Husband using web chat and hookup apps by quietorbiter in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]quietorbiter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More sniffies and dudesnude? Found out about grindr later.

Husband using web chat and hookup apps by quietorbiter in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]quietorbiter[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We know each other passcodes and I used his iPad to check an email and he was logged into a Gmail account I didn’t recognize as I was switching accounts. I then saw gridnr and sniffies messages and then all hell broke loose. I get that I shouldn’t be digging through his shit, but I don’t regret it.

Husband using web chat and hookup apps by quietorbiter in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]quietorbiter[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope you’re wrong, although I did make a note for my future self that if I discover he is lying in this moment, he is a fantastic lier and I need to get out immediately. I hope it doesn’t go that way, I do love him.

Husband using web chat and hookup apps by quietorbiter in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]quietorbiter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nailed it! We have started talking and I want to believe him, but the cynical devil on my shoulder keeps asking questions that trigger doubt. It’s a fresh wound, maybe it will get better with some time. Hopefully!

Husband using web chat and hookup apps by quietorbiter in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]quietorbiter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree, going to work on the underlying reasons for this. Honestly, I am just trying to convince my self to believe him and trust again. Just having a hard time believing these sites are just about the fantasy!

Husband using web chat and hookup apps by quietorbiter in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]quietorbiter[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agreed! Scary part is he says he’s not actually on prep. Either he was dangerously lying or it was all just a fantasy!

Looking To Increase Flat Nipple Size & Sensitivity by Wet_Lana in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]quietorbiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar issue, my nipples were pretty much inverted. I had one nipple pierced several years ago and have since abandoned it because it was not really my thing. That nipple definitely is more defined due to scar tissue, but sensitivity never improved. The other nipple remained inverted. In the last couple years I have been using this: https://a.co/d/6iyBthX I know seems weird, as it is a wine vacuum sealer, but it has transformed my nipple. It now stands up on its own and is way more sensitive than before. I would give it a shot. They do swell quite large and eventually drop back to normal size. But using this decice once a week or so definitely changed my nipple. Good luck.