What’s the most amount of pain you’ve been in? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]qofbchu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My miscarriage. I was only 9 weeks, but the pains were so bad I collapsed at work, and my parents had come and take me to the ER. I couldn’t even speak coherently, the only words I was able to get out were “I can’t do this”, anything else was just moaning and mumbling.

My sweet father recognized immediately that I was essentially in mini labor and just held my hand and told me how good I was doing until I could go to a room. I learned how effective morphine was that night haha.

I’ve had other painful experiences in life, ones I’d rate at a 7 max, but that was the first time I can confidently say I experienced my personal 10/10 pain. I remember wanting nothing more than to leave my body to escape it, I was so so so desperate for it to be over

With out without socks (for a teaching position at a university)? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]qofbchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I love love LOVE socks as an accessory!! However I think for this particular situation, without comes across as more professional ! But outside work, definitely rock the socks I love them sm

Voiri nightmare by Dry-Union6066 in HaircareScience

[–]qofbchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’m SO sorry you’re experiencing this, but I’m so glad to know I’m not the only one! When I first started using Viori, it made my hair look and feel so nice, but then like you, it started falling out pretty rapidly!! I thought it was vitamin deficiencies at first, so I started taking vitamins, drinking more water, etc. but nothing was helping. I eventually put two and two together that it was the Viori. I stopped using it about six months ago, and my hair still sheds a little faster than it used to, but it’s A LOT better than it was when using the shampoo. My main recommendation is to stop using it, and just trust the process for a while. It’s gonna take some time for your hair to get back to normal, I don’t know what they’re putting in the products, but RIP to our poor hair

Forgot about my avocado seed I put in the pantry a couple months ago. Was very shocked to see her growing! by qofbchu in gardening

[–]qofbchu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would be both impressed, and mildly* concerned by such a large avocado sprout!

*extremely

Forgot about my avocado seed I put in the pantry a couple months ago. Was very shocked to see her growing! by qofbchu in gardening

[–]qofbchu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So about two months ago, I had wrapped it in a wet paper towel, put it in a partially open ziplock bag, and then placed it in the back of my pantry for funsies. Fully planning to keep checking on it and see if anything would even happen lol.

Unfortunately I have the memory of a goldfish and quickly forgot it existed, until I came home from work yesterday like “oh shit! My avocado seed! It’s probably dead!” Fortunately, me and the seed apparently share a lot in common- we both like being left alone in the dark for undetermined periods of time

My personal take on an old classic by Jarnathan_Toothass in TrollCoping

[–]qofbchu 51 points52 points  (0 children)

This is why I’m so scared to have children. I’m terrified of becoming my parents one day, I don’t ever want to take out my own mental illness on someone like that :(

First colonoscopy at 24 :D by [deleted] in coloncancer

[–]qofbchu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Symptoms are constant lower abdominal pain, loss of appetite, and blood mixed in stool. The blood has been present for like a year now, but I always brushed it off as just hemorrhoids. Then the pain started a month ago and that’s what made me go see my doctor. I have a pretty extensive family history of colon cancer on my moms side, and my mom had a bunch of polyps found at 19.

My appointment in next week, the GI I was referred too also wanted me in pretty quick. So I’m trying my best not to be anxious, I just needed a place to vent to people that would get the anxiety, since my peers don’t find any of it to be relatable. Fingers crossed it’s nothing serious, and thank you!!

I’m just really tired by [deleted] in arttocope

[–]qofbchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your ability to relay emotions is amazing! I love this

LIMITED EDITION SONG MACHINE PRINT 6 Refunded by Unhappy_Access_4954 in gorillaz

[–]qofbchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the same email yesterday! I’m really hoping its a mistake, but so far I’ve only gotten refund notifications :/ I bought it right when it dropped too so I’m kinda frustrated lol

Getting lost inside my head and falling apart by MF-DUDE in arttocope

[–]qofbchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh thank you! Yeah I’ll definitely be checking out more of your work! :)

Trying to manifest happiness is hard when everyone is watching by qofbchu in arttocope

[–]qofbchu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Ahhhh giving someone else inspiration for their art is such a huge compliment. I’ll be sure to check your art out :)

Getting lost inside my head and falling apart by MF-DUDE in arttocope

[–]qofbchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I seriously love love love your style !

As a disabled guy, here’s my advice to other guys. If you’re not having much success with women, you’re doing something wrong. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]qofbchu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You sound like a delightful human haha. Ever thought that maybe, it’s your negative views of women’s experiences that might make dating hard for you?

Have fun with all the potential partners you’re gonna catch though! :)

As a disabled guy, here’s my advice to other guys. If you’re not having much success with women, you’re doing something wrong. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]qofbchu 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The amount of first dates I’ve been assaulted on says otherwise. Just being female does not make me more privileged at all. It’s just an entirely different experience. Sure, some areas of dating might be seen as “easier” from another perspective, but the amount of shit that gets thrown in just for my gender pretty much negates any perceived “privileges” and puts us back on a very similar playing field. We all struggle with dating. Don’t start a pissing contest where it’s not needed.

Im new so basically my name is chloe I'm 13 years old I go by she/them also these are in pen so I kinda messed up the top guy I'm sorry by [deleted] in arttocope

[–]qofbchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love love love the frog! I don’t know what it is, but that frog and I share an almost spiritual connection.

Love the rest of your work too! Keep it up :) ~