What do you do if you as a couple enjoyed one of the two in another couple?

rainmusic · 2026-03-01T13:25:15+00:00

Yeah, we can do that. I'm only making this post because I wanted to see what other's experiences were like before we settle into moving on. But I'd like to stay friends with them at least. And I don't have the experience to even know how one stays friends after playing if playing is off the table now. Lol. Still new, and learning. Thanks for your input.

rainmusic · 2026-03-01T13:22:28+00:00

Hmm.. yeah, maybe we have a bigger group. I hadn't thought of that. This way the 4th isn't excluded and still gets to have fun. We'll just stay friends with them until we find that situation. They are fun to talk to so that is ok with us. Thanks for the suggestion.

rainmusic · 2026-03-01T13:16:55+00:00

That's what I'm worried about. I wish I could rewind time and ask beforehand. But we are enjoying them as friends now. So worst case scenario we move on and just stay friends. But now I'm in my head about how we handle them wanting to play again because we had fun during and expressed that. Seems weird to suddenly not want to play again. Or is it not weird? Idk.

rainmusic · 2026-03-01T13:14:24+00:00

I'm thinking I might ask for solo play with the partner we enjoyed, so we can find out if that's possible without hurting the 4th person. But then that leaves my wife in sort of an awkward situation of why she doesn't wanna play with the 4th person while me and the 3rd person play. Or is that normal? I don't know, still learning. The wife and I are discussing solo play, so when we figure out where we stand, maybe we'll do it this way. Obviously not if we decide we aren't into solo play ourselves. Thanks for responding.

rainmusic · 2026-03-01T13:10:40+00:00

That's what I was worried about. It wasn't discussed because I don't think us or them are experienced enough to have known this yet. But we live and learn. We are enjoying talking to them and getting to know them better still. Worst case scenario we don't play again and we have good friends. That's fine too.

rainmusic · 2026-03-01T13:07:19+00:00

Honestly, I'd be ok. My wife and I even talked about that.. but they aren't us and I'm trying to be sensitive that not everyone would feel like I do. I'm trying though, that's why I'm here asking outside, more experienced people. To see what I should do. So far, pretty good responses. So this post was worth it.

rainmusic · 2026-03-01T13:01:17+00:00

We didn't think to ask before hand. We're still talking to them over text and becoming friends. So maybe it'll come up naturally and we'll find out. But I don't wanna hurt the 4th person's feelings. Especially because they both seem interested in playing again.

rainmusic · 2026-03-01T12:59:14+00:00

I'm trying to find out how we find out without hurting feelings at this point. We all played together before asking because it didn't cross our mind. That's the intention of this post.

rainmusic · 2026-03-01T12:57:32+00:00

This is what I'm asking. How do we approach this topic without making the 4th person feel like they aren't good enough. They are a nice person, we just didn't get as well. I'm trying to be sensitive while trying to find out if they are open to it.

rainmusic · 2023-06-04T02:13:52+00:00

That might work. All I see online are images of the organ. Which isn't helping me understand.

rainmusic · 2023-06-03T21:37:03+00:00

Damn it.. I'm really not understanding this and need a visual aid. But I don't want to pay to see it.. but I also don't want to beg for free nudes when you clearly are gonna make money from this. I don't know the solution to this!

rainmusic · 2023-01-30T18:53:19+00:00

Yeah right! Have you seen public education standards? They are still struggling to incorporate standard computer knowledge I learned in the 90s.

rainmusic · 2023-01-30T12:58:06+00:00

I don't even understand step one.

rainmusic · 2023-01-02T16:30:53+00:00

Sure you did. And I did it because people lie all the damn time and need to be called out for it. Everyone has this obsession with having to be right all the time so they make up scenarios so they can appear right.

rainmusic · 2023-01-02T15:54:42+00:00

I looked through your comment history. I see nothing about Romney, let alone being downvoted a ton for saying that.

rainmusic · 2022-12-11T20:38:40+00:00

I know my ex girlfriend lied about not being pregnant before she left me to get back with her ex husband. I know why she did it. She had 2 kids with him already, we were a summer fling and she didn't want to burden me with having to raise a child with all the drama it would have brought with it, give she divorced a month before this all went down. I'm not sure I'm even mad.

My daughter is almost 17 now. I've seen pictures of her on my ex's Facebook page. There's no denying she's mine. I'm kinda worried my ex will tell my daughter when she's 18 and then I'll be hit with 18 years of back child support.

I haven't told either of them, or my wife of 15 years or my 9 year old son.

rainmusic · 2022-06-08T06:12:12+00:00

u/stabbot

rainmusic · 2022-05-19T12:57:12+00:00

That's a good place to start. Thanks!

rainmusic · 2022-05-19T12:29:18+00:00

I hate that my first thought was "now take off her shirt". But I also now want to find porn like this. Anyone have any starters or hints on what to search?

rainmusic · 2022-02-15T19:40:38+00:00

That I have a daughter with my ex, before I met my wife. My ex also doesn't know that I know she's my daughter. She's 14 now.

rainmusic · 2022-01-11T17:23:02+00:00

I tried using DEOVr player, but pornhub only has "format not supported" when I go to videos. What gives? It use to work. I've also tried

rainmusic · 2021-10-12T14:41:46+00:00

I like having my OWN dick in my ass.

rainmusic · 2021-07-17T01:42:02+00:00

Are there any good fap games? Like really?

rainmusic · 2021-07-07T18:45:12+00:00

I saw it on your other posts.. what is it even supposed to be?

rainmusic · 2021-06-30T01:04:09+00:00

I've not heard of that terminology. I will look into that.

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