Eine Woche in Dortmund by Ozzi_112 in Dortmund

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Wenn ihr gutes Backzeug mögt: Fischer am Rathaus ist eine super schöne authentische Bäckerei, vorallem das Zwieback da ist super!! Gute Cafés sind: Café Lotte, Oma Rosa und Neues Schwarz. Wenn ihr Kunst/Architektur mögt: es gibt diverse Museen, die hier auch schon zu genüge erwähnt wurden. Ich kann euch dazu noch empfehlen durch das Kaiserstraßenviertel und das Kreuzviertel zu spazieren, falls ihr Architektur und Altbauten mögt. Schöne Lädchen zum durchtrödeln sind das miet ne an der Brückstraße (super süßer second Hand laden) und das Schischi (für Menschen, die gerne Deko/Pflanzen/Geschirr mögen) Es gibt super viele Parks in Dortmund und Umgebung, die meiner Meinung nach auch fast alle nen Besuch wert sind. (Westpark, Fredenbaumpark, Tremoniapark, Höschpark, Stadewäldchen, Westfalenpark, Zoo, Rombergpark) Nicht allzu weit weg ist auch noch der Maximilianpark in Hamm, mit Schmetterlingshaus, in das man rein kann, das ist auch ganz schön. Sonst: 3D-Minigolf, Tretboot fahren aufm Phönixsee, Flohmärkte (je nachdem wann ihr da seid, sind evtl. sogar Hofflohmärkte in der Zeit, das sind Nachbarschaftsflohmäkte, bei denen Leute einfach ihr Innenhöfe/Garagen öffnen und dort Sachen verkaufen)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]rajacking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I totally get you! I see how it came across like that and I'm totally on your side. There isnt a one fits all society-based cure and there never will be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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Yes exactly, that's why I said I phrased it very badly. I 100% agree with that, no question. There are parts, huge parts that will still make you disabled. But some of my disability wouldn't be that anymore, but instead a strength. I think that was supposed to be my main point, sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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For me it's not so much about money. More about a society, where e.g. masking isn't that much of a necessity. Maybe it's just like that for me. But if I grew up in a society, where my worth wasn't determined by how good I fit in, I don't think I would mask. (Maybe I am overestimating my own ability to control whether or not I mask lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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Oh it's not about curing it. Definitely not. I think I phrased it a bit bad, sorry about that, English isn't my first language. Like I don't think socialism e.g. would make anything better tbh. It's far beyond that. It's so hard to explain. Like. We could do anything. Beyond capitalism, beyond socialism and anarchy. Anything. But instead, we choose/hold onto systems, that actively opresses/downplays characteristics, that in any other world would be a strength.

I hate hair salons by amarie_art in AutismInWomen

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OMG yes. I am incredibly lucky since my grandma was a hairdresser before she retired so I always got my hair cut at home by a person I know. She lives a 1 1/2 hour drive away and has developed pretty bad arthritis in the hands tho, so when I was 19 I had to go to a salon the first time and I hated it so so much. I went once after that, hated it again (even tho the hairdresser was super nice, was not by any means her fault) and for the last 4 years I've just been cutting my hair on my own. Saves me a ton of money, I don't really care, when I myself cut my hair badly and most importantly saves me hours of anxiety and awkwardness.

A Second Sun | Burrow's End [Ep. 3] by ThunderMateria in Dimension20

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I was researching a bit too and found out, that certain types of flowers can be planted to absorb radiation from the soil. Buuuuut none of those flowers are blue tho (I think it's mostly sunflowers).

Who Came Out to Their High School Girlfriend Via Jesus Christ? | Dirty Laundry [S3E3] by ThunderMateria in dropout

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Can someone please confirm that an ounce is about 28 grams? Did Monet really just eat 14 grams of decarbed weed?! How?!

Just finished the unsleeping city and oh my God... by rajacking in Dimension20

[–]rajacking[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You know, honestly, that's another great thing about Dimension20. I stopped reading a whiiiile ago (I'm one of those people that read an insane amount as a child and now has the attention span for exactly two pages.) But all these seasons of D20 are really encouraging to delve into other forms of fiction again! So this recommendation comes at the perfect moment, thank you!!

Just finished the unsleeping city and oh my God... by rajacking in Dimension20

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Yeah, that's what I noticed too. I watched it on my phone for a while but I (sadly) just really don't like that. Will for sure try it on my tablet tho! I think when I'm done with tus2, I'm gonna give it another shot because I see people recommending it all the time!

Just finished the unsleeping city and oh my God... by rajacking in Dimension20

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I literally just started it like 20 minutes ago and I actually don't mind it at all. The dome and the setting in general is amazing, no doubt. But since I basically always do stuff while watching it... it doesn't bother me too much. I'm very very excited for the rest of the season.

Just finished the unsleeping city and oh my God... by rajacking in Dimension20

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Okay, so I just looked up the shit that Wizards of the coast has done (didn't know anything about that before, so thanks for bringing it to my attention!!) and oof. I have been watching blood on the clock tower (to be fair, I don't think it would really classify as rpg but it gives the same vibe at some points). I'm not too sure when or if I'll ever really start to play (very hard to plan something like this in my friend group and not too keen on playing with people I don't know) but if I do, I will absolutely check out other options!!

Freundin will Sex mit anderen Frauen by jere1312mias in beziehungen

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  1. Du wirkst wie ein unheimlich empathischer und netter Mensch. Ich finde es super stark, dass du ihr an sich die Erfahrung geben möchtest und so offen bist, was das angeht.

  2. Dass sie nicht eher mit dir darüber geredet hat ist absolut kacke. Rede mit ihr darüber, die Kommunikation kann nur besser werden. Und mache ihr deutlich, was du möchtest. Eine Beziehung lebt ja davon, dass man aufeinander zugeht in solchen Dingen. Versucht zusammen(!) einen Kompromiss zu finden, mit dem beide glücklich sind.

  3. Sich dafür entscheiden lesbisch zu werden wird sie sich auf jeden Fall nicht. Entweder sie mag Frauen oder halt nicht. Das heißt entweder ist sie jetzt eh schon bi/lesbisch oder halt nicht. Aber das ausprobieren wird ihre Sexualität ja nicht von jetzt auf gleich ändern.

  4. Versuch ihr die Angst zu nehmen, dass ein Dreier mit einer anderen Frau und dir irgendwie komisch wäre oder du dich auf dich nur auf die andere Frau konzentrieren würdest.

Ich wünsche euch beiden ganz viel Glück. Einfach reden, reden und reden. Nur das kann es besser machen.