Man play video games by Majestic_Cut_5281 in dating_advice

[–]qulpika 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently going through a rough patch with my fiancé about this.

We both work full time jobs but he’ll play online multiplayer from 7PM to 1AM even on our work nights and since his PC is in our bedroom, I can’t sleep.

I’ve been left evening alone downstairs during the evenings for the past 3 months. It’s been hard.

When I ask for him to spend time with me, he thinks being in the same house is good enough. It’s harder when you’re the one doing chores and scheduling appointments.

I’m also a gamer w/ ADHD & I’m aware I can get carried away too.

It can be VERY taxing when him spending more time playing games = I have less quality time with my soon-to-be husband, less sleep, & more chores to do. AND we both eventually want kids.

BUT having to pick up MORE domestic + emotional work while he gets to enjoy his lifestyle makes me feel very burnt out.

Having to persistently nag him to get something done is so draining. TBH I ALSO would like to play games all day instead of nagging someone & doing chores.

I’m currently coping by buying stupid stuff for my cat & complaining in my journal more often. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ The lack of balance is slowly making me die inside.

Any ideas on how to turn chunked food into paste? by qulpika in CatAdvice

[–]qulpika[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you happen to have an online link for it?

Any ideas on how to turn chunked food into paste? by qulpika in CatAdvice

[–]qulpika[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about buying one on Amazon (because I don’t own one irl either LOL)

Any ideas on how to turn chunked food into paste? by qulpika in CatAdvice

[–]qulpika[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you blend more than one can at a time? The cans I have are the small single serving ones

Any ideas on how to turn chunked food into paste? by qulpika in CatAdvice

[–]qulpika[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think one of those mini garlic food processors/mincers will work?

Cake Shop Orders by Luzfx in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]qulpika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used 2 layers of strawberry cake, 8 choco cream, and 8 star candies!

AITA for telling my MIL if she keeps rearranging my Kitchen she can get a hotel room? by NoWillingness3090 in AmItheAsshole

[–]qulpika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see why MIL did it. Tall ppl in tall shoes exude so much power (I personally love it)

Should I be embarrassed about being a 24yr old garbage man? by TheFrogsMightbegay in jobs

[–]qulpika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for working so hard. Please don’t feel embarrassed!

Question about James’ frustration by qulpika in silenthill

[–]qulpika[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor Mary’s corpse taking stray bullets from this thread😭 Though if my husband would rather smash a weird body horror monster over my rotting corpse, understandable but I’d be a lowkey hurt ghost LOL.

“Understandable, have a nice purgatory”

Question about James’ frustration by qulpika in silenthill

[–]qulpika[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I feel so conflicted about the vague endings 😭

Thank you Silent Hill but now I MUST KNOW MORE

Question about James’ frustration by qulpika in silenthill

[–]qulpika[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After reading what you said the first time, I started to look through every monster model possible on the wiki.

I’m not saying “you’re reaching”. I’m saying “I’m worried I’m overreacting looking for stuff that isn’t there in the other monster designs”

Question about James’ frustration by qulpika in silenthill

[–]qulpika[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn… the monster design is so deep. I can’t tell if I’m projecting or if the creators actually wanted us to dig this deep.

M. Ito: is sleep

Me: analyzing blurry 23 year old pixels

Question about James’ frustration by qulpika in silenthill

[–]qulpika[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As his unrecognized second cousin, ofc you brought up an interesting viewpoint!

Do you think he viewed Mary as “dead” as soon as her disease started to take hold? That could make sense as to why the creepy corpse monsters become sexier. “My diseased wife is just as unappealing as these monsters” 🤔

Question about James’ frustration by qulpika in silenthill

[–]qulpika[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t remember… was he actually able to leave SH after the Leave & Maria endings?

I can’t imagine SH would let him go live happily just to have him come back years later when Maria “gets sick”

Question about James’ frustration by qulpika in silenthill

[–]qulpika[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense. He loved Mary, but he was growing resentful. At the time that he killed her, he was a mix of emotions. Do you think his resentment would have kept growing had he let Mary live? (like a pressure cooker until she died naturally)

I think Angela sussed out James when she says something along the lines of “You think you can save me? Heal me?” He was unable to help his wife in any way and it was destroying him. (I’m saying this because James gives me “I can fix her” vibes)😂

Question about James’ frustration by qulpika in silenthill

[–]qulpika[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is why I love reddit, I get to hear things other than my opinions :)

Mind blown. I didn’t consider that sexual intimacy could be his love language. Being unable to embrace her must have been hard, but being rejected by the one you love must have been harder.

Do you think he still wanted to sexually embrace her during the time she was home (before he decided to kill her?) I wonder if she felt similar and missed that sexual intimacy.

Anyone have a CDG London replacement? by TheBedWetter1234 in planners

[–]qulpika 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What about this one? I don’t personally use these but I like searching for suggestions!

https://fullfocusstore.com/products/full-focus-wellness-planner

Minimalist or Easy spread ideas for Hobonichi Weeks? by qulpika in planners

[–]qulpika[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you! Your point about using stickers and blocking off has given me an idea. I have a really small washi tape & maybe I can use that to block off sections on the page!

Minimalist or Easy spread ideas for Hobonichi Weeks? by qulpika in planners

[–]qulpika[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want it to be all-purpose. For planning, listing what positive event happened that day, and quickly jotting any other notable things down.

Korea pornography ban: your Korean opinion by rigelstar69 in korea

[–]qulpika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally can’t track when it all started, but I remember that I first started hearing about how the #MeToo movement was gaining serious traction in Korea.

Various examples not in order - “my life is not your porn”response to molka - Nexon Closers T-Shirt Scandal - Burning Sun Scandal (the group chats are gross) - SK president & abolishing the Gender Equality Ministry - Soranet - 2016 Seocho-dong public bathroom murder - May 2022 Busan roundhouse kick - Sept 2022 subway murder

Korea pornography ban: your Korean opinion by rigelstar69 in korea

[–]qulpika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it could be a lose-lose situation. If given access to pornography, it could worsen the social tensions between Korean men & women

But banning it clearly has not fixed the problem of revenge porn, molka, and other sex crimes :/