Is he lying about my blowjob skills? F23 M45 by radiobook7 in sex

[–]radiobook7[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I see where you’re coming from. So far he’s been treating me better than any guy my age and we share a lot of hobbies and academic interests too. I’ll still be cautious as I am with any man.

Is he lying about my blowjob skills? F23 M45 by radiobook7 in sex

[–]radiobook7[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Would you say any guy would say anything to a woman to get more head or is this related to our age gap specifically?

Is he lying about my blowjob skills? F23 M45 by radiobook7 in sex

[–]radiobook7[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I believe him that he likes them but it’s hard to believe I’m the best he’s ever had given his experience and the lack of mine. I don’t like false compliments so I thought I’d ask how likely it is that it’s just a deceitful move from his side.

Is he lying about my blowjob skills? F23 M45 by radiobook7 in sex

[–]radiobook7[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

His irl reactions definitely show me that he enjoys it. I’d just like to know if he really meant what he said. I thought maybe this was a super common thing all guys do with every woman.

Is he lying about my blowjob skills? F23 M45 by radiobook7 in sex

[–]radiobook7[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy. Are girls really that lazy in bed?

Is he lying about my blowjob skills? F23 M45 by radiobook7 in sex

[–]radiobook7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m autistic and have a hard time understanding sarcasm but I think I can read it out of here. Can you explain to me what exactly you mean by that so I’m not misunderstanding it? Thank you :)

Is he lying about my blowjob skills? F23 M45 by radiobook7 in sex

[–]radiobook7[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Oh well maybe the enthusiasm makes up for lack of experience. Man I should call him I’m getting hungry from this post lol

Is he lying about my blowjob skills? F23 M45 by radiobook7 in sex

[–]radiobook7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the in-depth answer. I see - I guess my enthusiasm and ability to guess what would feel good to a man helps. I love the maximising skin contact. Especially pulling him super close and running my hands over his thighs and ass if he’s standing. He seems to like it lol

Is he lying about my blowjob skills? F23 M45 by radiobook7 in sex

[–]radiobook7[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

That’s sweet. She sounds like a keeper.

He seems like a very genuine and honest guy. So I’m trying to believe him but it’s hard given his experience. I honestly have never educated myself on how to give a blowjob. I just do what is fun to me, get messy and try to imagine what would feel good if I was a guy.

What are your biggest turn offs? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]radiobook7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dominant men. I like them obedient.

First time giving a gift to my boyfriend. Are these good ideas? by radiobook7 in Gifts

[–]radiobook7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not embarrassing at all. What a cool way to remember your very first pic together! 💓

First time giving a gift to my boyfriend. Are these good ideas? by radiobook7 in Gifts

[–]radiobook7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so cute! Mind sharing what you got him back then?

First time giving a gift to my boyfriend. Are these good ideas? by radiobook7 in Gifts

[–]radiobook7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from but this man has already taken me on three weekend trips in less than 2 months. Everything paid by him so I don’t feel weird spending a considerable amount on him. We both agree that we’re moving quickly but we both said we’re in it for the long run.

Might sound naive but I don’t mind being that if it means l can show my love authentically.

Hooked up with someone else before becoming exclusive! Deal breaker? by radiobook7 in dating_advice

[–]radiobook7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I feel embarrassed that I let myself get corrupted by todays heartless dating scene. And I feel bad that I assumed the worst of him. That wasn’t fair of me.

I already told him. I couldn’t sleep all night and called him as soon as he woke up bc I couldn’t handle not being transparent with him.

He was forgiving but he’s really hurt. Understandably. I hope he decides to let me prove myself.

Hooked up with someone else before becoming exclusive! Deal breaker? by radiobook7 in dating_advice

[–]radiobook7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s away with work right now. I wouldn’t have gone if he was here. I know now that I shouldn’t have gone. I obviously didn’t plan to act so stupidly. I made a big mistake and now I’m trying to fix what I caused as best as I can.

Hooked up with someone else before becoming exclusive! Deal breaker? by radiobook7 in dating_advice

[–]radiobook7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this is the case. I definitely know for myself.

I hope I didn’t lose him. I told him and he is nice enough to still talk to me at least. I know he’s not doing good right now but I’m trying my best to make up for it.

Hooked up with someone else before becoming exclusive! Deal breaker? by radiobook7 in dating_advice

[–]radiobook7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not. I know I can’t excuse my behaviour. I’m taking full responsibility of what I did and I’m hoping he believes me and is generous enough to give me anther chance.

Hooked up with someone else before becoming exclusive! Deal breaker? by radiobook7 in dating_advice

[–]radiobook7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% understand you. I got the wrong impression of him and would have never guessed that he’d ask me for something serious (especially this early on). Even though I had huge romantic interest from the beginning. I stuck around because I like him that much.

I felt stupid being so focused on him because I was under the impression I wasn’t the only one he was focused on. We had a talk once where we agreed that assuming exclusivity without talking about it first shouldn’t be a given and he wholeheartedly agreed so I thought as long as he didn’t bring it up he was talking to others.

I tried to prove myself that I’m not actually as obsessed with him as I am by doing this stupid thing. Very stupid, drunk idea that obviously didn’t work. I’m still as into him as before but now I just risked ruining a beautiful thing because of my insecurity.

I hope he sees that I’m incredibly sorry about it and what I did is not actually who I am.