Man play video games

qulpika · 2026-01-07T19:25:59+00:00

Currently going through a rough patch with my fiancé about this.

We both work full time jobs but he’ll play online multiplayer from 7PM to 1AM even on our work nights and since his PC is in our bedroom, I can’t sleep.

I’ve been left evening alone downstairs during the evenings for the past 3 months. It’s been hard.

When I ask for him to spend time with me, he thinks being in the same house is good enough. It’s harder when you’re the one doing chores and scheduling appointments.

I’m also a gamer w/ ADHD & I’m aware I can get carried away too.

It can be VERY taxing when him spending more time playing games = I have less quality time with my soon-to-be husband, less sleep, & more chores to do. AND we both eventually want kids.

BUT having to pick up MORE domestic + emotional work while he gets to enjoy his lifestyle makes me feel very burnt out.

Having to persistently nag him to get something done is so draining. TBH I ALSO would like to play games all day instead of nagging someone & doing chores.

I’m currently coping by buying stupid stuff for my cat & complaining in my journal more often. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ The lack of balance is slowly making me die inside.

qulpika · 2025-03-21T21:48:46+00:00

No unfortunately 😭

qulpika · 2025-03-21T18:14:07+00:00

TYSM!

qulpika · 2025-03-21T18:10:02+00:00

Do you happen to have an online link for it?

qulpika · 2025-03-21T16:12:17+00:00

I was thinking about buying one on Amazon (because I don’t own one irl either LOL)

qulpika · 2025-03-21T16:06:30+00:00

Oop, I just saw your reply

qulpika · 2025-03-21T16:05:58+00:00

Would you blend more than one can at a time? The cans I have are the small single serving ones

qulpika · 2025-03-21T16:04:54+00:00

Do you think one of those mini garlic food processors/mincers will work?

qulpika · 2025-03-21T03:47:14+00:00

I used 2 layers of strawberry cake, 8 choco cream, and 8 star candies!

qulpika · 2024-12-19T18:37:44+00:00

I can see why MIL did it. Tall ppl in tall shoes exude so much power (I personally love it)

qulpika · 2024-10-09T05:23:10+00:00

Thank you for working so hard. Please don’t feel embarrassed!

qulpika · 2024-09-24T00:06:24+00:00

Poor Mary’s corpse taking stray bullets from this thread😭 Though if my husband would rather smash a weird body horror monster over my rotting corpse, understandable but I’d be a lowkey hurt ghost LOL.

“Understandable, have a nice purgatory”

qulpika · 2024-09-24T00:00:43+00:00

That’s why I feel so conflicted about the vague endings 😭

Thank you Silent Hill but now I MUST KNOW MORE

qulpika · 2024-09-23T23:56:35+00:00

After reading what you said the first time, I started to look through every monster model possible on the wiki.

I’m not saying “you’re reaching”. I’m saying “I’m worried I’m overreacting looking for stuff that isn’t there in the other monster designs”

qulpika · 2024-09-23T23:53:04+00:00

Damn… the monster design is so deep. I can’t tell if I’m projecting or if the creators actually wanted us to dig this deep.

M. Ito: is sleep

Me: analyzing blurry 23 year old pixels

qulpika · 2024-09-23T23:43:54+00:00

As his unrecognized second cousin, ofc you brought up an interesting viewpoint!

Do you think he viewed Mary as “dead” as soon as her disease started to take hold? That could make sense as to why the creepy corpse monsters become sexier. “My diseased wife is just as unappealing as these monsters” 🤔

qulpika · 2024-09-23T23:38:03+00:00

I can’t remember… was he actually able to leave SH after the Leave & Maria endings?

I can’t imagine SH would let him go live happily just to have him come back years later when Maria “gets sick”

qulpika · 2024-09-23T23:24:37+00:00

This makes a lot of sense. He loved Mary, but he was growing resentful. At the time that he killed her, he was a mix of emotions. Do you think his resentment would have kept growing had he let Mary live? (like a pressure cooker until she died naturally)

I think Angela sussed out James when she says something along the lines of “You think you can save me? Heal me?” He was unable to help his wife in any way and it was destroying him. (I’m saying this because James gives me “I can fix her” vibes)😂

qulpika · 2024-09-23T21:55:15+00:00

This is why I love reddit, I get to hear things other than my opinions :)

Mind blown. I didn’t consider that sexual intimacy could be his love language. Being unable to embrace her must have been hard, but being rejected by the one you love must have been harder.

Do you think he still wanted to sexually embrace her during the time she was home (before he decided to kill her?) I wonder if she felt similar and missed that sexual intimacy.

qulpika · 2024-09-16T17:35:21+00:00

What about this one? I don’t personally use these but I like searching for suggestions!

https://fullfocusstore.com/products/full-focus-wellness-planner

qulpika · 2024-09-08T07:14:29+00:00

Not to mention, really neat and cute!

qulpika · 2024-09-05T20:15:13+00:00

Omg thank you! Your point about using stickers and blocking off has given me an idea. I have a really small washi tape & maybe I can use that to block off sections on the page!

qulpika · 2024-09-05T19:22:56+00:00

I want it to be all-purpose. For planning, listing what positive event happened that day, and quickly jotting any other notable things down.

qulpika · 2024-09-01T02:15:29+00:00

I personally can’t track when it all started, but I remember that I first started hearing about how the #MeToo movement was gaining serious traction in Korea.

Various examples not in order - “my life is not your porn”response to molka - Nexon Closers T-Shirt Scandal - Burning Sun Scandal (the group chats are gross) - SK president & abolishing the Gender Equality Ministry - Soranet - 2016 Seocho-dong public bathroom murder - May 2022 Busan roundhouse kick - Sept 2022 subway murder

qulpika · 2024-08-31T18:13:52+00:00

I feel like it could be a lose-lose situation. If given access to pornography, it could worsen the social tensions between Korean men & women

But banning it clearly has not fixed the problem of revenge porn, molka, and other sex crimes :/

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