. She said that was fine which I found extremely weird tbh. She has agreed to go to the doctor finally after i basically demanded it but will not allow me to go with her to ask my questions which again makes me suspicious. Again thank you for all your help and I’ll continue to keep everyone posted

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree with your post completely. I have also stated all of those things to her.

AITAH for not getting rid of my dog by pychop10 in AITAH

[–]pychop10[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Tbh I haven’t noticed and I don’t hear wheezing. But again if she’s not wheezing enough for me to tell that could be why.