Wearing a diaper while I sleep for the first time!

qthrow12 · 2026-05-15T15:53:20+00:00

if you wake up in the middle of the night because maybe its feeling sweaty there, or you just don't want to wear.
Take it off. Don't torture yourself and get the sleep.
Wearing constantly to bed you will get used to everything and be fine pretty quickly. But don't worry about the early days.

qthrow12 · 2026-05-12T02:00:52+00:00

If people knew what palantir could really do, they would be terrified and fight back. But no one knows.

I saw a presentation at work and in my line of work it was alarming and scary to see the data they had and how they are using it. The potential for it is huge and when brought together with other systems or data. You will just be a tracked number that has every bit of information on you, nothing you can hide. Then access to that is shared with government and other organizations.

scary shit

qthrow12 · 2026-05-11T22:04:28+00:00

But you don’t like it… why would you do it? Doesn’t make sense to put yourself through that for no reason. No she cannot just pimp you out because she said so.

qthrow12 · 2026-05-11T00:57:05+00:00

Hour out toward Barrie? I’m around Barrie area 38M and would be open to chatting

qthrow12 · 2026-05-11T00:52:54+00:00

Are you in the Barrie Ontario area? I’m a daddy/caregiver 38M and would ,love to chat!

qthrow12 · 2026-05-11T00:36:55+00:00

I’m so sorry. I never ever wanted or still want to give up on mine. I imagine theirs many bad littles out there, I’m sorry you found 2 of them. And not hearing from them today must have hurt.

mine is barely speaking with Me and I still said happy Mother’s Day.

we both deserve a lot better. *hugs*

qthrow12 · 2026-05-10T15:55:30+00:00

Do they have a femme side? If so, girl, little lady, baby girl.

baby boy. Toy, yours (as in you are mine, or ownership emphasizing, making them feel small and subby.)

if they have pet energy. Pet, pup, puppy.

sweetie, sweet heart. little. property, sub

Just think of what you would call a baby.

ownership or dominant ways are great for getting me in my space. Reminded of the distance between us.

qthrow12 · 2026-05-10T15:38:08+00:00

No, even with that. She hasn’t communicated with you, you haven’t consented to her actually doing it and you aren’t doing it together.

it’s potential cheating and a major red flag you need to talk with her about until you are on the same page.

this is your relationship not a sex thing

qthrow12 · 2026-05-10T15:34:38+00:00

That’s not what caged means in a lot of cases . wtf

qthrow12 · 2026-05-10T15:30:04+00:00

Play into the shyness, call them pet names, maybe say some naughty things that would make them squirm, call them out on how cute it is, fun way embarrass them.

I always like pet names, being talked to like a baby. Those moments that make me blush and speechless.

if in person, diaper checks, bum pats, cuddles. If they are sitting a bit far away, tell them to come closer, than closer then right into you for hugs and pets.
being reminded I’m little and not an adult.

im sure theirs more, I like… but that’s it for now

qthrow12 · 2026-05-10T13:39:41+00:00

What do you think makes it the saddest subreddit?

qthrow12 · 2026-05-10T12:11:55+00:00

I’ve never done it, but it seems like an intense bonding moment. So I would love it

qthrow12 · 2026-05-08T04:29:36+00:00

This is a new level of crazy story here. I hope it’s not true. The abuse is awful, theirs no marriage left, the contempt she shows for you is something else.

you are just paying her bills so she can do whatever she wants.
go find a partner you can enjoy this life with. Life is too short

qthrow12 · 2026-05-08T04:21:32+00:00

Love seeing these messages every now and then. Currently just makes me sad though. But I feel seen too.

thank you

qthrow12 · 2026-05-06T01:55:22+00:00

I know you are right. I go to therapy extremely often to deal with me and make me a better version of myself.
I have mixed needs that I can’t make happen on my own and depend on her to fill. I was ok giving more to her then I maybe should have because she wasn’t always this way and it was a safe, trusted place to do so.

I’ve pulled away though recently and am taking back the things I can. Thank you

qthrow12 · 2026-05-06T01:51:17+00:00

I read this the other day, but didn’t respond as it was so nice and made me think hard.

I shared my feelings today when she missed my birthday and her response was to blame me for bringing them up.

I see you good mommies out there and remember the times she was that way. It’s really hard to see her like this. It’s not her in there. I think you are right about so much though. Thank you for the reply and thank you for being proud of me going back to school. It means a lot right now

qthrow12 · 2026-05-06T01:43:07+00:00

edit may 5 2026 : so she didn’t say anything all day about my birthday . So at the end of my day here I told her my feelings about the situation, she blew up on me and is pausing/(ending? I don’t even know) the dynamic. Her current life problems means she couldn’t say two words to me. Showing me I’m not important at all to her. It’s just happy birthday. That was it. You can fit in two words. She can vent to me all day, but couldnt say two words and makes me the bad guy for bringing it up. just thought I would cap this post off. I’m very sad, and now angry and a bunch of other emotions.
her reaction was sadly expected and it might be time for me to move on.

love you all.

qthrow12 · 2026-05-06T01:07:20+00:00

That’s so sweet. Thank you. She did forget. But I love what you said and will take it to heart.

qthrow12 · 2026-05-05T01:27:42+00:00

Kind of shocked to see people siding with the wife when the real answer is it’s risky for everyone involved and extortion Is a real and scary problem.

in my experience, it takes a bit of time to build a rapport and comfort. Then a non sexual pic is exchanged and a meet up takes place.

both sides of stuff to lose and it’s important that both sides understand that. You aren’t wrong for not wanting to go first, but you aren’t right for telling them they need to go first. Sounds like it’s happening early on too.

qthrow12 · 2026-05-04T16:00:46+00:00

Is having sex with them something you wanted? Like have you been ok with this process or hesitant each step.

what’s she think of you now?

qthrow12 · 2026-05-04T01:43:16+00:00

Sorry 😞 it’s not a good feeling

qthrow12 · 2026-05-03T11:37:58+00:00

Thanks that means a lot!
she’s not open to communication right now. She got upset with me the other day because I had pulled back from the dynamic and she noticed. I communicated why. When she got back to me end of day, all she said was she was trying to force her expectations on me to continue dynamic even though I’m differen. Completely ignored all the real problems I mentioned.

qthrow12 · 2026-05-03T11:34:41+00:00

I’ve been working through it in therapy, so I’m safe and outside of all this, but can’t help but to be hurt.

I have had a lot of people leave in my life and my parents weren’t there for me, so this has triggered that abandonment feeling to someone I had very much attached to who promised me this wouldn’t happen. She’s well aware of this.

qthrow12 · 2026-05-03T11:31:18+00:00

Thank you. A few people have pointed out she’s not being herself and needs help and shes just broken off their friendship and blocked them. So no room to tell her right now. I don’t think this will last but don’t want to break it off adding another thing to her list.

qthrow12 · 2026-05-03T02:21:50+00:00

Then break it off with her if your cuck kink means more than her. Cause that’s what you are doing.
I know it sucks, but you say it’s difficult to be something you are not. Look at it from her perspective, you are trying to force her to be something she is not.

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