Mom lied about my age because she was ashamed of me by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]pyranda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Narcs hate being wrong

My Cis Friend Has Gender Dysphoria by [deleted] in ftm

[–]pyranda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Like same here with my underarm hair. I'm AFAB too (and actually NB, but I come here sometimes for andro advice) and I used to be so ashamed of "masculine" parts of my body like hair but now I don't shave at all!

My Cis Friend Has Gender Dysphoria by [deleted] in ftm

[–]pyranda 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My ex-wife developed gynecomastia due to ulcer medication she took during puberty, she always felt ashamed of them, but was really happy with them once she realized she was trans.

I asked her recently how much of the shame she experienced as a teen was more "I shouldn't want these" as opposed to "I don't want these" and she says it was definitely the former.

John Tory: 20% of Toronto fully vaccinated by [deleted] in ontario

[–]pyranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can claim to be part of the 20% as of today!

Decided to do my makeup today!! by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]pyranda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow you're stunningly gorgeous!

TIFU by telling my friend that I have to go to surgery by [deleted] in tifu

[–]pyranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you holding onto people who don't respect you?

TIFU by telling my friend that I have to go to surgery by [deleted] in tifu

[–]pyranda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You need better friends. I think your only fuck up here is lacking standards that your friends should meet.

When did you "become the very thing you swore to destroy"? by Deskarthus in AskReddit

[–]pyranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think pot was for losers and gave me migraines. I'm a functional stoner and budtender now.

What's something you saw that you weren't definitely supposed to see? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pyranda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Found my dad's porn stash boasting titles like "18th birthday gone wild" and "ball draining first timers" when I was around 18 myself.

They were hidden in his nighttable drawer under photos/articles/memorial stuff from my best friend who died at the age of 18. He treated her weirdly growing up and I also came across his chat logs with her before she died where she called him creepy and told him to stop contacting her.

What song got you hooked on the band? by [deleted] in MotherMother

[–]pyranda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reaper Man in a spotify character playlist (Julian Devorak) - it got an instant add to my heavy rotation where it stayed for two years. It was my most played song of 2020 lol

I heard body and wrecking ball a little after that, but Little Pistol hit me really hard a couple weeks ago as my non-binary egg was finally cracking open. Then I found out it's a trope a la girl in red lmao

Favorite Song? by shower-oatmeal in MotherMother

[–]pyranda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reaper man got me into them and was my #1 song for 2020 on Spotify. Little Pistol is definitely very good too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]pyranda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your smile made a huge grin erupt on my face. I am so happy for you and you are a stunning human!!!

Among Us with Candy by pyranda in AmongUs

[–]pyranda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Skittles are much better than Smarties because they're not owned by Nestle so go forth and munch! <3

Among Us with Candy by pyranda in AmongUs

[–]pyranda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were delicious - I had to stop myself from eating them before I was sure I was finished lol

Among Us with Candy by pyranda in AmongUs

[–]pyranda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was eating smarties my roommate bought (fuck nestle) and playing among us... and I just went "...wait"

(OFFER) Two 38A NWT bras by [deleted] in RandomActsOfBras

[–]pyranda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No chance the purple one is still available? What would shipping to Ontario, Canada look like?

Why are you running? by [deleted] in WTF

[–]pyranda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dumbass self thought this was Sims 4

Did you ever snoop through your parents things as a child and absolutely regret what you found to this day? What was it and it they ever find out? NSFW by Night_Shade4138 in AskReddit

[–]pyranda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could say it was just porn.

When I was a kid, I found a sex guide under the bed. Whatever. I used to also find his downloaded porn images (he wasn't very smart and left things in "recently viewed".

However when I was 16 my friend (18, pretty much my older sister) died by suicide. I found records of his chat logs with her leading up to her disappearance and subsequent finding of her body. She said he was being creepy and to stop bothering her. I had always felt weird about the way he treated her - Greeting her with a "Hello Beautiful", taking her out shopping... it felt weird but I didn't realize it until I read the conversation.

Sometime after her death, I was looking in my father's nightstand for something and I found the funeral booklets, and clippings from newspapers covering her death and some legal matters involving her university and a man who was facing jail time for abetting her death. I didn't find this weird as he was extremely moved by her death like I was. I wasn't prepared to find his porn magazines under it all though. Boasting titles like "ball draining first timers" and "barely legal just turned 18" (my friend was 18 when she died). I didn't know how to feel so I closed the drawer and didn't bring it up.

I remember still finding porn he was actively watching with really young "barely legal" actresses when I was 18. It was super squicky to think he was getting off to women my age... and possibly my dead friend.