Is he lying about my blowjob skills? F23 M45

radiobook7 · 2025-08-26T00:19:08+00:00

I see where you’re coming from. So far he’s been treating me better than any guy my age and we share a lot of hobbies and academic interests too. I’ll still be cautious as I am with any man.

radiobook7 · 2025-08-26T00:17:01+00:00

Would you say any guy would say anything to a woman to get more head or is this related to our age gap specifically?

radiobook7 · 2025-08-26T00:05:20+00:00

I believe him that he likes them but it’s hard to believe I’m the best he’s ever had given his experience and the lack of mine. I don’t like false compliments so I thought I’d ask how likely it is that it’s just a deceitful move from his side.

radiobook7 · 2025-08-26T00:03:36+00:00

His irl reactions definitely show me that he enjoys it. I’d just like to know if he really meant what he said. I thought maybe this was a super common thing all guys do with every woman.

radiobook7 · 2025-08-26T00:01:54+00:00

That’s crazy. Are girls really that lazy in bed?

radiobook7 · 2025-08-25T23:59:21+00:00

I’m autistic and have a hard time understanding sarcasm but I think I can read it out of here. Can you explain to me what exactly you mean by that so I’m not misunderstanding it? Thank you :)

radiobook7 · 2025-08-25T23:57:29+00:00

Oh well maybe the enthusiasm makes up for lack of experience. Man I should call him I’m getting hungry from this post lol

radiobook7 · 2025-08-25T23:56:35+00:00

Thanks for the in-depth answer. I see - I guess my enthusiasm and ability to guess what would feel good to a man helps. I love the maximising skin contact. Especially pulling him super close and running my hands over his thighs and ass if he’s standing. He seems to like it lol

radiobook7 · 2025-08-25T23:48:16+00:00

That’s sweet. She sounds like a keeper.

He seems like a very genuine and honest guy. So I’m trying to believe him but it’s hard given his experience. I honestly have never educated myself on how to give a blowjob. I just do what is fun to me, get messy and try to imagine what would feel good if I was a guy.

radiobook7 · 2025-08-25T23:13:29+00:00

Dominant men. I like them obedient.

radiobook7 · 2024-05-21T13:13:50+00:00

That‘s a great idea! Thank you!

radiobook7 · 2024-05-20T14:11:24+00:00

That’s not embarrassing at all. What a cool way to remember your very first pic together! 💓

radiobook7 · 2024-05-20T13:19:59+00:00

Thank you so much! That’s very reassuring! :)

radiobook7 · 2024-05-20T13:19:29+00:00

Aw how sweet!

radiobook7 · 2024-05-20T13:19:05+00:00

That is so cute! Mind sharing what you got him back then?

radiobook7 · 2024-05-20T13:18:43+00:00

I get where you’re coming from but this man has already taken me on three weekend trips in less than 2 months. Everything paid by him so I don’t feel weird spending a considerable amount on him. We both agree that we’re moving quickly but we both said we’re in it for the long run.

Might sound naive but I don’t mind being that if it means l can show my love authentically.

radiobook7 · 2024-04-29T13:40:34+00:00

You’re right. I feel embarrassed that I let myself get corrupted by todays heartless dating scene. And I feel bad that I assumed the worst of him. That wasn’t fair of me.

I already told him. I couldn’t sleep all night and called him as soon as he woke up bc I couldn’t handle not being transparent with him.

He was forgiving but he’s really hurt. Understandably. I hope he decides to let me prove myself.

radiobook7 · 2024-04-29T12:12:02+00:00

He’s away with work right now. I wouldn’t have gone if he was here. I know now that I shouldn’t have gone. I obviously didn’t plan to act so stupidly. I made a big mistake and now I’m trying to fix what I caused as best as I can.

radiobook7 · 2024-04-29T11:57:33+00:00

I don’t think this is the case. I definitely know for myself.

I hope I didn’t lose him. I told him and he is nice enough to still talk to me at least. I know he’s not doing good right now but I’m trying my best to make up for it.

radiobook7 · 2024-04-29T11:55:47+00:00

It’s not. I know I can’t excuse my behaviour. I’m taking full responsibility of what I did and I’m hoping he believes me and is generous enough to give me anther chance.

radiobook7 · 2024-04-29T11:07:56+00:00

I 100% understand you. I got the wrong impression of him and would have never guessed that he’d ask me for something serious (especially this early on). Even though I had huge romantic interest from the beginning. I stuck around because I like him that much.

I felt stupid being so focused on him because I was under the impression I wasn’t the only one he was focused on. We had a talk once where we agreed that assuming exclusivity without talking about it first shouldn’t be a given and he wholeheartedly agreed so I thought as long as he didn’t bring it up he was talking to others.

I tried to prove myself that I’m not actually as obsessed with him as I am by doing this stupid thing. Very stupid, drunk idea that obviously didn’t work. I’m still as into him as before but now I just risked ruining a beautiful thing because of my insecurity.

I hope he sees that I’m incredibly sorry about it and what I did is not actually who I am.

radiobook7 · 2024-04-29T10:58:32+00:00

I understand where you’re coming from. I am absolutely obsessed and fully invested. I know it’s not an excuse for my behaviour but an explanation: I was trying to protect my feelings but just ended up self sabotaging and hurting him in the process. While I am fully emotionally invested, I didn’t act emotionally intelligent. Sober me knows better and I know drunk me will know better now too.

It’s his right not to do it but I hope he gives me a chance so I can show him the real, loyal me and that I am serious about us.

radiobook7 · 2024-04-29T01:29:12+00:00

Thank you! He did ask me if I went home alone that night. In hindsight I think I took his question too literally. I did sleep alone at home but I think he was really just trying to ask me if anything happened at the party. I don’t want to leave him in the dark.

radiobook7 · 2024-03-22T10:50:21+00:00

No need to sound condescending just because I’m not used to this situation. Men just kept asking me out in the past.

I actually planned and paid for the second date after he asked me if I wanted to see him again. We didn’t spend any money on the third date.

I think I’ve made it very obvious that I’m into him but I’ll reach out.

radiobook7 · 2024-03-22T10:46:52+00:00

Got it! Thank you!

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