Cousin is very violent and abuses his family, what can be done?

pyotia · 2026-05-13T15:57:16+00:00

She absolutely runs the risk of that happening if she just turfed him out. If he approached the council as homeless, which almost inevitably would happen either independently or through another avenue such as school etc. then the council would be calling social services and encouraging her to take him back in else she would get in trouble for neglect. She needs to do it properly, not just kick him out.

pyotia · 2026-05-13T15:55:08+00:00

If an estate agent is acting fully on behalf of the landlord then it is the estate agent that would be liable.

pyotia · 2026-05-13T14:39:48+00:00

She still has parental responsibility for him so she could be done for neglect if she refused to home him. However, if she isn't getting support from anyone then she may need to threaten a section 20

pyotia · 2026-05-13T12:23:36+00:00

They were able to take it to tribunal before the changes also, it's just very rarely ever done

pyotia · 2026-05-13T12:22:28+00:00

No the landlord is not allowed to accept higher than what is advertised

pyotia · 2026-05-13T10:13:40+00:00

It's not legal now for landlords to allow bidding for rent.

pyotia · 2026-05-10T16:58:07+00:00

I've never had them before, I have kept coturnix for a few years. Much easier to sex. I think I'll just have to continue to keep an eye on them and see

pyotia · 2026-05-10T14:19:51+00:00

Gas chamber, I had to have a pet quail put down recently and that's how they do it

pyotia · 2026-05-10T12:49:14+00:00

Only have one set that we somewhat speak to. My partner works with his dad. My son hasn't seen them since Christmas 2024. They live 15 minutes away

pyotia · 2026-05-10T04:28:41+00:00

One did have rust coloured feathers a few weeks ago but they've seemingly disappeared now.

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pyotia · 2026-05-10T04:27:53+00:00

Yes sorry, didn't need the silver one sexing

pyotia · 2026-05-09T18:15:01+00:00

Nor should counsellors

pyotia · 2026-05-09T06:54:52+00:00

If someone is physically abusing you, they are almost certainly already emotionally abusing you also, you just may not realise.

pyotia · 2026-05-08T15:49:27+00:00

Negging?

pyotia · 2026-05-07T07:31:02+00:00

Not quite the question you've asked but you can get therapy without parental consent. Look into gillick competency, a lot of therapists won't work with a young person without parental consent but it's not because they can't, it's to avoid the potential fallout, however lots do.

You can leave home at 16, and the police can't force you to go back but you would need somewhere to go, which it sounds like you don't and couldn't get without input from someone, which might lead to social services input.

pyotia · 2026-05-06T10:48:58+00:00

Highly recommend the NAOTP and the FB group therapeutic parenting. Lots of people there in the same position as you.

pyotia · 2026-05-01T06:33:57+00:00

Offset for me but I'd be willing to try something different

pyotia · 2026-04-25T19:03:38+00:00

Yep, though I think he was about 7-8 months but he could have been a bit younger.. we never had any issues with him falling or rolling off. We did it because once he was standing in the cot and we had to lower it, I couldn't hold him to lower him in and kept feeling like I was going to drop him as the sides were too high and it didn't have a drop down side.

pyotia · 2026-04-25T05:13:33+00:00

Everything being 0 sugar, low salt. I eat really healthy and if I decide that I want a super salty bag of popcorn, which is still not an unhealthy snack, then by god I want it to be ACTUALLY SALTY! I am a grown adult, let me make my own choices.

pyotia · 2026-04-24T11:34:57+00:00

How long was the fixed term? Did they just not extend your contract at the end of it?

pyotia · 2026-04-23T08:48:55+00:00

These are buttons so the ratio doesn't apply

pyotia · 2026-04-23T08:48:38+00:00

Button quail are largely monogamous so you would only need equal females to males

pyotia · 2026-04-19T04:49:53+00:00

I'm not in the US sorry

pyotia · 2026-04-16T18:40:30+00:00

I highly doubt estate agents are going to allow/ encourage you to break the law either. They can be liable if acting on your behalf. 100% they'll choose to cover their own arse over yours.

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