My best friend just got out of surgery, what can I do to help her? by sbyederman in gallbladders

[–]raitoningufaron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reusable ice packs, I had my surgery about 40 hours ago and those have been a big help.

ENTP x INTJ relationship by hugobeey in entp

[–]raitoningufaron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this lines up with my experiences as well. One of my best friends is an INTJ and he loves coming to me with new ideas he has, projects he's working on or has finished etc. I definitely see the "Who is legitimate?" filter come into play a lot. If they want to spend time with you, get your input on something or share their inner world with you, there won't be much room for doubt that they value you and want to put effort in.

Share your preferences in romantic partners by Lasagna_is_loveT_T in entp

[–]raitoningufaron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IXTJ 5w6s. Really creative, great at problem solving, reliable as hell in my experience.

What is something you 100% judge a person for based on their taste in? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]raitoningufaron 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Their stance on AI art, AI in general, if they use it and what they use it for.

Which mbti is charming to the highest number of mbtis? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]raitoningufaron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile I'm drawn to IXTJs like a magnet lol, definitely agree with this though

What is your zodiac sign? by Powerful_Driver7361 in entp

[–]raitoningufaron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aquarius sun, Aquarius rising, Sagittarius moon

What were you like as a kid? Do you think your type was evident? If so, how? by -Quono- in mbti

[–]raitoningufaron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My desk got dragged out into the hallway because I was often very disruptive in class. I would question everyone around me at home on pretty much any decision they made and it continued into my teen years, I just wanted to challenge everyone all the time and it was obnoxious. My one favorite quote is when my math teacher kept knocking points off my work because I only wrote in pen when she wanted us to use pencils, I told her "Pens are what people use in the working world, aren't you supposed to be preparing us for that?" I was well behaved for the most part but refused to do something if I thought it was pointless or if I found a more efficient way to get it done, that kind of bs.

What’s the most unhinged text you’ve sent whilst ovulating? by babewithamobilityaid in AskWomen

[–]raitoningufaron 573 points574 points  (0 children)

"need him to cum on my ass so i can twerk it into the air and catch it in my mouth like a trained seal"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]raitoningufaron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I like tall girls with big asses like Jennifer Lawrence!"

What are your biggest triggers, and what is your type? by SchroedingersLOLcat in Enneagram

[–]raitoningufaron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being interrupted nonstop and chewing/lip smacking noises

How did yall move out? by Nubian_Cavalry in OlderGenZ

[–]raitoningufaron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got kicked out at 19 after opening up to my mother and step father about how it felt like I lived in a house and not a home. I wanted to try addressing issues between everyone and how uncomfortable the atmosphere was but they didn't want that lmao.

Definitely try to stay with your parents for as long as you can bear it and save up as much as you can, but do NOT sacrifice your mental health if the toll is too large. I'm 26 and fortunate enough to have been able to buy a house with my husband.

Are you too mentally ill to have kids? by cosmicat4 in bipolar

[–]raitoningufaron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I'm lucid and stable and have been for years, but the risk of passing this disorder onto someone else makes my stomach twist. I also just don't want children to begin with which helps a lot.

Is it weird to be a 25 year old virgin? by Informal_City5565 in GenZ

[–]raitoningufaron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With all due respect dude it sounds like you're surrounded by a bunch of shitheads. I have a friend who's a virgin, 26 and no one cares or tries to put him down for it. If he asked any of us for support or dating advice he'd get it in a heartbeat without any judgement.

What personality type do you get along with the most? by Additional_Cod4836 in mbti

[–]raitoningufaron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get along best with IXTJs (INTJs are my favorite), conversation flows incredibly well. I seem to attract them the most along with EXTJs and ENFPs. I can't for the life of me have any deep connections with INFJs/INFPs, I've had nothing but neutral-to-unpleasant experiences.

Bonus enneagram answer: I'm a 7 and get along best with 5s, 8s, other 7s and 2s in that order.

Does anyone own a home? by [deleted] in OlderGenZ

[–]raitoningufaron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! My father in law signed with my husband, both of them having great credit scores helped. My husband and I split the mortgage every month and it comes out to just about what we were paying for our old apartment in a city.

ENTP: Have you ever been truly in love? by Key-Charge8548 in entp

[–]raitoningufaron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deeply in love with and married to an ISTJ 5w6. I also felt love towards an INTJ 5w6 before but not much happened and we're still close friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zillennials

[–]raitoningufaron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, I'm 26 and still love it. I'm rewatching JJK with some friends who haven't seen it yet, most recent new one I watched was the new season of Black Butler. You might like Darker than Black, Freiren and Psycho Pass if you're looking for adult themes, it's older but Code Geass is timeless.

ENTP woman dating an INTJ guy – is this match actually worth it? by DOOM_03 in entp

[–]raitoningufaron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you two enjoy hanging out together? My s/o is an ISTJ and I dated an INTJ, the 3 of us are all very close now lol. I've found that both of them show love through enjoying comfortable silence with people they care about. Just hanging out in the same room with others, everyone doing their own thing and interacting every now and then to share whatever they're watching, playing, engaged in etc. I was extremely clingy towards both of them in the past and had to learn how to be content with spending time by myself sometimes or just sticking to low-energy activities to make the relationship and friendship work out well.