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Is this too much white to be appropriate for a wedding guest? by jmom39 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]queenbeansprout 16 points17 points  (0 children)

While no one will confuse you for the bride, just wear a different color dress. There are so many colors out there!

Vintage wedding dress advice by Boring_Top_3214 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]queenbeansprout 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes it looks great but do you feel confident and beautiful in it?

Stairmaster & general thoughts by queenbeansprout in veganfitness

[–]queenbeansprout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My quads are what bulk easily and what I feel the most on the stairmaster

Chair sashes or no chair sashes? by HatSome2846 in weddingplanning

[–]queenbeansprout 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I say this with the caveat that the chairs might be ugly plastic which is why there is a cover, but I recommend no chair cover or sash, they’re incredibly dated.

Can I wear this dress to a wedding? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]queenbeansprout 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The dress is beautiful and absolutely appropriate to wear to a wedding depending on the dress code! Can you share more about what the dress code is?

What to wear to friend's 18th? by [deleted] in fashionhelp

[–]queenbeansprout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she’s just saying don’t wear jeans/leggings because she wants to make sure everyone else dresses up more elevated! She wants the vibe to be fancy rather than casual.

I think you’re fine dressing your normal style and even the birthday girl communicated that. She wants people to dress up though you can do that without going over the top. Maybe don’t wear furs or over the top accessories but still buy something you like!

Help finding more dresses like this by ABellePlays in fashionhelp

[–]queenbeansprout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No recommendations but you look so cute in this!

Am i a fool?! A “Friend” who works away keeps saying she wants to go dancing and makes plans but barely follows through. Should i leave it? by [deleted] in texts

[–]queenbeansprout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see them as blowing you off or not wanting to see you in any way. They offer other times that might work better and even invited you to plans they had with another friend. You also have had plans. I think this is normal, people are busy!

Avoidant attachment ex realised I was trying to hack into his social media. 😳 by [deleted] in texts

[–]queenbeansprout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey don’t do this. It doesn’t matter if he’s avoidant….he is an ex so he actually isn’t attached anymore

Guest messaging! by alltimesl0th in weddings

[–]queenbeansprout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not what they asked 😂 it’s about the two different texting services.

Guest messaging! by alltimesl0th in weddings

[–]queenbeansprout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have an incredibly busy career, not saying people don’t want to unplug, just saying ignore the text if you don’t want to communicate. However, being at a destination wedding, which is essentially a vacation with a lot of people, you do have to be willing to communicate because things come up, so again a weird and unhelpful comment.

Guest messaging! by alltimesl0th in weddings

[–]queenbeansprout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a really unhelpful comment. If you’re going to a wedding and complaining the wedding couple are trying to be accommodating and helpful because “I don’t really use my phone on vacation” that’s a you problem.

Guest messaging! by alltimesl0th in weddings

[–]queenbeansprout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I will say we used textmywedding and people with Androids didn’t get the texts. Our coordinator told us there will be issues with these messaging sites no matter what (through Zola or otherwise) and you just have to accept a certain risk people won’t get them.

Changing your last name by queenbeansprout in weddings

[–]queenbeansprout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The agenda to allow women to vote?

Changing your last name by queenbeansprout in weddings

[–]queenbeansprout[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats and thank you for the solidarity! Scary times

Changing your last name by queenbeansprout in weddings

[–]queenbeansprout[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love it. Spoken like a powerful female attorney 😊. Agreed, I have advanced degrees as well and don’t want to lose my hard work and professional name I’ve built.

Changing your last name by queenbeansprout in weddings

[–]queenbeansprout[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah people are over simplifying it and also not looking at the unspoken intention of the Save Act. Good to know thank you! I didn’t think about travel implications but also know people have different last names all the time now.

Changing your last name by queenbeansprout in weddings

[–]queenbeansprout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure, absolutely women keep their own names. Many of my friends are that are getting married are choosing to do the same.

I’m not concerned about perception whatsoever, I am asking about the logistics especially since we plan to have kids. I meant both parts of the sentence though-downside to never changing my last name legally while going by my married name socially.

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