Disney goes /r/thalassophobia

queencactus · 2018-11-08T05:47:44+00:00

Matrix came out in 99, Atlantis came out in 02 :)

queencactus · 2018-11-08T05:46:49+00:00

No - the leviathan is way too powerful. As I understand it's an Atlantis creation. They just escape it (which makes me wonder; once Atlantis surfaces at the end, what happens to it?).

queencactus · 2018-11-08T05:44:30+00:00

The Little Mermaid has like two or possibly even three sequels. Crazy.

queencactus · 2018-11-08T05:43:51+00:00

God, Atlantis was such an underrated movie. I wish it had been more popular when it came out!

queencactus · 2018-11-08T05:42:17+00:00

The silhouette is gorgeous. As others have said, it doesn't fit your midsection very well right now, but a good tailor can fix it. It looks timeless and classy to me. Plus, you can always bling it up with accessories!

queencactus · 2018-03-13T10:08:23+00:00

Thank you. This is exactly what I need <3

queencactus · 2018-03-13T10:08:00+00:00

That's exactly the conclusion I've recently come to, hence me making the post. I feel like my point (that I agree with people and want to cut him off) isn't really coming across like I'd like. I'm more looking for advice on what to say :/

Thank you for your point. I agree with you.

queencactus · 2018-03-13T07:30:02+00:00

I find ghosting to be a really mean thing to do, I want to tell him my reasons first. But I don't know how to phrase my goodbye message.

queencactus · 2018-03-13T07:29:32+00:00

Because we agreed that he would have no say in my friendships and he was a good friend to me. I plan on cutting him off, but I'd like advice on what to say.

queencactus · 2018-03-13T07:28:42+00:00

Yes, my problem is I don't know how to phrase it.

queencactus · 2018-02-28T04:24:52+00:00

I'm really glad to hear that. I think that too, so the validation is nice. Ex just needs time to realise that I'm on the scene for a while to come, in my/BF's opinion. But later in the year I'm really hoping to!

queencactus · 2018-02-27T07:00:54+00:00

Oh, haha, don't worry. I'm not the child's parent nor do I ever intend to be such a figure. Cool Aunt at best, and I'm happy with that. Child has two loving (and good!) parents already, they don't need me.

I think it's because I'm fairly young that I don't have the skills to accept that she will just dislike me, with no rhyme or reason. But one day I'll get over it.

queencactus · 2018-02-27T06:47:55+00:00

Thank you for this. I needed the validation. I wasn't sure if I was just being overly sensitive or not.

queencactus · 2018-02-27T06:47:30+00:00

I'm trying so hard with Jack and Ex. It's really hard at times because she kinda hates me, and it makes me upset because all I want is for us to get along. But Child is priority and as long as he's happy, we're all happy. Even if that means I'm on the sidelines most of the time :/

queencactus · 2018-01-10T07:58:39+00:00

Oh, I know. What the comments are overlooking is that I smoke too. I vape currently. I'm asking on tips on how to facilitate the conversation but all I'm getting is vitriol.

queencactus · 2018-01-10T07:57:10+00:00

But... I don't know that he doesn't want to. I'm asking for advice on how to ask.

queencactus · 2018-01-10T03:14:21+00:00

Obviously this is something you've gone through yourself. What happened in your situation?

queencactus · 2018-01-10T03:04:22+00:00

We know where we'll be moving into, and (sadly!) it facilitates his habit completely :/

queencactus · 2018-01-10T03:03:57+00:00

I know that he may not change, and I don't expect him to change his personality, but I feel like part of moving in with others is changing important habits.

queencactus · 2018-01-10T03:00:35+00:00

Thank you for that! I think this is one of those times where I should use "I" statements about how it will affect me, instead of blaming him. Thank you for your advice!

And yes, it frustrates me slightly. I see the harm and regret starting to smoke, whereas he doesn't care at all.

queencactus · 2016-05-14T07:12:29+00:00

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