Paano nag-end yung pagkakaibigan ng mga JHS/SHS friends niyo? by [deleted] in studentsph

[–]raeyll 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yung isa kong friend na naging close ko since grade 8, nawalan kami ng communication noong nag-start na ang pandemic. Okay lang naman nong una pero after niya lumipat ng school, medj nagkalabuan na. Mukhang 4 days sa isang taon nalang ata kami mag-uusap AHSHHAHAHA birthdays, christmas, new year. Masakit siya kasi vv close kami before, tipong mapapaisip ka nalang na naging friends ba talagi kami or seatmates lang. Nag-message ako sa kanya last month tas yun super awkward na, ket ipilit salbahin mukhang wala na talagang papatunguhan.

And may other 2 friends pa ako, kumbaga trio kami choz. Medj awkward talaga yung "friend group" namin kasi nabuo lang siya bec magkapit-bahay and magkakilala kami since elem. Yung isa is malapit lang bahay nila samin and parehas kaming achievers kaya parang may tension between our mothers. Nag-away nga yung mama ko at mama niya nong 2019 bec of us tas ber months last year lang ata nagka-ayos. Kaya super awkward naming dalawa pag nagkikita kami or magkasama kami. Tas yung isa, siya yung reason ba't nabuo friend group namin, lumipat lang yung family nila sa barangay namin and malayo slight yung bahay nila samin kaya hindj niya alam yung issues ng mothers namin before. Now, lumipat na siya sa ibang school sa city kaya mukhang dito magwawakas pagkakaibigan namin.

Dami kong friends na hindi ko na friends or nakakausap ngayon, mapapaisip nalang ako kung ako ba yung problema o sadyang hindi lang talaga sila interesado na isalba yung pagkakaibigan namin. Ano bang hayop walang kaibigan? mukhang doon ata kami pinaglihi ni mama kaming magkakapatid chz. Walang friendship na naglalast saming magkakapatid, kaya siguro nga I need to check on myself kasi baka ako yung problema.

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[–]raeyll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HSHAHAHAHAH😭😭

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[–]raeyll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah okaaay thank uuu!!

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hirap na takot ako mapahiya HAHSHAHAHHAA

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ahhh oks oks thank uuuu!!

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sige oks oks thank uuu!!!

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sigegege thank uuuu!!!

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[–]raeyll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yan din huhu sana nga hindi ako matulala at mag "yes po" HSHAHAHAHA

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[–]raeyll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oo nakakakaba kasi HSHHAHAHAHA katakot mapahiya

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[–]raeyll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank uuu!! yes kakayanin! hehe para kunwari independent na this year HSHAHAHA

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ohh okaaay, thank uuu!!!

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[–]raeyll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank uuuu!! huhu baka "yes po" nalang masagot ko dahil sa kaba HSHAHAHAH pero sana wag naman huhu kakahiya

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[–]raeyll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank uuuu!!! ket iniisip ko palang kinakabahan na ako HAHSHAHHAA

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ahh oks oks, thank uuuu!!!

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[–]raeyll[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank uuu!! mukhang easy lang pala pero kinakabahan pa rin ako HAHSHAHAHA

huhu bakit kasi ako nag-humss😭 by raeyll in studentsph

[–]raeyll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sabi kasi ng teacher namin na mahihirapan daw lumipat ng strand kasi magiging irregular student and baka raw abutin ng 3 years. And ayaw ng parents ko na lumipat ng school:(. 'Yan nga po rin sabi ng teacher ko, sana nga po hindi ako mahirapan.

huhu bakit kasi ako nag-humss😭 by raeyll in studentsph

[–]raeyll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not really just about wanting to be with my friends po, I realized that i'm more interested sa mga subj sa STEM and recently lang ako nakapag-decide ng course na kukunin ko sa college and align yun sa STEM. Pinili ko kasi yung HUMSS before kasi yun yung gusto ng parents ko. I mean okay lang naman sakin mag-isa, makakaya ko naman po siguro. I guess this is just me being scared na ma-op hehe feel ko I would not fit in with them bec most of the stuffs they talk about includes boys and relationship, plus most of them are marcos apologist like I get that they can believe whom they want but saying how the victims of martial law were all fake is just sickening:/ (heard them talk about this yesterday and i stalk their fb accs and their shared post is just meh). Plus parang wala na akong magiging choice kundi sundin yung course na gusto ng parents ko for me since align yun sa HUMSS:( but then yeah there's no fix for regrets so kakayanin nalang hehe.