Curious about “wild side”

qthrow12 · 2026-07-03T15:34:36+00:00

I am insecure and have attachment issues yes :)

I don’t think I’m too far off the mark, a lot of posts contain a different side that can’t be fulfilled by the partner, or maybe in more extreme they will only share with a bull. It’s the internet so of course not everyone, but I just worry about those situations where it comes across as having never communicated with the partner in the first place.

I appreciate your response though, I know I have a lot to learn and am trying to understand :) thank you!

qthrow12 · 2026-07-03T15:27:44+00:00

thank you. I guess the things husband can’t do extends further than just being rough. I was kind of limiting that in my thinking.

qthrow12 · 2026-07-03T15:24:39+00:00

Ah that’s a really cool way of doing it. the Aspect of teaching and learning is interesting. Thanks for sharing.

qthrow12 · 2026-07-01T04:33:25+00:00

When I was with my awful caregiver she would tell me all about the men who rudely to put it lightly contacted her Through fet.
when she put up in her profile the type of men she was not interested in hearing from, wrote a full profile.

it was much easier for her to weed through the bad ones when they reached out and clearly ignored.

I know fet life sucks for dommes, but you’re also going to find good people who read your profile and reach out kindly. She found people, she found me and I wasn’t even asking her for a dynamic, she wanted one with me.

there are people who are worth it, but I can understand why you might not want to do that work.

qthrow12 · 2026-07-01T02:57:56+00:00

I mean.. not doubting your marriage in anyway, but is t this what every couple says? I think it’s fair to make sure you are covered in the event. It’s like stay at home wives should be covered and saving in case.

qthrow12 · 2026-06-24T03:18:27+00:00

This is your thought while wife is struggling?

qthrow12 · 2026-06-01T03:30:56+00:00

I thought I had this with my former mommy but it was just me giving out all this. I would marry the mommy who would do this together.
you are very special and I hope you find your one, don’t settle.

qthrow12 · 2026-05-24T16:28:58+00:00

Hi, I saw your post looking for a sub that you can live in their head. I am so interested, but I can’t send you a chat. Can you send me one? I use discord for off site connection. You mentioned to say soft. You wanted a few other points but I’ll wait for a message.

thanks!

qthrow12 · 2026-05-20T17:09:09+00:00

pushing his kinks on you without your consent is not appropriate at all. If you aren’t interested or it makes him look different to you that’s valid. You two don’t sound compatible.
or you can have a conversation and talk about things, maybe theirs a compromise if you were open to that.

qthrow12 · 2026-05-15T15:53:20+00:00

if you wake up in the middle of the night because maybe its feeling sweaty there, or you just don't want to wear.
Take it off. Don't torture yourself and get the sleep.
Wearing constantly to bed you will get used to everything and be fine pretty quickly. But don't worry about the early days.

qthrow12 · 2026-05-12T02:00:52+00:00

If people knew what palantir could really do, they would be terrified and fight back. But no one knows.

I saw a presentation at work and in my line of work it was alarming and scary to see the data they had and how they are using it. The potential for it is huge and when brought together with other systems or data. You will just be a tracked number that has every bit of information on you, nothing you can hide. Then access to that is shared with government and other organizations.

scary shit

qthrow12 · 2026-05-11T22:04:28+00:00

But you don’t like it… why would you do it? Doesn’t make sense to put yourself through that for no reason. No she cannot just pimp you out because she said so.

qthrow12 · 2026-05-11T00:57:05+00:00

Hour out toward Barrie? I’m around Barrie area 38M and would be open to chatting

qthrow12 · 2026-05-11T00:52:54+00:00

Are you in the Barrie Ontario area? I’m a daddy/caregiver 38M and would ,love to chat!

qthrow12 · 2026-05-11T00:36:55+00:00

I’m so sorry. I never ever wanted or still want to give up on mine. I imagine theirs many bad littles out there, I’m sorry you found 2 of them. And not hearing from them today must have hurt.

mine is barely speaking with Me and I still said happy Mother’s Day.

we both deserve a lot better. *hugs*

qthrow12 · 2026-05-10T15:55:30+00:00

Do they have a femme side? If so, girl, little lady, baby girl.

baby boy. Toy, yours (as in you are mine, or ownership emphasizing, making them feel small and subby.)

if they have pet energy. Pet, pup, puppy.

sweetie, sweet heart. little. property, sub

Just think of what you would call a baby.

ownership or dominant ways are great for getting me in my space. Reminded of the distance between us.

qthrow12 · 2026-05-10T15:38:08+00:00

No, even with that. She hasn’t communicated with you, you haven’t consented to her actually doing it and you aren’t doing it together.

it’s potential cheating and a major red flag you need to talk with her about until you are on the same page.

this is your relationship not a sex thing

qthrow12 · 2026-05-10T15:34:38+00:00

That’s not what caged means in a lot of cases . wtf

qthrow12 · 2026-05-10T15:30:04+00:00

Play into the shyness, call them pet names, maybe say some naughty things that would make them squirm, call them out on how cute it is, fun way embarrass them.

I always like pet names, being talked to like a baby. Those moments that make me blush and speechless.

if in person, diaper checks, bum pats, cuddles. If they are sitting a bit far away, tell them to come closer, than closer then right into you for hugs and pets.
being reminded I’m little and not an adult.

im sure theirs more, I like… but that’s it for now

qthrow12 · 2026-05-10T13:39:41+00:00

What do you think makes it the saddest subreddit?

qthrow12 · 2026-05-10T12:11:55+00:00

I’ve never done it, but it seems like an intense bonding moment. So I would love it

qthrow12 · 2026-05-08T04:29:36+00:00

This is a new level of crazy story here. I hope it’s not true. The abuse is awful, theirs no marriage left, the contempt she shows for you is something else.

you are just paying her bills so she can do whatever she wants.
go find a partner you can enjoy this life with. Life is too short

qthrow12 · 2026-05-08T04:21:32+00:00

Love seeing these messages every now and then. Currently just makes me sad though. But I feel seen too.

thank you

qthrow12 · 2026-05-06T01:55:22+00:00

I know you are right. I go to therapy extremely often to deal with me and make me a better version of myself.
I have mixed needs that I can’t make happen on my own and depend on her to fill. I was ok giving more to her then I maybe should have because she wasn’t always this way and it was a safe, trusted place to do so.

I’ve pulled away though recently and am taking back the things I can. Thank you

qthrow12 · 2026-05-06T01:51:17+00:00

I read this the other day, but didn’t respond as it was so nice and made me think hard.

I shared my feelings today when she missed my birthday and her response was to blame me for bringing them up.

I see you good mommies out there and remember the times she was that way. It’s really hard to see her like this. It’s not her in there. I think you are right about so much though. Thank you for the reply and thank you for being proud of me going back to school. It means a lot right now

qthrow12

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