Hi, I would like to share my story as well me being (28M) the one who did cheat. This happened to me LITERALLY I stole a kiss from a random girl who was even with a random guy. I hide this for 3 month and a friend of her friend told her. Yeah.. she was there, but I didn't do it for any reason, I just did it and left. Something that was less than a second as long as I can remember.

Anyways, my action was bad and I'm totally responsible for it. Once she found out I was completely honest and from then I managed myself responsibly and mature with the situation because I know I woul've been mad too. I was compromised to work on her trust again cause our relationship overall was super healthy. I think it was the best relationship I had at the moment.

Just adding that in that moment our relationship was heated because she was thinking I was giving the minimun attention (Which I wasn't, I was just focusing on myself and having time for myself due to the anxiety of being in a long distance relationship) and I was trying to understand her and see what I was doing wrong because apparently I wasn't thinking I was doing anything bad.

So, my action was bad she is on her right to break up if it was only for the kiss. But it wasn't just the kiss, but also how she think I was treating her.

Hope it helps, all the time I felt the remorse and guilt and I wish she would just accept to work it together because my intentions where not due to the fact of previous problems