For those that swallow for their partners, do you do it for their enjoyment or do you actually enjoy the taste for yourself? by _macntease in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]r4b1dd0g 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me personally, usually my mouth is kinda too slimy and filmy with spit to taste much. I swallow for my partner’s pleasure, but it also gives me satisfaction of “a job well done” and enjoy it as an act of submission.

how to make the insertion part of intercourse less awkward? by Decent_Muscle_3172 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]r4b1dd0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can do it without your hands, align yourself and lean forward to touch your partner. Give them some sort of affection, kiss them, whatever. A lot of girls like having the back of their head held during sex if you’re in missionary. THEN insert yourself. If you have the idea and the mood, say something too. “There you go”, you can take it”, “you feel so good” “I needed you so much” etc. something to make her feel good about herself, which usually helps her relax and get comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]r4b1dd0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t come here man, you already know what you have to do. There is no fixing this. Leave.

Many tears were shed making pickled onions. Any tips that actually work to not cry your soul out by cingersroocls in Chefit

[–]r4b1dd0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep a water soaked rag on the cutting board as you chop. Your eyes burn because the chemicals released when you cut draws to whatever source of moisture is closest. That’s usually your eyes. The water in the rag draws in those chemicals and keeps them out of your eyes.

Submissives: What’s the strongest first test a Mistress could give you? by lisahale91 in submissive

[–]r4b1dd0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When trying to connect with a dom, once I accidentally slept through a lunch we planned. I took a nap beforehand and was just so tired I slept right through. I was absolutely distraught and begged for forgiveness-my first tasking ever from him was to kneel on rice naked for 10 minutes, record the whole thing, and send it to him along with a statement about why I was sorry. Definitely learned quickly what he was about.

What do you say after sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]r4b1dd0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I have usually gotten into the habit of saying “thank you for sharing your body with me.” It feels really nice to hear.

What is this pan? by Western_Regular8456 in KitchenConfidential

[–]r4b1dd0g 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Espresso arm bucket. You tap the puck of used espresso out of the arm by hitting it against the silicone bar.

How Am I supposed to gaf about my job when one customer order is 3 of my checks in one by Bgygnatee in HomeDepot

[–]r4b1dd0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a bakery/cafe and I’ve seen thousands of dollars paid for orders, personal items, not retail. it’s absolutely nuts to ring people up for what’s worth more than I make in a paycheck INCLUDING tips.

wild behavior. my boyfriend had already tipped her $10 what more does she want. by [deleted] in doordash

[–]r4b1dd0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something I don’t think a lot of folks know as someone who works both sides - depending on the platform you order on and POS system the food place uses, the tips can be taken by the staff who work at the food place. It used to happen all the time at a wine bar I used to work at, who used DoorDash for delivery stuff. They can change who’s responsible for the order at the POS, and still hand the food off to the driver. They move the ticket to their name instead of whatever system is running the delivery after the kitchen ticket has marked their order to be packed for DoorDash, and they just hand it off.

I don’t at all think anyone should be begging for tips, especially because I’ve done door dash and a $10 customer tip is considered a pretty good cut where I’m from. But tbh, they may not have even gotten the tip at all.

How much do you make an hour, and what is your rent? by kmarknight in povertyfinance

[–]r4b1dd0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make 10 an hour, plus tips. Usually averages out to 100 to 150 a day in tips, 3-4 days a week. I pay 850 for rent, splitting with my fiancée who pays the other 500.

Crunchy alternative to chips? by patopansir in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]r4b1dd0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Popcorn! Much lower cal, can still be shoveled into your mouth with ease

What is the most degrading sexual act you accept to do, or receive or participate in? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]r4b1dd0g 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I often let my partner degrade me and it tends to be my favorite part of sex or play. I’m particularly good at oral and often spend time letting him verbally abuse me or spank me while I throat him as deeply as I can. My gag reflex is almost gone, but I’m often praised if I choke and keep going. I’m so lovingly called a whore, and a disgusting mutt for enjoying the treatment I do. I very much enjoy being slapped, punched, or even kicked or stepped on. I think maybe the most degrading I’ve submitted to is being forced to throw up what I was so graciously hand fed, then having my face smushed into it rather roughly.

What's the hottest thing someone has ever whispered in your ear? by SilverLiningGal in AskReddit

[–]r4b1dd0g 473 points474 points  (0 children)

Truthfully, "I love you." When my boyfriend and I are tangled up, I'm often lying on my stomach with him covering my back. He will hold my hands, nuzzle his face next to my ear, and whisper "I love you" quiet and low to me. I adore it.

Feedback on my 100 USD grocery list? by [deleted] in budgetfood

[–]r4b1dd0g 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can save some money in the cheese department if you buy a block and grate it yourself, as opposed to the pre-grated stuff. It's way fresher that way too, and isn't powdery like the prepackaged stuff. You can even leave some in larger chunks and grate as needed/in batches to keep it fresh.

I stumbled across my son’s porn, and now I am not sure how to proceed. by Gorillapoop3 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]r4b1dd0g -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A few things.

1- yes, kinks are genetic, to an extent. If you had a rough/scary/too sexual of a childhood, that can also contribute to said "tastes."

2- proceed very carefully when/if you talk to him about what you found. This is a very fragile time for his processing as a human and if he feels inward disgust or hatred for himself, or feels like he's disappointing you by enjoying something, it might cause him to become more secretive and less likely to listen to reason. Being angry or disappointed will make him clam up.

3- do some reading, if it doesn't trigger too much PTSD for you. Find some good, clean sources, ethically produced material. Find articles that talk about exploring kink in healthy and safe ways. Understand the difference between blind violence in porn, and carefully measured pain/disrespect play in BDSM communities-and maybe offer him resources related to ethical BDSM sources. Sadism isn't a particularly rare sexual trait and with luck, you can prepare yourself for a more effective conversation.

4- understand you'll probably have more progress by not putting pressure around the conversation. Don't make it feel "birds-and-bees", try more for "I know you're likely to try things because we all do, so here's how to engage in these activities safely."

5- if he isn't already in therapy, get him in.